A Man’s Perspective: Does Vanessa Bryant Deserve Half?

December 21st, 2011 - By nativenotes

 

"vanessa laine"When did y’all stop calling her a gold digger?
Women of all ethnicities have been calling Vanessa Bryant a gold digger since day one. Now all of the sudden women are singing the Whitney Houston “I’m every woman” theme song and raising their fists in solidarity with their downtrodden sister. Spare me the melodramatics. Some, please note the emphasis on the word “some” black women in particular were too through with Kobe for marrying the young Latino girl in the first place but now when his money is a question you’re ready to burn him at the stake. #Suspect

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  • Think About IT

    Well if the question is “Does she “deserve” half, regardless of what the law says?”..then the answer would be no. She really didn’t earn it-she can’t shoot.  However, by law..she does. He could have protected himself, and signed a prenup. He made a bad decision in his 20s-and after that(all that cheating over the years)….I mean, its like he never expected it to happen. He never thought that…maybe she might leave me-and take half. I am sure he is aware of California law-as well as she is. He must have never cared about that 50% or wanted it lol. It all boils down to arrogance and stupidity…and maybe for that…he deserves to loose half. Many people make bad decisions…and are still paying for it…years later. He is no exception. 

  • SWils

    I absolutely DO NOT think that any woman that has not collectively contributed to making the marital fortune grow deserves “half.”  Of course, as a wife and mother, Vanessa definitely deserves a reasonable sum that will allow her to maintain both her and the kids current lifestyle, and I’m sure that Kobe would be more than willing to provide that to her.  The money is not to take care of her family and other hangers-on that I’m sure are looking to benefit from what she will receive.  I read somewhere that she was asking for spousal support, and I cannot fathom for the life of me why she would be inclined to want spousal support if she’s getting half of his fortune anyway! That just stirs the pot on the fact that maybe she does have ulterior motives in sticking it out to the 10 1/2 year mark on their marriage.  It’s definitely suspect that she’d want more money, but that’s just my opinion.  Take that spousal support and donate it to charity instead of Christian Louboutin and Hermes. 

  • reese

    It doesn’t matter if you think she deserves half or not.  Kobe could of avoided all of this with a prenup.  He and his money would be protected, but if he didn’t care enough to do that…………..

  • Me

    Chris Rock said it best:If she deserves half his paper,he deserves half her couchie. Over the years he got used to some action(from her),so he shouldn’t lose that standard of living.

  • FromUR2UB

    Well, first of all, let’s not forget that God allows a way out of the “sanctity of marriage” when adultery is involved. 

    I really don’t care what happens to Kobe Bryant’s fortune.  But, I’ve always thought Vanessa – or at least her mother – was a golddigger, because when I first heard of her, I wondered what kind of mother would allow her teenaged daughter to accept expensive gifts from a man.   Maybe Vanessa was naive, but her mom knew what that meant and what she was doing by letting her daughter take the gifts.  Then Kobe became estranged from his parents when all they were trying to do was protect his interests. 

    For him, it will be a costly lesson.  For Vanessa and her mother, they’re set for life as long as they don’t run through it like water through a sieve.

  • Truthhurts_9

    No wonder men are scared to get married..

  • JQP1172

    She should get half of his earnings and wealth accumulated over the last 10 years. An impartial accountant could calculate the amount. I say this because his divorce settlement will pale in comparison to Mel Gibson’s ex settlement where she got 1/2 of his >$800 million dollar fortune. And she should. They met and got married long before Mel became as rich and famous as he has become. So she was with him every step of the way and based on the # of children he has with her, he probably could not have pursued acting and the accompanying fame and fortune if it had not been her supporting him behind the scenes.

    And this goes for men as well since this focuses on women. If a man had married Oprah long, long ago when she worked as a reported in Baltimore, MD and they divorced now, he should be entitled to 1/2 of her billion dollar empire.

    • Richard

      Like what you are saying, but do not agree with the Oprah scenario.  That is, if he sat on his rear throughout the whole thing.  Say as an example he helped her hone her craft, they were business partners in Harpo productions or whatever it is called.  Then I would agree because they would have worked together to build the fortune and he would have been with her from jump street.  Similar to what you indicated in your Mel Gibson scenario 

      The law is the law though, I just do not understand why people feel they should be entitled to half or more.  I get the feeling though that because the papers have been signed and this pretty much stayed out of the media until recently that she is getting a really good settlement and is well taken care of.  No issue with that.  She not be left out in the cold by any means.

  • Ocean636

    I wouldn’t even want half thats just pure greed.
    She never had to lift a finger through the marriage
    and she knew what was up with Kobe, c’mon folks!
    Get your nice mansion and a little vaca home, child support
    and them alimony settlements, plus a hell of a 401K plan and keep moving,
    HOE