You might have heard about this a while ago, but forgive us for playing catch up–this is too crazy of a concept to pass up on sharing. If you’ve ever found out that your boyfriend or husband was creeping on you, and you know who the other woman is, a site called shesahomewrecker.com (She’s A Homewrecker), is allowing women to publicly shame the woman coming in between their relationships.
The site has allowed many women to go on rants about how because of certain women, their children only get to see their father every other weekend, and many go into detail about how their husbands or boyfriends became distant before their affairs were exposed. The site’s “About” page says the following about how the whole thing works:
“They say if you can’t beat them join them, but we say if you can’t beat them, EXPOSE them! Shesahomewrecker.com is exposing everyone from the Hollywood Homewrecker to the average white picket fence destroying women who just can’t seem to let go of your husbands and boyfriends! Do you have a story to share or a HOMEWRECKER to expose? If so, click the Expose Homewrecker button via the website. Don’t forget to include photos! We LOVE to publish pictures of the Mistress who is driving you mad!”
All kinds of messy right? According to the Daily Mail, the site has exposed more than 500 “other women,” and the state with the most homewreckers on the site so far is Texas with more than 168 women profiled. As the directions go, you are allowed to post the other woman’s name, her PICTURE and even where she’s from. One profile that stuck out to me that was really cold-blooded was this mess below:
“From what this wh*res sister has told me she has a history of destroying families and messing with and sleeping with men who are with other women. She doesn’t have enough self-respect to have her own boyfriend/husband but instead would rather be sneaky and be everyone’s secret wh*re. She was even married to a much younger guy a couple of years ago. Yes, finally someone should’ve owned the rights to that dirty snatch, but she still cheated behind his back to and big surprise, she’s divorced and wh*ring around as always. She’s big into talking about how God plays such a huge role in her life and how much she misses her dad but the sad truth is that with all the nasty sneaky crap she does, I don’t think her dad or God would be too proud of her.”
Yikes! If you’re wondering where the blame for the men goes, the woman behind the site, Ariella Alexander, made an announcement recently to let the world know that hesahomewrecker.com is on its way:
“Now taking submissions for the cheating MAN that broke your heart!!! Hesahomewrecker.com will be launching in a few days!! Get your story in now!!!”
The messiness of all of this is astounding. I understand women wanting to have support as they deal with their partner’s infidelity, and when you’re mad at the other woman you want to read her to filth, but as my co-worker said, what’s really the point of a site like this? What are folks really hoping to achieve? It’s one thing to vent, and it’s another to expose people and their personal business (along with your own). And clearly some people agree, because a Change.org petition was launched in the summer in the hopes of shutting it down. It’s all a bit much if you ask me. What do you think?