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“Marriage is not something anyone should consider entering into on a whim. In our modern Western society, marriage is not just a contract, as many of you pro-marriage people constantly state, it’s a lifelong covenant of love between two people who are emotionally, spiritually, and physically committed to each other. The idea that having a baby with someone should automatically supplant those necessities and result in emotional indentured servitude is ludicrous. If there is one thing I know about family structures, it’s that children are acutely aware of the health of their parents’ relationship. When a marriage is built from pressure or obligation, instead of passionate commitment, then one party is eventually going to become resentful. And when that relationship starts to decline, it will be the child who notices it more than anything else. Even worse, it will be that very same child who embodies the emotional dysfunction they witness, and it will mark how they carry on their own relationships. Truth be told, I think there is nothing better for a child than to grow up in a healthy family system with two loving and married parents, but I also believe there is nothing more damaging than seeing their parents struggling to live a bitter lie of love.I find Blades’ logic perfectly reasonable and basically accurate – although it could be legitimately argued that parenthood and child-rearing should require the same forethought and cautious consideration as marriage. But I actually find it hard to imagine a female celebrity having a baby with her boyfriend (à la Nia Long) and NOT inspiring tons of think pieces about the various messages she (and she alone) is sending to young girls about single parenthood. And if Elba had been a single mom, most of those analyses would be about how her motherhood had been a personal moral failure as well as a burden to society – as we all know that single motherhood is synonymous with crime, drugs, laziness and a number of social ills… And yet, single fatherhood is on the rise here in the United States, representing about a quarter of all single-parent families. And just like single mothers, single fathers make less and are less likely to have a full-time job when compared to married dads. But unlike famous single moms, Elba largely gets to skirt around the questions – and even political implications – of how his decisions and behaviors might also be underscoring the decades-long decay of the black family – or even be a contributing factor to single motherhood itself. I think a large part of this has to do with how we iconize single fathers in our culture. Mostly, they are painted as the martyrs of unfortunate relationships (be it by death, crack or through the evil wench leaving town with another man), which resulted in parenthood being thrust upon them. Matter of fact, I think that was the plot to Elba’s film, Daddy’s Little Girls, which is about a poor and gentle single dad of three girls, in a custody battle against the treacherous and manipulative mother of his daughters. In general (as well as real life), single dads are lovable, always gentle men and endearing. They get the benefit of the doubt, as well as the girl in the end, whereas the only thing society is really trying to give single moms is a side eye for being stupid… Now I don’t say this with the expectation or hope that folks will go out and start begrudging every single father they see for ruining the community, including Elba. To the contrary, I think we should stop giving single parents, in general, a hard time, and understand that the only right way to be a parent is to actually be involved (emotionally, financially and physically) in the life of a child. Likewise, I’m certain Elba and Garth are going to do a splendid job as co-parents, which, by the way, is a category that normally gets pushed aside in the “single parent” discussion. With that aside, I do feel like we should also call out the double standard and overall gender biases in how we determine who gets to legitimately be a single parent. At some point, we have to even up the playing field or throw out the rulebook all together.If in your perfect world, people would only have sex in relationships, conceive babies after marriage, and commit to one another long-term before deciding to build a family, that’s GREAT — but please understand that our world is far from perfect, which means that sometimes the best we can do is manage the situation we are in. I don’t know how Idris feels about Naiyana, but as long as he’s committed to being a loving and involved father, nothing more needs to be said on my (or your) part.”
More baby news to share!
Idris Elba and his girlfriend, makeup artist Naiyana Garth, welcomed a healthy baby boy into the world yesterday, and his name is Winston Elba. The actor posted a picture of his newborn son grasping on to his finger and captioned it with “My Son Winston Elba was born yesterday..Truly Amazing :-)”
This news is heartwarming to hear, considering the fact that a while ago, Elba was led to believe by a woman he was seeing for a few years that she was pregnant with his son. He told the press and was super excited, only to find out later that he really wasn’t the father. He spoke about that emotional ordeal in GQ last year:
“It wasn’t immediately obvious—well, it was, because he didn’t look like me,” Elba says. “But it wasn’t immediately obvious what had gone down.
You know, the truth is—like, even admitting it, I’ll probably get laughed at for the rest of my life. But it is just tragic, and it happened.” He looks directly at me when he says this. “But I wasn’t knocked out. I stood right the f**k back up, and I ain’t aiming to take another punch in the face ever again. Do you understand what I’m saying? It happened to me. I moved on.”
Congratulations to Idris and his lady love on their blessing. This little guy is his second child. Elba has an 11-year-old daughter named Isan from his previous marriage.
Idris Elba walked the red carpet with is very pregnant girlfriend Naiyana Garth at the 71st Annual Golden Globes last night. Even though the British actor will always be our chocolate thunder, we must admit that the lovebirds looked stunning together.
The Mandela: Long Walk To Freedom star wore a dark blue Gucci tux. (We were kind of disappointed that didn’t wear one of those bow ties that he recently joked turned him on!) And his lovely lady graced the event in a mother-to-be glow and black gown by British maternity-wear designer Tiffany Rose.
This was our first formal introduction to Naiyana, who reportedly stared dating Elba last March. She tagged along with the him at Harper’s Bazaar Women of the Year awards in London last November, but she had yet to make a debut among the eye candy’s die-hard American fans.
So, who exactly is this woman? HB did some digging for you ladies! Click through the slides to find five facts about the potential new Mrs. Elba.
Read more on Idris Elba’s girlfriend on HelloBeautiful.com
Fret not all those viewers who were starting to wonder why Kerry Washington’s husband is never by her side at award shows. Though Nnamdi Asomugha didn’t walk alongside his expecting wife on the red carpet at the Golden Globes last night, we do know that he was in the building. Thanks to some photographer’s super sleuthing, this candid image of Kerry Washington introducing her hubby to “Fruitvale Station” star Melonie Diaz was caught on camera and, of course, we love it.
Last night was the first time Kerry Washington’s pregnancy was actually confirmed — thanks to the ever-growing baby bump she can no longer hide — and this photo is the first time we were able to see the proudly expectant mother and father. Kerry and Nnamdi weren’t the only expecting couple on the carpet though. Idris Elba also brought his new lady, Naiyan Garth, out to celebrate his “Luther” and “Mandela: Long Walk to Freedom” nominations with him and she looks like she’s even further along than Kerry.
So far neither couple has really acknowledged their pregnancies so we have no clue when they’re due, but trust that we’ll be watching for these baby bumps at the Oscar’s so we can make an educated guess on when these new bundles will enter the world.
After evading questions about his relationship status and whether or not his rumored girlfriend, Naiyana Garth, is pregnant with his baby, “Mandela: Long Walk To Freedom” actor Idris Elba has finally confirmed what most of us had already assumed to be true: he’s about to be a father again. The revelation came during Elba’s Sunday night appearance on Oprah’s Next Chapter.
Idris said that he is, in fact, expecting a child with Naiyana, who is a London-based makeup artist.
“My girlfriend’s having a baby, yes,” he confessed.
Speculation about Idris and Naiyana’s relationship and pregnancy began swirling last month after the two made an appearance together at the Harper’s Bazaar Women of the Year awards last month. Sadly, Idris also revealed that he found out he was going to be a father again shortly after he lost his father, Winston Elba, to lung cancer; a diagnosis which he says shocked his West African family.
“Africans don’t think cancer is something that happens to us,” he said.
This will be Idris’ second child. He also has an 11-year-old daughter named Isan. The sex of the baby has yet to be revealed. We imagine that this has to be a fairly bittersweet moment for the actor, who admits that he hasn’t really given himself time to mourn his father’s passing.
We send our prayers to Idris and his family.
Jazmine Denise is an entertainment and celebrity news blogger. Follow her on Twitter @jazminedenise.
We often say there’s nothing like black love and we’re pretty sure the ladies on this list would completely agree because they’ve taken their love straight back to their roots. Here are 10 celebrity women who have found love dating African men.
Keri Hilson named her last album “No Boys Allowed” but after meeting Oklahoma City Thunder’s Serge Ibaka, she changed her tune. Born in the Republic of the Congo, Ibaka played basketball in Spain before coming to the NBA. Hilson, who is normally very private about her dating life, was rumored to have a new man in her life and after months of speculation, they came out as a couple in late 2012. Still going strong, Hilson was sitting in the stands cheering her man on a couple of weeks ago when he got ejected from the game against the Los Angeles Clippers.
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Ladies, ’tis a sad day for our far-fetched romantic fantasies concerning the chocolate wonder that is Idris Elba. After catching pictures of our favorite British actor out with the woman in the pic above, The Daily Mail is reporting that this is his new girlfriend.
The woman is Naiyana Garth, a London-based hair and makeup artist, and though the source of The Daily Mail’s speculation is The Daily Sun, the story looks rather convincing from pictures of the two at this week’s Harper’s Bazaar Women of the Year awards at Claridge’s Hotel in London. By the way, that’s Idris’s coat cloaked across his lady outside on the curb. Such a gentlemen…
Now on to the potentially scandalous part of all this. Naiyana is pregnant, and from the looks of it about three-four months or so. Depending on the uncorroborated sources, she and Idris have either been together for a few months or several, making the obvious question: Is Idris the father of her child?
We’ll have to wait until Idris decides to speak up on the matter because all we’ve ever gotten from Naiyana are a couple of tweets in October about being early on in her pregnancy and since then she’s left the Twitterverse — another sign she and Idris must be pretty serious.
As I close this post and reminiscence on Idrisa fantasies gone by, I’d like to leave all the other heartbroken women out there with these thoughts from Kevin Hart on being mad at celebrity men when they get boo’d up: “Ask yourself, when you see some people that look happy…..and they’re smiling…and you’re typing these angry comments…..ask yourself ‘are they [also] thinking about you?’”
Sadly, ladies, he’s not…
What do you think about Idris and his new lady?