‘The Real World’s’ Marlon Williams Has An Interesting Explanation For Why He’s Not Gay Even Though He Had Sex With A Man

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March 31, 2013 ‐ By
Source: MTV

Source: MTV

Marlon Williams is many things: a member of the season 28 cast of MTV “Real World” in Portland, a preacher’s kid, and an aspiring rapper. But one thing the 25-year-old Texan wants to make clear that he’s not is homosexual.

No, the situation here isn’t that Marlon is effeminate and people are making assumptions about his sexual orientation. He’s actually had sex with a man before, but insists that doesn’t make him gay. He even goes further to say how one identifies themselves sexually doesn’t even matter anymore in this day and age. That was the crux of his recent interview with The Advocate, which asked him to clarify his dealings with men and the current status of his dating life. Here’s a bit of the Q&A.

The Advocate: OK, this is awkward. MTV tells us “Marlon has had intercourse with a man before and does identify with being bisexual. But he says that he is more attracted to women and doesn’t think he would be with a man again.” We could just take their word for it, but we’d rather you tell us yourself how you identify and why.
Marlon WIlliams: Well, I don’t consider myself bisexual, because I’m not sexually attracted to men. I did have sex with a man but my reasoning for it was different. It was in a hectic time of my life filled with fighting a lot of life battles. I was just making a lot of decisions that I would not normally make. At that time in my life the gay community embraced me, and it is one of those things that just happened. I have nothing against people who are bisexual or gay, but that is not my preference.

How do women react when you tell them?
That’s funny, because it’s not a part of my conversations with women. It hasn’t really come up with any of the females I’ve been involved with. Most women I’ve been interested in lately don’t even care. I mean, whatever your sexual orientation is who cares? If you’re happy that is all that matters.

You’re the son of a preacher and were raised with conservative values. Does that cause conflict for you in terms of your sexuality? 
Well, sex in any form is hard, because the beliefs of my parents say that you are supposed to wait for marriage. The big misconception used in religion is that some sin is worse than others. That isn’t true. All sin is equal. Therefore, anything I do that is sinful can be forgiven if I repent and make changes. My belief is that God forgives anybody who believes and wants a new start in life.

You also rap under the name Jay Dillinger. Is the world of rap as homophobic as it is rumored to be? How do you deal with that?
At the end of the day it’s about the music. Frank Ocean definitely showed that if you’re talented, then you can make it happen. Being a rapper isn’t all about the hardcore gangsta stuff all the time. So I feel there is room for any type of artist to make it. You just have to be good. Me, personally, I just ignore the hate. Who somebody goes home with is their business. What difference does it really make in the end? None.

Reactions to Marlon’s interview have been mixed, with one commenter noting:

“He says sexual orientation doesn’t matter anymore but he still labels himself as straight. Doesn’t that mean it still matters to him, at least enough to align himself with heterosexuality?”

On the flip side, another person commented:

“A one-time thing with a man doesn’t make him gay anymore than a one-time thing with a woman would, necessarily, make him ‘straight.’ When he says ‘sexuality doesn’t matter,’ I assume he means as far as he’s concerned. What stood out for me is when he says it’s not ‘part of the conversations’ he has with women. I expect that to now change once the show is on.”

I would expect that to change too, just as I would want a man who had been with another man to tell me so before we were involved sexually. While I agree that a one-time sexual encounter doesn’t necessarily change your entire sexual orientation, I do need to know if you’re going to be inclined to go down that path again should the wind blow that way.

What do you think about Marlon’s interview? Does he seem to be on the DL or is he offering up valid points?

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  • tsexy

    My name is tacha from li did we date

  • Professional

    Omg some of yall are just one track minded. So If a person has stolen a cookie once in his life but 10 years later he should still be called a thief? Or If a female has been intimate with a woman before but is now married, She’s still considered to be gay? People are crazy. Marlon do you, everybody has a past and as a female when I was in college i did the same thing but it was a college thing everyone was doing it lol. Im happily married to my wonderful husband and I have two beautiful children. Im 29 and I dont let my past determine my future

  • Lovely_SimSim

    You’re comparing things that have nothing to do with each other or very little in common. So… Point missed.

  • http://www.msn.com/ warcloud

    A fool can’t see the ligbt.

  • jesse white

    I remember watching that episode last night. I was eating some veggie chips and enjoying them, thinking well no one on this show is gay period, that’s good to know. All of a sudden Marlon vomited that information, one of the chips got caught in my wind pipe and I said “Jesus take the wheel”!!! #thump!

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  • JAYLUV1

    the dude he used to get over, must feel like crap to know that was all he was to him.

  • Ms. shakes

    Ughh that killed it for me! Any man who has sexual relations or had unnatural thoughts with a man is gay as hell! If your straight that thought shouldnt.even come across your mind that goes for men & women.

  • Goddess

    Idiot!!!! been witha man? Stay away from a woman don’t nobody want that infested sh**t! Be real with yourself!!!

  • Let him live

    Only questions folks need to ask is does he have proof of clean AIDS/HIV/STD test paper work … because he slept with a man does not make him any more risky than a promiscuous heterosexual man that does not share his dealings with other women with his partner.. Further more how he identifies sexually is solely up to him..

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  • tracy

    God says not to judge people but this man may be on a one way train to hell. Maybe because he is a preacher’s son, satan is using him as his tool. I hope young people who watch MTV will not be influenced by this nonesense, so gross.

    • RMfag

      k…

  • tracy

    This man is an abomination to society and the danger of letting societal morals run wild. His dad must be soo very dissapointed. He is satan himself. I do not discriminate against gays who opnely admitt to who they are but this very situation is what the bible warns against. Sex to him is nothing and worthless, undefined, he is a very sick man and i am sorry for the women he dates. WOW , what is wrong with today’s youth. Absolutely disgusting.

    • RMfag

      u need help.

  • hey

    Lez women get cut some slack because they don’t spread hivaids and tend to be in monogamous relationships. Ghay men tend to be whoreish and engage in unsafe and risky behavior which is why STDs are so prevalent amongst them. The only community that rivals them in the disease category would be the street drug using community.

  • hey

    Lez women get cut some slack because they don’t spread hivaids and tend to be in monogamous relationships. Ghay men tend to be whoreish and engage in unsafe and risky behavior which is why STDs are so prevalent amongst them. The only community that rivals them in the disease category would be the street drug using community.

  • Nina

    BlackwhitePlanet.C_0_M

    with other single black, white girls and men in your city.. It is

    my favorite club for mixed love…. wowoowowoowowowowoow

  • http://www.facebook.com/ronnie.brown Ronnie Brown

    the only controversy may be from those who insist that homosexuality is an inherent identity andthus cannot or will not accept the possibility that a person can actually choose whom he or she wants to have sex with.

    • hey

      Doesn’t sex require some degree of attraction? Isn’t attraction inherent? you wouldn’t have sex with a man if you weren’t attracted to a man right?

      • Lovely_SimSim

        Not necessarily.

  • Chocolate_Star

    He is bisexual! He needs to own it, be truthful, and stop with all the extra bs.

  • kim

    and another thing, having s3x with the same gender does not necessarily make a person gay. sex is sex and being gay is more than just who you sleep with. I’ve known plenty of straight women who’ve had sex with other women for various reasons, but can’t maintain an actual relationship with another woman (romantically) and don’t consider themselves gay. Shoot I don’t either! As a gay woman, its extremely frustrating to run into straight girls who would sleep with me (or other women) but could not and would not be in a relationship with a woman; they do it to experiment or becuz they’re bf’s wanted them to, or whatever– but they wouldnt do it regularly or again or be intimate with a woman (outside of sex). So, no they’re not gay.

    • hey

      If those women ate your poosay then they were gay but probably just didn’t like your personality and that’s why they didn’t want a relationship with you.

  • kim

    i think he’s free to wave the bi or gay flag if he truly felt that way. So lying or fooling his self wouldnt be necessary. Maybe he was curious, did it and decided it wasnt for him. I dont see a problem with that. If a person tries coke once, doesn’t like it and decides not to do it again–does that make them a drug addict? No, so why would this be any different? It just goes to show that a person can’t “choose” to be gay. if he wasn’t already attracted to men and found himself at a confusing point in his life or having feelings he couldnt understand for another man, s3x with a man made it clear and definitive for him that he was not gay.

    • hey

      This is different because sex is an intimate act requiring some degree of vulnerability and trust with another human being as well as physical attraction. Snorting coke is no more intimate than drinking a beer. Apples and potatoes. Not even apples and oranges.

  • http://www.msn.com/ warcloud

    This is ridiculous. This is why we are falling apart as a human race. Bunch of confused people.

    • RMfag

      And/Or dumb ones just looking at the comments section.

      • http://www.msn.com/ warcloud

        Work your sentence fragmentation. Please i don’t understand wtf you are saying.

        • RMfag

          “This is ridiculous. This is why we are falling apart as a human race. Bunch of confused people and/or dumb ones, just looking at the comments section.”

  • LaylaAjmine

    Black women. I urge you to stay away from this gender confused freak!

    • Mary

      Wow no wonder there are so many men on the downlow. If i had someone calling me a “gender confused freak” i would probably do the same thing. You do realize attitudes like this are the reason men don’t disclose this information right?

      • Akiko

        I DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY SO MANY WOMEN, ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN LIKE TO STATE THAT ‘A MAN IS GOING TO DO WHAT A MAN WANTS TO DO’, BUT THE COMMENTS HERE, ON THIS SITE KEEP REITERATING A BELIEF THAT A MAN’S BEHAVIOR IS ALMOST ALWAYS DEPENDENT ON WHAT WOMEN ARE DOING.

      • hey

        Men don’t disclose that type of information for the same reason they don’t mention having a wife or girlfriend. They’re lying cheating selfish azz creeps plus tgey know if they tell the truth they won’t be able to get what they want.

    • RMfag

      I think youre more confused that him.

  • 2Ja2

    Always make a man wrap it up…his logic is the logic of others who are less vocal!

    • RMfag

      Why your comment was at the bottom is questionable to me.

  • bluekissess

    How hectic can your life be to make you have relations with a man

    • Chey

      OK?!

    • RMfag

      Booty hole was too tight.

  • GeekMommaRants

    There is no such thing as a bisexual man. Marlon wants me to believe that he will leave his boyfriend to be with a woman? Please

    • Athena

      Geek momma…you talk cray cray. “No such thing” as a bisexual man? I don’t think Marlon wants YOU to believe anything (thank goodness). It seems you may want to learn what bisexuality REALLY means!

      • GeekMommaRants

        I stand behind my statement. Please site one example of a “bisexual” man freely choosing to be with a woman over a man. This is my point.

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/Josh-Johnson/100000213217685 Josh Johnson

          Wow you are ignorant. Go sit in somebody’s sex/sexuality classroom please an learn something.

          • GeekMommaRants

            Actually if a man is dating a woman this would be called heterosexual action. If he then dates a man, this would be called a homosexual action. People can be attracted to both sexes but are either in gay or straight relationships. Where Josh, is the ignorance?

            • Voiceoflogicandreason

              Dating? The definition of bisexual, or for that matter homosexual, heterosexual, etc has nothing to do with ‘dating’ hence the ‘sexual’. Its not called bidating, or heterodating, homodating…Yes, you are more that allowed to have your own opinion. Atleast know a little of what you speak. Just a tad, a smidgen a dab. Just a little itty bit of common sense here, K?

        • RMfag

          I thought geeks were smart…….

          • GeekMommaRants

            Gee, what can I say nothing, same as you.

            • RMfag

              Wut?!

              You should try dropping the G from your name.

              • GeekMommaRants

                Be a grown up and explain why I am wrong. Can you?

        • Lovely_SimSim

          My ex was with me for more than 4 years. Never strayed or gave me a reason to worry, honestly I hate myself every time I think about why I’m not with him.

  • http://twitter.com/Aringr Angela R. Ingram

    The man spoke, he said he is not gay, and we should all just leave it alone. NEXT!

  • DUMass

    Whether or not this dude tells women he HAS slept with man or not is his problem and he will be held accountable for it. Reading these comments I see a lot of judgment…for some reason it’s easier to understand when a man goes from straight to gay,but when it is opposite it’s rocket science. Sexuality is fluid, and doesn’t have to be unchanging…it’s psychology. If you changed your perception of what YOU consider wrong or right you would say he should tell the woman of ANYTHING that would harm her not just the fact he has slept w/a man….which might I add may have been a one time thing…that doesn’t define him. If you were promiscuous a one point does that make you promiscuous forever? If so we’re all in trouble.

    • RMfag

      Psychology IS a science. Thats why they have a hard time understanding.

  • jalafian

    I dont’ know a lot of straight men that have sexual contact with men. To even go down that path there is something about a man he has an inclination to. Maybe he hasn’t run into another man that he’s attracted since then but if you’ve done it before, even if you say you’d never do it again i find it hard to believe that it isn’t something you would EVER have to struggle with or consider again in the right situation. I’ll chalk this up to confusion.

    • texastea

      “I dont’ know a lot of straight men that have sexual contact with men.” I DO. AND THERE ARE A LOT OF THEM IN DALLAS. Especially black men.

  • http://twitter.com/TBravens92 WatchYoMouth

    I’m sick of these homo niggaz

  • Anti-believer

    You’re SOOOOOOOO gay!

  • http://twitter.com/CylentHill Steven

    I guess you could say it’s like the girls who “experiment”
    in college. Making out with, or even having sex with other women, but identify themselves
    as straight. They will grow up to marry a man, have kids, and probably never
    sleep with another woman again. A guy just doesn’t get the same free pass as
    girls do when it comes to that sort of thing because unlike men who think two
    girls fooling around is hot, the vast majority of women don’t find two guys
    hooking up to be sexy…at all

    • texastea

      BUt I been telling people for the longest time, if our kids keep seeing two women on TV kissing, on all of these reality shows, and then the men saying they are so turned on by it and that it is so hot to see two people of the same gender gettin it on, don’t y’all think that eventually our boys/teens sons/college age dudes gonna start experimenting with their own gender too? I mean, to keep seeing it on TV just lowers the taboo and the inhibition. It is really to be an expected progression. Not a shock to men. I knew this was coming all along. And look at it: back in the day, the men that liked men used to stick out like a fish outta water; nowadays u don’t know which dudes are gettin down like that anymore. You can’t tell just by looking.

      • Reese

        You could never tell someone’s sexual orientation by “just looking”. Yes, there are some people who you can obviously tell are homosexual but you’d also be very surprised and this is nothing new.

      • Shiloh7

        I highly concur. There’s way too much gray these days. Trust, one cannot make rush judgement. Just because a dude is hyper-masculine doesn’t mean he doesn’t get it in with other men and just because a dude is slightly effeminate doesn’t mean he does. That’s the reason a lot of so-called African-american females have been and/or will be blindsided. Far too many people are still trying to handle the situation from a mere “black and white” perspective. *smdh*

    • texastea

      BUt I been telling people for the longest time, if our kids keep seeing two women on TV kissing, on all of these reality shows, and then the men saying they are so turned on by it and that it is so hot to see two people of the same gender gettin it on, don’t y’all think that eventually our boys/teens sons/college age dudes gonna start experimenting with their own gender too? I mean, to keep seeing it on TV just lowers the taboo and the inhibition. It is really to be an expected progression. Not a shock to men. I knew this was coming all along. And look at it: back in the day, the men that liked men used to stick out like a fish outta water; nowadays u don’t know which dudes are gettin down like that anymore. You can’t tell just by looking.

  • HONEYLOVE

    The thing to remember is, at least he admitted to it. There are many men who have had sex with other men and will deny it til their dying day.

    • Akiko

      He is admitting to his behavior only after it has been exposed because of him being on a reality show.

  • http://twitter.com/RatchetBusters Hocus Pocus

    Well let talk about the double standard with bisexual people because if a woman experiments she has the luxury of saying I’m not into woman anymore and everyone believes her. I think its possible for a guy to experiment and be on the same thing and sometimes he may find out if likes men or he didn’t like it all. I think majority of the people claiming they bi are just wild in out anyway they don’t know what they want. I do think people who are bi should disclose this information before people become involved 4 two reason it lets you know if they dealing with someone who will accept them fully and 2nd people your in the relationship deserve that respect. No matter the person past you muthafickas need to be protecting yourself you don’t need a nuggah to tell you he bi or had sex with a guy to push you into making that decision I hate when people use homosexuality as the warning sign to wear condoms just wear that shat regardless.

    • smoothlilee

      didnt no one say that a girl who has sex with a girl isnt gay…she is too! but the most troubling thing bout his statement is that he didnt say he would NEVER be with a man again, so whos to say he aint bein on the DL, deceiving future partners…but i agree, just use condoms regardless cuz everyone not gona be truthful bout their past..

  • qui8tstorm83

    How do women react when you tell them? Marlon– “That’s funny, because it’s not a part of my conversations with women. It hasn’t really come up with any of the females I’ve been involved with.”

    I bet it hasn’t come up b/c he failed to let the women KNOW! & The women didn’t ask. Women..esp. black women…WAKE THE F UP! He is one of the exact reasons why black women are one of the leading groups with HIV/AIDS. If a man has sex with another man…he is GAY! Start asking questions people before you put your life on the line. This is some BS. He is he exact reason why as a woman…I’m keeping my legs closed until i’m in a committed relatinship and can do some serious background checking on my guy. This ish is for the birds!

    • Akiko

      The women didn’t ask because they had no reason to believe any different. HE is the problem, because he and men like him are misleading! Women don’t need to wake the f*ck. MEN need to stop lying about or omitting things like this about themselves. A woman shouldn’t have to ask a man if he is sleeping with other men when that men is presenting himself as heteros*xual.

      • qui8tstorm83

        In today’s world….EVERYBODY should be suspect. Yes he is the problem but the women he is dealing with have to take some responsibility and ask questions if they are going to sleep with him and esp. if they are doing so without a condom. Shid I don’t trust NO ninja!

        • Akiko

          Everybody should not be suspect because not everyone engages in misleading behavior.

    • texastea

      Y’all ladies really better watch it. Truth let it be told, despite the way we over-react to the subject, the black community has become a breeding ground for the down-low (and even the out-right) more than any other. All these men in and out of jail, no fathers in the home, boys being raised by whole families of women….

      • RMfag

        Or they just might like dicc.
        Who would respect a race of men who would turn out after a flip of a switch.
        -
        You gay just because you was in jail or your father wasnt there. They are weak minded and youre weak minded too for producing that theory.

    • RMfag

      I dont see what having sex with one man has to do with possibly having aids.
      But then again you seem silly so im not surprized.

    • Lovely_SimSim

      “He is one of the exact reasons why black women are one of the leading groups with HIV/AIDS.” … This is actually not true. You could say he’s apart of the problem, but less than 2% have got HIV/AIDS from a bisexual or man who has sex with other men, and what makes it even funnier… Turns out that the men who pull a Marlon (say they’ve had sex with men, but don’t identify) are the ones who are more likely to give you something, though it’s still not common.

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbara.codner Barbara Codner

    If a heterosexual male/female has sex with individuals of the same sex, they are not gay/bisexual. They are sexual deviants. Their sexual appetite is insatiable. They have serious impulse control issues which can be very dangerous. Who knows how far they will go to have their sexual desires satisfied.

    • RMfag

      Yawn…..
      Then what are gays/bisexuals now according to you?

  • cupidmess

    well, this just confirmed to me that no one is born gay. On another note, yeah, you could ask a man if he slept with other men and depending on the kind of man he is, he may lie, in that case ladies, trust your gut instinct and role with it. Don’t be blinded by good looks and charm, your vaginal health depends on it.

    • Mary

      so one man said he was gay by choice and now you assume all gay people are gay by choice. Ok i just saw a black man on the news for robbing a house so I’m gonna just assume all black people are criminals. Generalization are juvenile

      • chanela

        look at all the women who decide to “go gay” once they get cheated on or done wrong by a man.

        • Akiko

          Those women were never straight to begin with.

        • Mary

          They were never straight to begin with.

      • cupidmess

        That black man you saw on tv made the choice to steal, he wasn’t born a thief. That’s my point.

  • Animetriss

    I think he’s bicurious if anything.

  • http://www.facebook.com/nxwilliams Nicholas. X. W. Williams

    STILL GAY.

    • RMfag

      Hopefully u 2, my boipuzy is ready.

  • Duuuduus

    he is bisexual and messing with a guy is gay !!!

    • RMfag

      Then which is he, dodo?

  • Check Yourself

    If he had sex with a man then had sex with a girl the next week. he needs to tell. if he had sex like 6 to 8 months later or longer then why tell. IF u know your are clean and did contract anything keep it to yourself. ONLY IF IT WAS A ONE TIME THING.

    • Akiko

      I would hope that he, at 25-years-old is not having sex with girls.

    • Anti-believer

      Why does he need to tell? When you have sex with one person do you tell the next you had sex with a certain person before? I doubt it!

  • drkMagic

    While people are complicated & mult-faceted I would be suspect of someone who willingly had sex with a person of the same sex & now says now those urges are gone. I would be cautious with my heart & health.

  • yup

    Gay

  • LYRICS

    WHO ARE THESE WOMEN THAT HE DATES!!!????

    “HAVE U EVER THOUGHT ABOUT, SLEPT, TOUCHED, RUBBED, OR KISSED A MAN!!?” IS MY #1 QUESTION!!! I’VE OFFENDED MANY MEN IN MY QUEST TO “SPOT A DL BRO B4 IT’S TOO LATE” ON AMPLE OCCASIONS!! PPL TELL ME THAT I’M “RUDE” OR I “LACK MANNERS”, BUT THIS FOOL RIGHT HERE, VALIDATES MY SERIES OF QUESTIONS!!! IS HE SERIOUS!!!??? HE’S MAKING THE DECISION FOR THE WOMEN HE SLEEPS WITH BY OMITTING THE FACT THAT HE’S BANGED A MAN!!! I’M SURE IF HE TOLD THE WOMEN THAT HE’S BEEN W/ THAT HE’S “NOT GAY, BUT SEXED A MAN”, HIS “CONQUESTS” MAY BE FEWER!!! I DON’T UNDERSTAND TRYING TO “MESS UP” OTHER PPL’S LIVES, WHILE U TRY TO “FIGURE OUT” YOUR OWN IN THE PROCESS??? JUST ADMIT THAT YOUR JUST NOT SURE, AND LET THE OTHER PERSON DECIDE W/ U IF THAT’S SOMETHING THAT THEIR FINE W/, DON’T ASSUME!!! WELL, HIS SECRET IS OUT, BUT SUMIN’ TELLS ME HE N’ MR. OCEAN SEE “BOOTY TO BOOTY” ON A LOT OF THINGS!!!!

    • Well….

      If a man is on the DL he is probably going to lie to your question. ..#ijs

  • Atheist

    If he likes it in the bootey, his choice

    • Akiko

      Of course it is his choice, but what does that have to do with everything else?

      • RMfag

        He likes in the booty and so do I!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Natosha-Barnes/100000189092578 Natosha Barnes

    As hard as he tried to justify his homosexual encounter, he failed miserably; so he felt the need to sleep with the gay community because they embraced him??…and it’s evident he may still have those urges because he can’t say for certain that he won’t sleep with another man again…smh…something is really off about most preacher’s kids… #TRUTH

  • Mia

    I’ve gone through some pretty difficult times in my life as well and I just opened the bible to remind myself that God was still on the throne. I didnt go out and have s e x with another woman. Ick!

    • Atheist

      God doesn’t exist

      • champayne

        Tell him that when it’s your turn to stand before him!

        • Akiko

          Your response to ‘Atheist’s’ comment does not apply because she/he doesn’t believe there is a ‘god’.

          • smoothlilee

            well i guess they’ll have to find out the hard way then….ha!

            • Akiko

              You don’t get it either. They cannot find out the hard way if they don’t believe in the first place.

        • korbermeister

          if he does, he’ll forgive her, lol

        • RMfag

          Standing before dust.

  • Michele82

    He’s lying to himself. He’s bisexual. The fact that he grew up in the church makes me even more suspicious as many black men in the church struggle with their orientation and learn to suppress their true desires.

    My brother went through the same thing and didn’t have the courage to be his true self until his early 30s. Many of his friends didn’t become their true selves until later (late 30s, early 40s) after experiencing failed marriages that produced children. The funny part is none of his group of friends are the stereotypical “gay guy” where you look at them and immediately think they’re gay. Instead, they’re very masculine in appearance, work out and are well groomed, like Marlon looks.

    Ladies, protect yourself and trust your gut!

    • texastea

      Yes. That two snapping, twirling stuff is so played out. A lot of men who are attracted to men, don’t like that stuff and that is not what turns them on in another man.

      • RMfag

        Except teh brothas really hate guys who are even slightly like that then go on to blame all of their lifes problems on the “finger-snappers”.

  • mahogany74

    I don’t need to know. A man can cheat on you with another woman and bring home diseases. What matters to me is that the guy is faithful and loyal to me.

    • Akiko

      You do need to know if the man who you are with is at a higher risk for contracting an STI.

      • http://twitter.com/mathiasmiles Mathias Miles

        Don’t you have access to a newspaper? The highest risk group since 2009 is straight black women. Let me guess – you’re going to argue the validity of scientific research?

        • Akiko

          My comment seems to have disappeared. You aren’t good at guessing by the way. That was my entire point – That heteros*xual women are at risk because of men like Marlon who sleep with other men and then sleep with women or have multiple partners.

      • RMfag

        A hore maybe?

    • RMfag

      U stupid.
      According to the rest of the comments, stds only come from gay men.
      I feel bad 4 your puzzy……

  • ArtistFormerlyKnownAsOBSERVING

    Im disturbed. I cant do any man thats been with a man. Thats just me.

    • RMfag

      Like you havent.

      • RMfag

        Like you havent.

  • ArtistFormerlyKnownAsOBSERVING

    Well dam

    • RMfag

      lol

  • Akiko

    This guy is an idiot! So, he has had sex with a man and doesn’t feel the need to tell the women who he is involved with about this? Who is to say he won’t have sex with a man again and put heterosexual women at risk for contracting something from HIM? How can he say the women he is involved with don’t care when they don’t even know!

    NONE of his points are valid and he is misleading about who he is. A man cannot have sex with another man and call himself straight. A woman cannot have sex with another woman and say that she is straight.

    • SheBe

      He is misleading about who he is because he probably isn’t sure himself. SMH at his responses. I’m sure (or at least hope) women have asked him about past sexual exploits and he probably “lied by omission” because he disregards it.

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        • Nina

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          serious relationship

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    • Britt

      By definition he is bisexual, but it’s obvious to me that he doesn’t feel comfortable claiming that label. Society has accepted LGBT ideology in some ways, but not all. Some things are still considered taboo, especially in the black community; men probably have it a lot harder when dealing with sexual preferences/ identity as opposed to women. I don’t feel bad for him though, at his age and the way he was raised, it seems like he’s still trying to grasp an understanding of the world outside of the four walls he calls “home.” It takes a lot of courage to “come out” publicly, even if it is to lay groundwork for his “music career.”

      • tysandsnyc

        Actually, he is not. If he doesn’t have an attraction to both genders, then he is not bi.

        • Lovely_SimSim

          How most define bisexuality is emotional, sexual attraction OR behavior toward more than one gender. Going by the definition, yes, he is.

          • tysandsnyc

            By definition:

            Of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sêxual desire toward both séxes.

            He said he has no desire, so no… He is not bi.

            • Lovely_SimSim

              Smh, please go back and re-read.

    • Vonn

      The women that are involved with him should ask if he has ever been with a man or involved in any other risky sexual behavior. You are responsible for your own bodies. They should be tested for HIV/AIDS with all of their partners as well.

      • Akiko

        I don’t deny that people are responsible for their own bodies. A woman could ask a man if he has ever been with another man, but no man should ever be misleading. He must make women aware of this the first time he meets them so that the woman can decide if she wants to continue with him. I guess it is that bad in the Black community that a woman would need to start asking every man who she meets if he has been with another man.

        • texastea

          Yeah, but black women, especially these younger ones, need to be able to process that information with maturity and respect. That is why most brothers ain’t gonna tell them the truth.

          • Akiko

            People love to make excuses for black men.

            • KIR12

              HIV is practically unheard of for heterosexual non intravenous drug using BLACK men. HIV is a Black GAY man and black woman disease. 60% of black gay men have HIV by 40 and currently 1 in 32 black women have HIV.

              • purpledaylight

                HIV had become an everyone disease. That kind of thinking is what keeps it spreading. If its a heterosexual woman disease, then obviously it becomes a heterosexual mans disease. No one is exempt, protect yourself or better yet abstain till you are in a monogamous relationship.

                • RMfag

                  We could use that train of thought, but its just easier to do it the other way.

                • tysandsnyc

                  Preach, Purple!

              • RMfag

                Stats that you havent pulled out of you puzzy plz….

              • above stupidity

                You must be a deep in denial black man or person of another race who dates black men exclusively…to think that this disease spontaneously exist among black women and black gay men makes you a special kind of detrimental idiot

              • tysandsnyc

                Your posting in severely rooted in ignorance, that I don’t know where to begin.

            • texastea

              No, really think about why a man would not want to be forthcoming with the truth. He probably does not expect that woman to handle that information with maturity and respect for his privacy. You know she gon tell the whole daggone world. Your impression that it is an excuse does not negate the fact that it is a primary motivation.

              • Akiko

                Men have shown time and time again that they are not truthful to protect themselves, not because of how a woman would handle the information.
                I don’t know what ‘she’, whoever she is is going to do.

            • Lovely_SimSim

              Just like ignorant people like making excuses for their bias or fears.

          • tysandsnyc

            I agree. Preach, Brother Tea!

    • Nikki

      He could contract a STD from a woman as well.
      Having sex with the same sex once does not identify you as being gay.

      • Akiko

        I am well aware that a man could contract and STI from a woman.
        He had sex with another man. He is bisexual.

      • RMfag

        Not true….

        Obviously a women can get stds from and only from a gay man…..
        Stop using logic.

        • tysandsnyc

          Lol

          Sarcasm at its finest. Lol

      • tysandsnyc

        Preach, Nikki!

    • RMfag

      It was just one time. How do you know it was unprotected?!

    • Sharon

      I agree. It is amazing how guys once again talk out both sides of their mouth. You have sex with a man but you are not bi-sexual. The women he deal with doesn’t raise the issue even though they may not care. But if the shoe was on the other foot, if he ask a woman that if she been with other women, he would have a problem with it. Amazing!

    • tysandsnyc

      Him sleeping with another man will put another woman at risk, but him sleeping with another woman will not? If he uses condoms for either gender, the “risk” are all the same.

      And sleeping with a man or woman once or several times doesn’t make you straight, the same way sleeping with a man or woman doesn’t make you quèer. Learn it!

      • Akiko

        You need to read my other comments where I talked about that. Pay attention!
        The second part of your comment makes no sense because you did not specify gender. Try again!

        • tysandsnyc

          I didn’t specify a gender, dear, because that comment can go either way. No puns.