Orgasmic Meditation: Spiritual Awakening Or Just A Fancy Fingering?

March 9, 2016  |  

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When most of us think of orgasms, we think of receiving them, hopefully, during sex, with our partners. But according to those who practice Orgasmic Meditation (OM), don’t necessarily equate orgasms with sexual release, but rather a desire to be more connected to your own body, other people and be more present in your everyday life.

Orgasmic meditation occurs when a partner (not necessarily romantic. One woman described her partner as a friend of about a year.) strokes a woman’s clitoris for 15 minutes. Unlike sex, there is no goal to reach a climax. Instead the goal is to feel, connect and be present in the moment. That ability to connect is said to provide a larger state of consciousness and increased intimacy to others in your life.

Naturally, many are viewing the practice as a way for women to get off but this woman, Rachel Tayeb explains that the experience is so much more to her, particularly because a doctor told her she was anorgasmic, that she would never experience an orgasm. Through OM she was finally able to understand what all the hype was about.

And interestingly enough when Youtuber Iman Crosson, the guy who is known for his impersonations of President Obama and former professional soccer player Natalie Spilger observed the experience, Natalie was most struck by the closeness between the woman and her partner. Iman was a bit distracted by the sounds of orgasm but still the experience was more than he thought it was.

And before you dismiss this as “White people ish,” The New York Post video tapped partners Marissa Ward, a Black woman, and Rafael Martinez, a Latino man, completing one of their orgasmic meditation sessions together. You can take a look below. It’s not as graphic as you might think.

Do you believe there’s a spiritual benefit to orgasmic meditation or is it just a fancy fingering?

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  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    $200 for this…smh. I should’ve came up with this idea.

  • hi-liter

    If you’ve never had an orgasim, it would definitely be a spiritual awakening. But if you have orgasims on the regular, just fancy fingering.

  • anonymouse

    White people can make money off of the most stupid bs ever…that’s all that I got out of that.

    • Paradise_Breeze

      My thoughts exactly. Didn’t even look at the videos but when I read the title I know whose idea this was. Like a “professional cuddler”. Who in their right mind would have strange people cuddling them?

  • Annamuffin

    Well that taught me something

    • MsNisha929

      LOL – I said you learn something new everyday! LOL

  • Trisha_B

    So $200 to have someone play with your cl-t for 15 mins?! So I just end up broke & frustrated by the end of the session smh lol

    • bray_tusk91

      So maybe $50 for 30/45 minutes with a money back guarantee? 😉

  • get moving

    What in the entire h€ll is this??!!! Lmao

  • Lex

    $200 to have your man or whoever finger you???? For 15 minutes???? Only in America…

  • Stacy C

    Definitely fancy fingering

  • ok

    Women need to do this by themselves first before they do it with another person