Girl, Take it Easy! 9 Impulsive Moves That Could Ruin a Relationship

1. Telling Too Much Too Soon

First dates are not the time to divulge information about deep dark family secrets, traumatic childhoods, crazy baby daddy drama or that you’re currently in bankruptcy. I know honesty is the best policy, but there is a time and a place for everything; giving up all of this information too soon can send a potential new man running. Get to know each other first and then open up to him slowly. Now if you suffer from bipolar disorder and are on medication, then that might be something he should know upfront. If you have children, then yes, tell him. It’s not about keeping secrets from him that he’ll eventually find out anyway; it’s moreso about gauging each other’s interest so you can determine if he’s someone you want to move forward with and you can trust with delicate or sensitive information. Giving all of your baggage to him all at once could spook him, so take it slow and ease into the relationship until you determine that he’s a strong enough man to handle anything you throw at him.