Straight From His Mouth: Do Men Really Mind Spending Money On Women And What Are Their Expectations?
2. Some men don’t mind spending money on women.
There is only one type of man who doesn’t mind spending money on women: the type of man who can afford to spend money on women. If going on a date doesn’t affect your bottom line, of course you’ll have far less emotions vested in how much or little a date costs. When you have money to blow, you don’t care if a date costs $20, $200, or $2,000. It is what it is.
Men who watch how much money they spend on a first date are the same type of men who worry about how much money they spend on everything in life. I’m not saying these men are broke or the opposite of them is a rich man. I’m simply saying the type of man who watches every dollar that enters and leaves his bank account isn’t going to change just because he’s on a date. That’s his personality. On the other hand, the type of man who doesn’t mind spending money on you is likely the type of man that doesn’t mind spending money, period.
Let me be clear, a man who doesn’t mind spending money isn’t the equivalent of a man who is rich or good with money. We all know people who spend money like water, yet somehow can’t afford to consistently pay their water bill.
3. What do men expect from women?
This is one of those simple/complicated questions. The way most women long for commitment is the way most men long for sex. You might not “expect” a man to commit to you immediately, but if the relationship is progressing, you probably expect him to commit to you eventually. It’s the same for men. Most men don’t expect you to have sex with him immediately, but most men expect you to have sex with them eventually. Depending on the type of man he is, he might be willing to wait 90-hours, 90-days, or 90-years, but it doesn’t change the fact that his eventual “expectation” is that he could see himself having sex with you; whether it be in the confines of dating, a relationship, or marriage. How much or little money he can or is willing to spend is merely a means for him to get to know you better during that time.
Why would any man anywhere waste time going on a date with a woman he doesn’t have interest in? That would be a waste of time and money. Again, let me be clear, I am not saying all men only want sex and they spend money to acquire it. I am saying that all men spend money as a means to some kind of end when they are on a date, whether that end be sex, getting to know you better as a person, or checking to see if they want to be in a relationship with you. As I covered above, some men can simply afford to spend more money than others to acquire their goal.
Now it’s your turn…
Why do some men think they are entitled to physical action based on the amount of money they spend? Why is it that some men don’t mind spending money on women? What do men expect from women?
WisdomIsMisery aka WIM uses his background as an internal auditor to provide objective, yet opinionated, qualitative and quantitative analysis on life, love, and everything in between. WIM is not a model, a model citizen, or a role model. See more of WIM on his weekly write-ups for SBM, on Twitter @WisdomIsMisery, and Instagram: WisdomIsMisery.
