9 Things I’ll Never Do With My Kids

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August 30, 2013 ‐ By
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Before we get started let me just qualify all of this by saying I don’t have children yet. But I think about kids and how I’ll raise them all the time. And while I know you can never simulate what it’s like to have a child, I am 98 percent certain that these are things I’ll never do with my kids. I’m sure the parents in the house will have some disagreements so do feel free to share in the comments section.

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  • Tonyoardee

    You cant leave little boys alone either, just because shes a girl doesnt mean shes more susceptible to sexual molestation

  • Ridiculous!

    People that curse out their children in public don’t deserve children. Period!

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  • Stella@50

    This was a great article. The last one made me chuckle, while I made it a point not talk bad about my girls father to them. After my 18 year old, had taken ill and had to be rushed to the ER, I was awaken to brand new reality. She was furious that I had called her father, she and my 16 old after the ordeal asked me when I was going to see him for who he was? It was an eye opening moment for me to hear how they felt about him and the things that he had done to me, to them.

  • realadulttalk

    I think people who don’t have kids sound pretty silly when they make such lists. You don’t know what you will and will not do–you don’t know what circumstances you will have at that time. You don’t even know what kind of child you are going to have. I won’t even click to read your silliness.

  • SauceySupreme

    I have no children and agree with all of these things I don’t want my children to hear me curse even at home because we have vocabulary and I don’t want my children to limit their self expression to curses. On the Santa thing totally agree our children should not be disillusioned to think joy and happy family time comes from handouts but should be taught that good behavior mom and dad will reward and bad behavior you get what you need. My parents couldn’t always afford my wants but I am grateful that when they could I didn’t think some happy fat man was reverse burglarizing the world.

  • Jasmine

    Its a sad state of affairs if you would not leave your child with their own grandfather or uncle. I’m not saying leave them with any and everybody but damn. Also why single out girls when boys get molested or raped by people known to them everyday. The point here should be don’t leave your child with any and everybody.

  • kierah

    #1 rule of parenthood: never say never

  • GuestPoster

    FYI…you need to watch the fathers too. Personal experience…

  • enlightenment

    What?! Santa isn’t real?!

  • Jen

    Lol at the notion of someone with no kids say what they want do as a parent ……. Nice list and all but let’s be real here. I can’t believe I wasted my time reading this smh. I can see this chick being a text book mom

  • Anaia

    I don’t need my daughter thinking a fat white man rewards her every year. Christmas is about Jesus, and the spirit of giving. My mother never lied to me, and that is why I can believe her every word to this day.

    • Jen

      Yeah ok we get it. Someone ruined it for you …… sucks to be you. Let a kid be a kid and quit trying make children be serious at a young age. It take away their fun…. that’s the problem with this world. We want to teach kids grown up things to quickly smh … Let a kid be a kid… There is nothing wrong with kids knowing about santa clause, tooth fairy etc…..

      • Anaia

        Tooth fairy too? You’re a pathetic liar. My parents never lied and I always excited for Christmas. You’re obviously inexperienced when it comes to children.

        • Chas

          LOL ya know I think its okay if you don’t want to allow your children to partake in childhood traditions but I think it robs them of learning about the value of traditions and imagination. Santa and the tooth fairy are FOR children and I hope that at the very least you teach your children not to ruin it for other children who do believe and participate in it

          • Anaia

            I don’t have to lie to my children in order for them to be happy. My childhood was perfect. It’s sad that parents don’t have enough confidence to raise their kids without implementing lies.

            • Chas

              Its not about implementing lies its simply a childhood tradition that they will simply grow out of like and old pair of jeans. I’m a very confident parent and plan on going along with my child’s belief in Santa when that time comes, its definitely not a matter of confidence. I don’t believe anyone was ever damaged from their childhood belief in Santa or really thought of it as being lied to. I understand your reasoning I just sincerely hope you teach them not to ruin for other children because some parent take it seriously and theirs no point in hurting some kids holiday.

        • realadulttalk

          I have a child–so what would you tell me? Perhaps you should take a parenting class and realize how jacked up your childhood really was.

          • Anaia

            LOL! I had the best childhood anyone could ever ask for. It’s sad that you people really believe your chften won’t be happy unless you lie to them. Smh.

    • realadulttalk

      So basically your mom robbed you of a fun childhood. Congrats on growing up jaded!!!

  • Dee

    If your children turn out to be gay, you have failed them

    • Chas

      If you judge your child for something they can’t help then you have failed them

      • Dee

        People are not born gay. I see you too have been brainwashed by the media.

        • Chas

          Its not about being brainwashed by anyone or anything that’s my opinion. I have plenty of gay friends and I’ve talked to them about how they feel and what they go through being gay, and who would know better than someone who is? I don’t chose my sexual orientation its just what i’m naturally attracted to. I don’t chose to like the color pink or love chocolate I just do. Why would it be impossible for someone to naturally be attracted to the same sex? I believe that everyone is born different and not everything we do has an influence behind it. I had a happy childhood, wonderful Christian parents who against homosexuality, never been molested or abused in anyway as a child and I have also been attracted to the same sex before. Its not a choice I just think some people are so against homosexuality and think its so taboo because they cant relate and have been taught that its wrong. And that’s okay too because your entitled to that and I can respect your opinion although I would feel sorry for any gay child you may have because clearly they would be short a parent at no fault of their own. But anyway you can keep your attitude not everyone is going to agree with your stance on homosexuality but they will agree that considering your child failed because of what they like behind closed doors is pretty wrong.

          • Dee

            You felt the need to write a novel. I’ll just make it short and sweet. Gay is unnatural, and defenitely a choice. Have a good day.

            • Chas

              U know I’m fine with a friendly debate and I can respectfully agree to disagree without disrespecting your opinion but your need to be an a** is unnecessary and childish. I have my opinions and you have yours. Don’t comment on things you cant be adult about I was just explaining my opinion. Have a great day as well.

              • Dee

                Funny how you mention the word a** while we’re discussing gays, seeing as though sodomy is their core belief. I don’t care how u feel about my opinion, gays always become upset when you don’t bow to their beliefs. It’s immoral.

                • Chas

                  LOL no that’s clearly you. I feel like someone should be monitoring your internet use because you sound 12. I’m fine with your beliefs its you who is upset about mine.

                  • Dee

                    And feel that everything you say is basically invalid. The irony in calling me a child, is that you are going back and forth with me. So how old does that make you? How a out you pretend to be grown and don’t respond :-)

                    • Chas

                      Why don’t you take your own advice? Because I came at you respectfully and your the one being rude. U can disagree just do it like an adult. Its not like your clever or funny just rude for no reason

                    • Dee

                      You seem offended. Don’t be. This is a blog, where people express their views daily. Why would you take someone else’s comments so personal? I don’t. I’m just very strong in my beliefs. But since you’re so hurt perhaps you shouldn’t rebuttal.

                    • Chas

                      LOL i’m not hurt and as I said before I respect your stance on the issue. Your making things up now. All i’m saying is you don’t have to be rude and u were being rude. You do not have to agree with me and I wasn’t trying to convince you to I just explained why I believe what I believe. But its whatever

              • Dee

                Funny how you mention the word a** while we’re discussing gays, seeing as though sodomy is their core belief. I don’t care how u feel about my opinion, gays always become upset when you don’t bow to their beliefs. It’s immoral.

    • realadulttalk

      I hope you have not and do not plan to reproduce.

      • Dee

        I hope you shut the he!! up. You are decensitzed to believe that people are born gay. You obviously have gay children, and that’s just a burden you have to bear. Sorry.

    • Danielle

      Nope. You have failed them by choosing to reproduce. Glad to see that the love you have for your children is based on their sexual orientation. Straight= I love you, gay= you’re dead to me. Great parenting dee

      • Dee

        Thank you. I know I’m a great parent. People like you are why society is so accepting to this immoral behavior. Just keep your sodomy kids away from mine.

  • Chas

    I totally disagree with the Santa thing and I think that most people would change their mind once they hear their child talk about how excited they are about Santa. Its just a phase children go through. No one turned out to be a misguided adult because of their belief in Santa as a child. It teaches kids to believe and have faith in things they cant see. I remember being so excited about the present or 2 under the tree that said love Santa. Its all a part of the magic of being a kid. Besides how left out is your kid gonna feel when all their friends are excited about Santa and they cant be. Don’t take that away from a child!!!

    • Dee

      How will it teach then to believe in things they can’t see, when one day they’ll realize it was never true to begin with. It actually teaches then not to believe.

      • Chas

        I guess I feel it teaches them to believe in their imagination, traditions and also what Santa symbolizes. And its much easier to explain to a child if you tell them how the Santa thing started when they realize a fat guy with a beard never really made it down the chimney lol. To each their own as far as how they raise their children I just think its a pretty big part of childhood and a great memory they get to look back on. I’m very grateful my family went through the trouble of making sure I believed in something that sparked my imagination.

  • Just saying!!

    I don’t have any kids as of yet, but I’m also a little skeptical about lists that say “I WOULD do this” or “I would do that” because regardless of how sure you are, you don’t really know and you aren’t there yet. Idk it just seems a little presumptuous to me and almost like “this is how it’s supposed to be done cuz these other parents are doing it wrong”. Not that they’re bad points (the only one I strongly agree with is Santa). But I don’t like when people say “well if that were me, this is what I would do”. You don’t know that. You don’t have any children.

    • Benita Marie Hannah

      Thank you for this comment. I have kids and I know I don’t have it all figured out yet myself either, but when I listen to people without kids talk about this subject, I just listen because you (myself included) can only speculate what you would or wouldn’t do when it comes down to it. There are variables to life that don’t even come into consideration until the situation arises even more so when you are a parent.

      On the other hand I don’t totally disregard the suggestions from people JUST BECAUSE they don’t have kids of their own. Sometimes they have good advice or at least a different perspective and possibly some experience with dealing with kids on a regular basis. It’s definitely not the same as having your own and it still counts to some extent but BABIES CHANGE EVERYTHING so you really don’t know what you’d do.

    • Dee

      You strongly agree with the Santa point, but not the cursing them out in the street? Wow.

  • Momma Dee Tha Q.U.E.E.N

    I agree with 9 most of all. My mom raised us not to call every man Uncle such n such… I don’t feel comfortable to think a young girl is left alone with any man that isn’t her father… I just don’t get a good vibe, I just read the other article by Ilyana and I said the same thing… The world is full of sickos… the sickos, unfortunately, can be women too… I can’t…

  • Laine

    I agree with everything on the list, but want to add that boys should also not be left alone with strangers. They get molested too. I want to add to that list that I wouldn’t perm my children’s hair. I aso wouldn’t force them to go to church or force them to accept my religion whatever that may be.

    • Just saying!!

      Hallelujah! All brilliant points!! I concur! :)

    • adiatc

      @ Laine Yes! Yes! Yes!

    • Anaia

      Right, because church is such a evil place that demoralizes you. Smh. Parents like you that do t instill a foundation in their children is the reason they grow up to be murderers, pedophiles, etc. the least you can do is teach them to believe in God.

      • Laine

        I never said church or God were bad, but I wouldn’t FORCE something that I believe in, on someone else. They need to make a genuine choice for themselves. If I believed in a higher power (which I do), I would tell them about that. But the choice to attend church, or also believe in that higher power I would leave up to them,

        • Anaia

          What a shame. God will deal with you for not choosing to rest your children correctly. Hopefully they’ll meet someone one day who will love them enough.

          • Dee

            She doesn’t believe in a higher power, because if she did she would instill that in her children. She has no faith. And when her children have hard times, they won’t even know who to pray to. Sad.

            • hollyw

              A just argument are those that force a religion onto someone before they are too young to know the difference or to do anything about it (note: this is different from teaching), are the ones actually lacking in faith, not the other way around. You completely misconstrued what she said to him in the stone-throwing with the other. Very poor examples of Christian behavior, you two…

              • Dee

                Ummm, we didn’t even ask for you to mediate lol! If you do t acknowledge Jesus Christ then you’re not a Christian. She believes in a “higher power.” That already let’s you know she’s not a Christian. So please SHUTUP

                • hollyw

                  You are so ignorant, it makes no sense. You honestly believe you are the proper representation of a Christian in these blogs, when you can’t even read well enough to understand commentors’ posts, one, judging others, two, and then either d@mning others who disagree with you or telling them to “SHUT UP”, huh. Very mature and Christian-like, indeed.

                  Please find the nearest exit, a pew, then ask God for forgiveness for your transgressions as well as wisdom of the tongue and insight into your own actions. Good luck.

          • hollyw

            Are you for real?? “God will deal with you”; umm God’s going to be dealing with you, judgmental sistah, and a lot sooner, too! As a Christian, you are beyond foul and ignorant. What, you forgot one of the main rules (only God can judge) AND the Golden Rule (Do unto Others…)??

            How dare you presume to speak on God’s judgment, it is the #1 thing Christians get twisted.This could have been your chance to testify, but instead you chose to fearmonger. God will judge accordingly, and does not need reminders from you.

            • Farrah

              Amen to that!

              • Anaia

                Don’t even put a amen in your mouth. Hypocrite.

                • Farrah

                  I will do whatever I want. And by criticizing people on this page for their beliefs and sitting in judgment over them, you put yourself on the same level with GOD. You tell people that GOD will deal with them – well, he will deal with you, too, for presuming to know what HIS plans are. Hypocrite.

            • Anaia

              Please don’t pretend to know the bible. It’s distasteful. All these atheists and gay supporters on this blog are cheering you on. Dealing with you is a waste of time. So glad you weren’t my parent. Go to bed. And I’m defenitely not your sister.

              • hollyw

                Oh please, with the fake disdain. Talking about it’s a waste of time and go to bed when you’re the one on here b/c you know you’re WRONG. I’d rather be distasteful (which I’m not), than in sin and judgement like yourself, ma’am, and could care less who cheers or boo, though if I had to pick b/w you or them, it’d def be them.

                If it’s too many “atheists” and “gay supporters” for you sister than you should have enough knowledge of the Bible to either speak Christianlike about it (note: NOT as if you were God) or keep your mouth shut so as to not give other Christians a bad name. Goodday.

      • Maggie

        What irony . . many murderers in prison went to church and believe in god. Pedophilia is worldwide knowledge now thanks to the church. So as you see, morals and god do not go hand-in-hand. Parenting skills and morals do.

        • Anaia

          You sound unbearably stupid. Morals are apart of being good, and that is what God represents. I have no patience for arrogant atheists.

          • Maggie

            so pointing out irony is stupid? And the irony that I speak of is no small matter. What is arrogant about that?

      • Danielle

        Umm… No. It’s parents like YOU who do that. Do you honestly think kids want to be forced into religion. And that’s why all preacher kids turn out to be so “holy” and respectful. I hope you can note the sarcasm in my voice..

        • Anaia

          You obvious haven’t lived enough life to understand this topic. I am a preachers kid, and turned out to be happy and successful, my brother did also. Children need boundaries, morals, and a strong foundation. If they didn’t need parents they’d grow from the ground like plants. I Feel sorry for your kids

      • Clara

        Wow. Your comment sounds evil. From your post you sound like one of the many “Christians” who think they’re a Christian but are the devil himself in disguise. Guess “Christians” nowadays are just evil and hateful. Think you need to start reading the bible again and actually learn something.

        • Anaia

          Right, because telling someone r to go to church is being a devil in disguise. LOL! Shutup, you sound so uneducated. Oh, and go to church.

      • Clara

        Wow. Your comment sounds evil. From your post you sound like one of the many “Christians” who think they’re a Christian but are the devil himself in disguise. Guess “Christians” nowadays are just evil and hateful. Think you need to start reading the bible again and actually learn something.

  • HollyBee

    I agree with all the points on the list except the Santa thing. I have kids and yes, while they were little we did the Santa thing. They realised Santa wasn’t real when they were about 9 years old but we kept up the pretence (well, the kids did!) of ignorance because Santa was what Christmas was about (and Jesus, of course). The other thing I would add to the list is smacking. My parents are West Indian and we got some hard core licks when I was growing up. I vowed never to hit any of my kids nor would I allow anyone else to hit them. I have have had to hit them because explaining why they should or shouldn’t do things is much more effective. Well, it works for me anyway!

  • Bits

    Love this list…especially 3, 5 and 10. Now the cussing thing lol. I totally agree with the fact that parents should not completely cuss their children out like they are grown men in a bar brawl but sometimes…SOMETIMES…kids can take you there and a parent might have a cuss word or two slip out…like a ‘sit yo a$$ down” or a “shut the hell up” but no further than that. This is especially true for single parents. The patience can run a little thin when its just and your kids ALL THE TIME. love da kids though!

  • Angel89

    I also do not have any children of my own yet…now I agree with everything on the list except for the Santa thing & mostly for the exact reasons you stated lol…not only for the innocence but for the memories as well..of course there’s a certain age to let them know but while they’re young seeing the excitement in their eyes is the best…out of all of the things I’ve found out & what was said to me as a child, finding out Santa wasn’t real wasn’t the most damaging lol…
    I’ve always wondered why parents who don’t want their children believing in Santa celebrate Christmas or the act of giving gifts on that day at all..you can do that any day of the year if that’s the case & most don’t celebrate it for the religious aspects..lol I’m sorry I’m so “in my emotions” about that subject but my youngest nephew’s mother did the same thing claiming she was just going to celebrate Jesus & didn’t want some fat white man to take the credit for all of her & my brother’s hard work while still having them take awkward Christmas pictures each year…lol it’s crazy to me but to each their own

    • Bits

      I think for most parents who choose not to introduce the whole Santa thing to their children choose to do so because of the whole lying aspect of it. We tell our children not to lie but then we turn around and tell one of the biggest and most outrageous lies just for fun? For most people when they finally have children they realize that its just best to be truthful and focus on the religious aspect of the holiday or the giving/family aspect of the holiday. Same thing goes for the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy. Whats the point when 9 times out of 10 kids will be told the truth by their peers before the parents even get the chance to burst the big bubble.

      • Nia

        I’m not feeling the Santa thing because I feel like if we are hard working parents, the children would need to know that and appreciate it. Also like my dad used to say, “I’m not giving no fat white man credit for what I bought!” LOL

        • Bits

          I agree.

        • Sunshinegirl

          Either way, they are likely to believe or hear something about it when they are young, so I don’t see the sense in ruining the joy that this gives them. I don’t need credit for that day because my kids know that we provide and care for them 365.

        • The Dyv

          LOL!!!

        • Sarita Alexander

          LOL!!! I always said that too, but my daughter, and my nice who may as well be my daughter, always saw a black santa, all the decorations in my house are black. last year my daughter argued with her kindergarten teacher about the white santa so much that she had to put up a santa of every race.

      • Just saying!!

        It’s not really about lying. I don’t get this AT ALL. I couldn’t imagine my childhood without Santa. That seems horrible to me smdh

      • Tonyoardee

        Its not actually lying because Saint Nicholas is an actual Christian Patron Saint, your teaching your offspring about Jesus as well as Saint Nicholas.

        • Bits

          Its still lying because the actual St. Nicholas is not making the deliveries. theres a difference between telling children that a fat benevolent white man dressed in a red and white outfit delivers presents to their homes every christmas and actually telling/teaching about a historical figure.

    • ANirvana

      My chlidren (3 and 6) know he is a fictional character but still enjoy the time of year. I enjoyed my Christmas holidays as well. My gifts came from my family and i have those memories

    • Just saying!!

      I agree. It’s a waste of time otherwise I feel. Might as well not celebrate Christmas (cuz it’s not Jesus’s real birthday anyway!”). It’s like celebrating Halloween but you don’t do trick or treating. What the heck r u doing? Lol

    • Just saying!!

      I know. It almost seems selfish to me. Like “I don’t want my kids to believe in Santa because I want them to recognize how hard I work!” News flash: they’re KIDS! They don’t give a damn! They aren’t thinking “damn mommy went through all of this to get me this….” That’s not going to happen until they’re nice and grown. Until then they’ll probably be trying to ruin every other kids thoughts about Santa just because they know he isn’t real. My cousin is doing that with her child and I feel like its only because it was ruined for her at a young age, so now she feels her son doesn’t get it at all. I dont play the resentment game. Also, because it was ruined for her, she’s also the one that told me Santa wasn’t real when I was younger…. And my family was pretty upset about that because they feel she did it on purpose because she didnt get that. No tooth fairy, no Santa, no Easter bunny? I couldn’t imagine. Those holidays wouldn’t even be fun anymore, imo. They child doesn’t learn to have an imagination and turns into too much of a realist. Sorry to get into “my feelings”. Well…. Not really lol.

      • Anaia

        Why lie to them? I knew Santa was fake and was still SOOO excited to see what my parents had gotten me for christmas! Ya’ll are whack.

        • sweettea

          I don’t think you should lie to your kids either. I knew there was no Santa and my parents bought those gifts and I still love christmas. I was taught it was about family and being together and finding really thoughtful gifts for each other. My kids are being raised the same way. Another thing is that my oldest is now 8 and she absolutely does not trust adults that she has caught in a lie if you lie once everything you say from now on is suspect. She takes it very personal so I’m really glad I didn’t start her out believing in santa and have her find out later mommy tricked her into looking out for some guy that doesn’t exist therefore mommy is a liar. That’s not cool

          • MISSLOVEONTOP

            YOU PEOPLE SOUND SICK SO U TELL THE KIDS THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERYTHING THEY ASK THAT SEEMS LIKE A SCARY AND HARSH CHILDHOOD. KIDS DONT NEED TO KNOW EVERYTHING THEY HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO DEAL WITH REAL WORLD ADULT ISSUES. AND WHAT ADULTS IS YOUR PROB TOO GROWN 8 YEAR OLD NOT TRUSTING ? HER TEACHERS? THEY TELL LIES RIGHT OUT OF THE “HISTORY” BOOKS. A CHILD NEEDS TO STAY IN A CHILDS PLACE. ITS PLENTY OF TIME TO LEARN THE HARSH REALITY OF THE WORLD

            • Anaia

              LOL! You should calm down before you have a stroke. We had happy childhoods, and our children are happy. Perhaps you should visit with the men in the white buildings with straight jackets. Then you’ll be able to play with Santa and the tooth fairy all day.

            • Anaia

              LOL! You should calm down before you have a stroke. We had happy childhoods, and our children are happy. Perhaps you should visit with the men in the white buildings with straight jackets. Then you’ll be able to play with Santa and the tooth fairy all day.

          • Anaia

            Thank God! Finally someone with some sense.

      • Anita Cates Hodges

        I agree “Just saying!” To me its not about lying, but just enjoying childhood. Kids grow up fast enough as it is and they don’t need the burden of worrying about how hard mom and dad work to buy this or that. Just teach them respect and appreciation for everything they have as opposed to laying a guilt trip on them….ijs

      • MISSLOVEONTOP

        YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD ITS ALL THESE PPL ON HERE WHOSE KIDS RUIN IT FOR EVERYBODY BEING LITTLE KNOW IT ALLS !!! I DESPISE TOO GROWN KIDS. THE REASON TO JUST LET IT GO AND BE IS BC LIKE U SAID THEY COULD CARE LESS HOW HARD YOU WORK AND IN SCHOOL OFTEN THE CURRICULAR INCLUDES THEMES AND HOLIDAY FESTIVITIES THAT INCLUDES CHRISTMAS, EASTER AND SUCH.

    • Tonyoardee

      I personally think telling them their favorite holiday characters are fake kills the imagination, like whats there to look forward to?

  • hollyw

    I agree with everything here except the helmet thing. Lol call me ignorant, or from the Midwest, but I live in nyc too and can’t help feeling sorry for these kids that are wrapped up in bandages in the even of a slip and fall… if they ride at all… Of course, the chances of me raising my kids in Manhattan or letting them ride near cars is non-existent as well.

    • Nia

      I live in Cali and you get a ticket if you ride a bike without a helmet. I got my niece a bike for her 3rd birthday and bought a helmet automatically. I do notice people of color don’t really do that but the yt folks keep their kids helmeted up.
      Of course when I was a kid we didn’t wear helmets and I don’t know anyone who got hurt and lord knows we rode our bikes everywhere!

    • Sunshinegirl

      I laughed about the helmet thing too because I’m one of those types of parents where safety is definitely first, but I remember the first time my daughter rode her bike with her helmet, elbow pads, knee pads, and gloves. Needless to say, she’s no longer riding bikes. I guess it takes the enjoyment out of it. Growing up, we never wore any of that gear, and we survived.

    • Tonyoardee

      I live in the south, plenty of grass and dirt.. no need for a helmet really just a little nicks and bruises but that makes a childhood

  • NatashaDecemberBabyThomas

    I hate it when I see other parents cuss out their kids, yesterday as I was picking up my daughter from school, this mom was talking to her daughter who’s in the same kindergarten class as my daughter like her daughter was grown because she wouldn’t stop crying, she was telling her stop being a motherf***ing b***h and grow up. The mom needs more growing up than her child.

    • Angel89

      Omg…I hate that!

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    • MsLadyE

      And if this mother keeps cussing around her child, then when her child starts cussing around her, she HAS NO BUSINESS punishing the child for doing something she (the mother) does.

    • Sunshinegirl

      Oh wow. That’s crazy!