Girl, Take it Easy! 9 Impulsive Moves That Could Ruin a Relationship

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April 6, 2013 ‐ By Brooke Dean

Finding love can be a mind-blowing, giddy, amazing experience. While whirlwind romances are the kind that typically only exist in movies and in fairy tales, love at first sight and falling in love quickly can happen to those who are lucky enough to be struck by Cupid’s arrow. But while some people take their time in new relationships, others move so fast that they make poor decisions that could jeopardize their relationship before it even begins. If you don’t want your potential new relationship to crash and burn before you’ve had a chance to fully explore the possibilities, avoid these impulsive behaviors that could ruin your relationship before its had a chance to fully blossom.

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  • Crossroads

    1 John 4:1-3………..

    4 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world. 2 By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God, 3 and every spirit that does not confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God. And this is the spirit of the Antichrist, which you have heard was coming, and is now already in the world.

  • Cokeland

    I’d like to add one: Proclaiming that it’s a relationship before it actually is. Telling everybody thats “your man/woman” after a couple of dates confuses the hell outta me!

  • Faith

    Also, women especially black women need to realize the man is human and he will make honest and sincere mistakes and there is no need to cuss the man out or degrade him for making a honest mistake. Also don’t keep throwing things that he did wrong in his face. Women also has to make sure the timing is right for conservations. If the man is watching game and you want to stand in front of the television while he is watching the game and want to talk to him, if he tells you that he can talk to you about later, then be respectful and wait and let him watch the game. You don’t argue with him while he is watching the game. He is not neglecting you, he just want to watch the game in peace. Also, you don’t need to call the man on his job all day long blowing up his phone or text. Some employment he could lose his job behind that foolishness of you blowing up his phone for no reason at all.

    • da boss lady

      why its especially black woman? it doesn’t make no damn sense we bringing our race down.

      • michaelderrick

        Because we are talking about our self !

        • da boss lady

          we may do. but u wouldn’t understand that because you ain’t a black lady yo self. until u can stand in our shoe don’t judge us. I know about a little about marry situation . I been marry for 8 year and yes we have 3 daughter that one day going to growup and be back women. and I do set a good example for our girls. what I’m trying to say not all black women act in such of way. you just got to be raised right. and yes my husband. does a great job with our girls.

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  • ted mikeal

    i agree with the list except number 3. (Putting All Your Eggs in One Basket) !

    if anything this is a big modern day problem were we all keeping our “options” open and none of us is will to commit to sh!t. It reminds me of those people who will make plans with a bunch of different people and then pick the best one at the last minute and ditch everyone else.

    We are a culture that has forgotten to count its blessings and everyone is constantly looking over the fence to see if the grass is greener. We need to realize Marriage – including all its traditional trappings – works and is the basic building block of our society.

    • http://www.facebook.com/ERJitterbugg Johnnie Q. X. Sturner

      Thank.
      You.

      So tired of people looking at me like I’m crazy, all because I don’t want to date numerous men at the same time. Just like I honestly wouldn’t want to be thrown in a guy’s “prospect pool,” I don’t want to do the same to him.

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