From YourTango
I like to think that I am an optimist. Most of the time, my first reaction is to assume that things will work out ok, even if I’m not sure how. One challenge that I have faced in my 13-year marriage is that I think my husband tends towards the pessimistic, especially when challenges come up at work. The good news is that there is an easy way for me (and you) to make your significant other happier.
A recent study reports that one third of people would feel more optimistic about life if their partner showed them more commitment. Really? Just show my S.O. that I am committed to him and the relationship and voila, optimism increases? Done.
Here are ten easy ways to demonstrate to your partner that your commitment will stand the tests of time. In addition to making your partner happier, you’ll get a warm fuzzy feeling too!
- Don’t threaten to leave. This may seem self-evident, but nothing shows a lack of commitment like talking about bailing. We’ve all been there–the argument gets heated, and its the same argument you’ve had a thousand times. Your mind starts to think “My life would be so much easier if I were gone. . .”. While its completely normal to have these thoughts, sharing them out loud (or even subconsciously) does nothing for the level of commitment your partner feels from you. So the next time you have thoughts about leaving, keep them to yourself. Cool down, and then make a list of all the great qualities your partner has.
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