Oh, You Mad? 9 Signs Your Man’s Ex is a Bitter You-Know-What!

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March 16, 2013 ‐ By Brooke Dean
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Let’s face it, no one wants to deal with a partner’s ex. Unfortunately, there are instances where interaction with the ex is inevitable, especially if they share children. It would be nice if everyone involved could just get along, or at least be civil – but we all know that isn’t always the case. Sometimes women are just mad that there is an ex in the picture, so immaturity may be the reason a woman doesn’t like her man’s ex – especially if she’s done nothing to you. But if you feel that his ex is up to no good, watch out for these signs that may indicate that not only is she not over him, but looking to wreck your relationship as well.

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  • Keisha Samoht

    funny how on Saturday i commented and today this is up. i did on purpose. im writing a short story wanted some blind and honest feedback. i must be doing a good job if it cause an article from it. Thank you for the drive to let me know that its not wack. I thought it would seem like Fatal Attraction…

  • JoJO

    Obviously she’d be mad if her relationship is going through hard times and another woman comes in the picture. Now that restraining order stuff is different but this is just a show of how snarky and bitter women on BOTH SIDES of the issue are. YUCK!! Interracial women dating?? Black women looking for white men??? Black women loving white men???_______blackwhiteplanet.c0m_______is the #1 black women white men dating site. No one night stand. serious relationship

  • blackgirlgoodcredit . com

    People should start to take “dating” more seriously. Let people know what you want up front, observe their behavior, and make then make a conscious decision to continue to pursue him/her or not. Too often we rush into relationships or get into relationships “just because” and when thing go sour and the other party is left hurt, they’re called bitter or angry. Its actually very sad.

  • IJS

    Really, some of these new women in the men lives need a moral and conduct book on how they need to act. Some may have gotten where they are the right way, but if you have a bitter ex acting that way towards you, nine times out of ten, you got there through the back door, and now you want to be high and mighty.

    • Lala

      Completely disagree.
      No one “makes” anyone bitter. We are all responsible for our actions/inactions.
      If you are bitter because he treated you like sh-t while together after the fact, then you’re not mad about the treatment- you’re mad because you know you allowed it.
      Period.
      I have ZERO empathy for bitter exes.

  • Lauren S. Clark

    Drama. Please run.

  • mo-mo 4987

    i no a few of my ex girlfriends who need a copy of this last(lol) i check them when that need to be check.

  • Sagittarius81

    I am so blessed I didn’t have the crazy ex or baby mama drama, most guys I’ve dated didn’t have baggage. But my friend did, she met her future husband 5 years ago and his ex would make flyers and putting them on store windows and give it to people saying my friend has 10 kids with 8 baby daddies (she had 0 kids at the time) and she had AIDS. The ex ended up getting arrested and she and her husband moved to the suburbs, got married 2 years ago and just had their first child together last month.

    • SheBe

      You need to write a book. You have friends that have been through some of everything… LOL!

    • E McArthur

      that’s harsh! she could’ve sued too btw…

  • iHM

    If she’s still in the picture, and they don’t have kids, she’s not an ex. You’re the other woman. Women are so mean to each other. “Oh you mad”?? Obviously she’d be mad if her relationship is going through hard times and another woman comes in the picture. Now that restraining order stuff is different but this is just a show of how snarky and bitter women on BOTH SIDES of the issue are. YUCK!!

    • FromUR2UB

      True. I learned a long time ago that when a woman acts possessive about YOUR guy, it’s usually because he has encouraged that in some way. I don’t necessarily mean exes either.

      • What The Hell Ever

        You both hit the nail on the head!

      • iHM

        That’s right! Good point. It wouldn’t make sense any other way.

    • Lala

      I think you missed the point.

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