7 Easy To Miss Signs He’ll Never Commit

January 23, 2014 ‐ By Julia Austin



He has a lot of activities he keeps to himself

He’s never taken you to one of his basketball games, or to his chess group, or to the Sunday brunch meet-up group he’s a part of. There are a lot of regular activities he does that you’re never included in.

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  • sarah

    This list is exactly right & I learnt the hard way! Been out with a few guys like this in the past & they really are complete arseholes who would never commit to me or any girl. Anyone criticising it is probably in denial with a man who’s a commitment phobe or is a commitment phobe man themselves!

  • kiki j

    Typically you can ask a man what they are looking for and they’ll tell you. It’s because women don’t LISTEN to the answer is why this happens. So many times women want more and the man told them from the beginning they were only looking for a friend .ie they wanna smash buddy but the woman always think they can change their minds…nope you can’t. They knew what they wanted and you didn’t accept it, You don’t need to look for signs when they told you from the beginning what they wanted.

  • honoriaglossop

    “He refuses to fight with you.”
    Uh… no. Refusing to engage with someone who is throwing a tantrum is healthy and grown-up behavior. The behaviors of screaming at someone, insulting them and crying your eyes out to manipulate a response is emotionally abusive. I would advise anyone to disengage.

  • slbolfing

    way out of line on the “won’t fight with you” one. Maybe he is just more mature than you!

  • JustMyOpinion

    I think the sex thing is a no starter, should be thrown out. My wife and I were married 43 years – it was the only thing we fought over. Sexual appetite is just like food appetite, everyone’s is different. Sometimes she ate when she wasn’t hungry, sometimes I went to bed with my stomach growling, that is life in a relationship. A good woman can straight up jerk the knot out of a good man. But not all men are good men. Ladies, you just have to learn the difference – and it is usually not based on looks.

  • IgnanzIzBlizz

    Because he won’t argue?! Are you for real? He has an excuse to pick up your stuff?! Maybe he has a late meeting or is stuck in traffic too. And he won’t leave you alone because you won’t give him any?! If he leaves you alone, then you have a problem.

  • Mztisa

    Wayment…how did MN take a list of 7 and spread the content over 15 pages GTFOH!!! SMH Somebody give me a recap lol!

    • Ms. Kameria

      Yes they did. They always do foolishness like this, but I think I figured out the trick to it. Click on every other slide. Usually the next slide is a long, drawn out explanation of the facts, signs, etc. For example, click on slide 2 for fact #1, click on side 4 for fact # 2, and so on…..I don’t click on all of the slides, because I don’t need the drawn out explanation of something that could easily be listed.

      • Mztisa

        Lol thanks! They are always doing the ABSOLUTE MOST!

    • kiki j

      Lol after the third “this is why” i stopped clicking lol

  • Rebbekah

    These are all true, great compilation. I know the one very well where he won’t bring you to his other activities… if a man doesn’t bring you around his friends or to other places he hangs, you are a booty call. I had to learn the hard way.

  • Sharese Hardaway

    This guy just sounds like a butthole…hopefully women can pick up on that kind of jerky behavior and not want him to commit!

  • MiaSara

    The list is kind of weird. Why would any woman make offers and put up with those behaviors from a guy who hasn’t shown his commitment in the first place? Especially the part abt your family trying to help him. Oh well

    • Rebbekah

      One word, DESPERATION. Some women out here (including myself until I learned) are thirsty for male attention. And there’s nothing wrong with that! We’re supposed to desire attention, but most of us grow up in homes where our fathers are absent or may be there physically, but EMOTIONALLY absent, so we seek it from men in the world. We put up with these behaviors because we want that attention more than we want to be treated right. I know this was true for me.

      • kiki j

        Very true and very well said. Most women don’t need signs because they don’t care. I’ve heard women say “I want you to make me feel like you love me even if it’s a lie” . It’s the attention that is craved and it becomed addictive especially if you have “daddy issues.” That’s why I don’t judge some of these ridiculous reality stars. Look into it and you’ll find out they are trying to fill some childhood void, usually daddy.

  • Auntieruckus

    This girl i know has been dating a guy on and iff for about 2 years now. He never introduced her to anyone,he has left her in her car while having lunch with his boys several times,he yelled at her one day and scared her so much she had to call for help,he forbids her to hang out with her friends unless they’re ratchet and has been “about to propose” for a minute bow,yet she picked out her wedding colors and everything,leaving her child with relatives running the streets like she is 21 when she is knocking on 30, i say all this to say,some women will never get happiness because their notion of happiness is to have someone,anyone. I ran far away from her and never came back,i heard she is still doing it…