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According to the latest numbers, the Great recession is over! And while we’re not completely buying it, it occurs to use that some of our Mesdames may actually be starting your first days of a new job. Well for the ones who are still figuring out the fastest way to the restrooms and where your post-it stack looks best, here are some tips on going from outcast to insider.
Crack your shell In your first couple of days, be sure to introduce yourself to the people in the office- and not just the ones you work for. The guy across from you may never work on a joint project with you but he needs to know your name. Also, get in good with the least suspecting folks- you never know what night you’ll forget your phone and need the security guard who’s name you never asked for to let you back in.
Make yourself available When it comes to dating, this is the anti-rule, but in your first weeks at the office, it is a must. Volunteer to join a project, say yes to invites for happy hours and in general be around to help out. By doing these little things, you send a signal that says, “I want to be here, and I want to be here for a long time.”
Listen before you speak Joining in the office gossip is kind of a double-edge sword. While it may make you feel included, it can also give you an impression of people that isn’t necessarily true. That said, even if you’re being mute, it doesn’t mean you have to be a dummy. Listen to what is being said and glean from it what you need. Being in the loop can help keep you in the know and in the clear.
Avoid falling into the cliques Every office has its own dynamic, circles of influence, lunch buddies, etc. While finding a group of people with whom you feel comfortable can help put you at ease, remember that this is not Clueless. Cliques are very “high school” and can be a way of sectioning off yourself from people who can help you along. Don’t be in too much of a rush to give up the ‘loner’ label…keep your own perspective.
