Caught In The Act: I Pretended To Be Another Woman Online And My Boyfriend Tried To Date Me

February 28, 2014  |  



From Essence 

Dr. Sherry,

I’ve been with the father of my twins for four years and I know he is cheating on me. I have the password to unlock his phone and I’ve seen text messages from other women from dating sites. I even got into his Facebook account and saw that he was messaging other women. Then, I checked his
Voicemail and I heard a message from another woman. One day, we got into a fight and he told me that he’d only been with me for the last four years because of our twins. I honestly don’t think he loves me at all; he doesn’t even know I found out all of this stuff.

I even set up a fake profile and he responded to and said he was single. When he used to talk about me to other people at a class he would call me his “baby mother,” not “girlfriend.” Over Facebook, he asked a woman in the class if he can gown down on her. Now, again, he doesn’t know I know all of this. I broke up with him and told him he was free to sleep with whomever, but now he keeps trying to sleep with me! He also denies cheating altogether. What do I do with this liar?



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  • me

    destroy his life

  • MsLadyE

    If I were this woman, I would move on. After she broke up with him, she should have STAYED broken up. She is not his girlfriend; she is his “baby mother” (I HATE that phrase) and nothing else. Do not try to have a relationship with him, even if he tries to convince you to go back to him. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. LOL

  • I_am_a_Gladiator/Scandalista

    Why do women not believe when men practically tell them they aren’t in love with them?

  • Radio Raheem

    Clearly this man isn’t satisfied with you. Either ask him why, adjust your behavior to his requirements or move on.

  • Trisha_B

    “What do I do with this liar?

    Did she really need to ask this question? -___-

    • MsLadyE

      Exactly! People ask these questions because they already know the answers, but don’t want to face the truth.

      • wasteofrace

        People ask these questions cuz they know the answer, but want another person to convince them other wise cuz deep down she still got feelings for said person. Thats wat good sex does to a woman.

      • Guest

        She knows what to do. She lacks the confidence to do it