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It’s perfectly fine to tell your boyfriend he’s a bad communicator, or that he needs to surprise you more. But for some reason, when it comes to the bedroom, asking for a little adjustment can prompt World War III. Or worse, a major drought. But if you’re not sexually satisfied in your relationship, you’ll begin to feel an emotional drift. So how do you talk your sex-ually shy partner into spicing things up, without offending or terrifying him?
After enough men and enough mishaps, you realize that there are some things men just didn’t get the memo on when it comes to the woman’s body. Like these:
Every man appreciates a woman who is willing to switch things up in bed. Especially if you’ve been together for years! But, there is a delicate balance everybody—including men—likes to keep in the bedroom. Some like to be controlled. Some like to control. Some like to be thrown for a loop. Some need to be introduced to new things, slowly. But, there’s nothing worse than a bad surprise in bed. So, for the sake of not potentially freaking out your partner, approach these activities like this.
We’re all busy, so any time you can knock a few things off the to-do list is a good time. Not only do we want to save time, we want to save mental energy—something we spend a lot of on our men, and often, don’t need to. The reality is, we’re more sensitive than they are. It’s the curse of being mutli-taskers. We are also multi-thinkers and are aware of everything, at every moment.
Here are 6 things we put way too much time into for our guys that we just don’t have to…
We can let most of the little passive aggressive comments or teasing roll off our backs. But, there are some things that, when a guy says them, send us into panic mode and ignites way more insecurity than men realize.
You know what I’m tired of? Women who sound out of control. Not that they’re crazy, but just that they aren’t the ones calling the shots. They wonder if he likes this or that in bed, they wonder if he asked them out as a friend or more than a friend, they wonder, they wonder…Try this for a change. Don’t worry about what he likes or what he wants. Say what you want. Take what you want. If he doesn’t want you in return, no big deal. But if he does, he will find it so hot that you had the balls to do this: