Erica Mena Justifies Her Affair With Married Radio Host DJ Envy By Saying, ‘He Wasn’t A Proud Married Man’

February 22, 2013  |  

Source: WENN

Since her 2012 debut on VH1’s “Love & Hip Hop”, the media world has been buzzing with gossip bits that Erica Mena had been engaged in an affair with very married Power 105.1 Breakfast Club host, DJ Envy. The troubled reality star unremorsefully confirmed the affair and admitted to only having ended it because of her relationship with co-star Rich Dollaz in an interview with I Am Super Gorge.

“I just wanna clear something up. I know that people have been calling me a homewrecker or whatever. I’m just gonna keep it real simple and say this, you can’t break a home that’s already broken. So, I mean at the end of the day, whatever happened with him and his marriage definitely has nothing to do with me… He’s been married for 18 years. He never once acted married until he found out that I was engaged. He definitely wasn’t a proud married man.”

She went on to say that anyone who’s interested in learning the dirty details of her affair with Envy can get the scoop in her new tell-all book, Underneath It All, which is scheduled to be released in April.

“I definitely think in time people will kind of get a better understanding of where I’m coming from because my book will be explaining it all. It drops in April. So you guys get to get the full-on story about me and this whole DJ Envy situation. [In the book] I give actual dates and how everything went about. You guys will also get the scoop on the fact that I kind of left that situation alone because I wanted to be with Rich.”

A delusional Erica took to her Twitter page this morning to offer fans the opportunity to select the cover art of her tell-all book.

“Help Pick The Cover To My New Book #UnderneathITAll By Me Coming This April ! @lffpublishing @michelefletcher VOTE!” she tweeted.

Source: Twitter

During the interview, she also danced around questions regarding her “pregnancy”, seemingly using the rumor as a ploy for reunion show ratings.

“Right before the reunion airs, I’ll tell you guys the full honest truth.I would rather keep people in suspense a little bit more, but you guys will be surprised at the final answer. I’m real excited.”

Considering that she was photographed throwing back a bottle of Patron on the same night that those alleged pregnancy photos surfaced, I doubt she’s pregnant. At least I hope she’s not.

You can listen to Erica’s full interview on the next page. Thoughts?

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  • TallGyal7

    They are both equally at fault. He is wrong because he IS married and she is wrong b/c she KNEW that he was married.

  • Laila

    Dear God, please let this woman fall off the face of the earth for mankind’s sake. Amen.

  • tikkit30

    I agree with most of these comments,and i think that the man does make the vows and he is the one that is in the marriage not the side woman, but it wouldn’t be any one to cheat with if these side women leave these(knowingly) married men alone. Erica is a bird, and if/when her and Rich does get married oh! Miss Mena better be prepared because she will receive it back. Be careful what you put out there, because it comes back to you.

  • DatsLife

    So she would rather write a book about being a WHO^E than a book on motherhood and how she tries to be a good example for her child. Brilliant!

  • I’m sorry, and I love me some DJ Envy, but if this is true I truly think of him differently. I get that she’s ‘cute’ but my gawd standards much?! I can’t imagine that this chick can hold a 30 min decent conversation. Let me stop judging this chick and have a _/ bc I have NOTHING positive to say about her and I’m trying to become a better person lol

  • Dichu eba realy lub mehSteebie

    This broad needs to be on an episode of Iyalna, Fix My Life just like Evelyn was. How trashy can you be?

    • Dichu eba realy lub mehSteebie

      And of ALL women he could have messed with. Erica Mena? Really? Do you not know this heffa reputation? And she has the biggest mouth in the industry and will put all of your business out there. How dumb can you be?

  • wow

    why our society glorifies the thirsty fowls? YES he is a mess…but each individual is responsible for your ish. pathetic jezebel.

  • anonymouse

    we can file this under ‘$hit hoes say’!!

  • AfricanBambi

    Someone put a muzzle on this girl! I can’t stand seeing her get so much shine…she makes me want to stop watching LHHNY…Mona Scott cut this bird loose!!! And Envy you better take this girl to court and put the “50 cent muzzle” on her. (referring to the court order 50 cent put on his baby mama to never get her to slander his name in public) I just don’t understand how deranged this girl is. She’s not normal.

    • LMAO @ 50 cent muzzle!


    As I drink my Cape Cod, I realize I’ m as thirsty as she is….***taking a big sip—ahhhh!***

  • Is It 5:00 Yet?

    Both parties are wrong, but especially the married one. It doesn’t matter if the marriage isn’t on good terms or not.

  • Jenn

    “It’s wrong for a married man to step outside of his marriage. HE made
    those vows. HE needs to be sure to keep them. If you don’t respect your
    own marriage, you can’t expect others to.”

    I agree. A man who cheats on his wife is triflin’. He needs to respect his vows.

    “But STILL, that’s someone else’s husband, no matter they’re happy or unhappy, it’s wrong to sleep with a MARRIED man!”

    As a woman who’s been happily married for 13 years, I co-sign 1,000%. It is triflin’ for a woman to KNOWINGLY sleep with a married man.

    So, why can’t we all agree that BOTH parties are a hot a@$ boiling mess? The cheating husband is disgusting. However, the sidepiece is EQUALLY disgusting if she KNOWINGLY slept with a married man. The sidepiece should not bear total responsibility for the breakup of the marriage, but she’s not an innocent bystander either.

    • Nikki

      As trifling as it may be, I don’t believe that she should bear any responsibility for the breakup of the marriage. Had she not had the opportunity to be with him (as in, had he not made himself available to her) no affair would have taken place. I’m not saying she is innocent or right in what occurred, but he should be the one catching the heat because he is the one that allowed all this to happen. All to often, women will call the “other women” all sorts of names and blame them for it all. If my husband EVER steps out, I will be coming at his head. I don’t care if I walk in on it and the girl is butt naked looking at me crazy. I’m going straight for him. Whether she knew he was married or not is irrelevant because there should have been no offer put on the table for her to accept.

      • Mia

        Finally! A woman with good sense! (High five!)

  • maggie

    I can’t believe DJ Envy is involved with this chick of all people. It is not because I think he is a saint but because his radio show and co-hosts clown people like Erika all the time. He couldn’t have chosen someone else?

    • KJ23

      That’s how I felt. I was like: “NOT DJ ENVY!! NOT YOU!!”

  • Indepth

    I’m also tired of people blaming the other woman. She didn’t make a commitment the man did. The only reason you can sue the other woman is if your married your basically suing yourself.

  • Oh well!!!

    This is the “New” Independent Woman, should we all follow her values, take her advice, follow her trail. So what? She slept with someone’s husband, people have been doing that for thousands of years, should we give her a cookie, a gold star, what????? I am just tired of women like this getting all of the props and glory and good women are looked down on. Some man used her for sex …………. What else is new?

  • Kahekili

    Of course the comments go straight to focusing on the woman and calling her names.

  • RealTalk

    Lmao, Who is this trash anyway, o my word lol, a woman, back up, a child that is not responsible that makes excuses for her stinkness and have no self respect, trading a$$ for a come up,

    Envy shame on you doingthat to your ride and die woman

    Excuse makers and trash doers WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND and some for sure can’t take it when it’s there turn. Poor girl child

  • Plumbline

    Jesus will give you victory over evil thoughts and tempatations, because His power is real….Ask Him into your life today………

    …..1 John 5:4…..

    For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.

    ….1 John 5:5….

    Who is he who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?

  • Meyaka

    Madame noire ,I don’t like this new mobile version,please fix it .

  • I hate the mobile and regular desktop format of this website. Change it back!!!

    • Dichu eba realy lub mehSteebie

      Ok? I have to refresh it like 10 times just to view the comment section properly. And its way too much going on with all these ads that you have to mute and close out of. Annoying

  • I don’t know the details about his marriage or his affair with his side piece, but Erica sweetie in civil court, it’s called “isolation of affection”. That is when the wife can sue the side piece as well as her husband. Married couples go through things sometimes, no doubt about it, and most times when it cannot be fixed, the side piece has a lot to do with it. Yes, you are contributing to the break up whether you would like to admit that or not. I hope your fiance knows what kind of person you are before he goes in full. You’ve proven you have no respect for the sanctity of marriage.

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  • lalatarea

    I know most ppl will disagree with me but I firmly believe in the quote “you cant destroy a marriage from the outside.” Whether he was acting married or not & whether she knew he was married or not is irrelevant because he knew he was married & that should have been enough reason to not sleep with this girl.

    Oh but she still is a hot ask mess trying to sell this book abt her affair with this man,I will never understand women who have to make their living off a man, it’s like being a hoe is a profession now days with full benefits and a 401k!

    • Meyaka

      I’m married and I agree with you.

    • SheBe

      “it’s like being a hoe is a profession now days with full benefits and a 401k!” IT IS! Don’t forget the company car and the expense account! Im married and if theses men are dumb enough to provide then I don’t blame the chick on the side for taking full advantage.

    • LMAO…did you just say she gets vacation days too?!

  • Sagittarius81

    But STILL, that’s someone else’s husband, no matter they’re happy or unhappy, it’s wrong to sleep with a MARRIED man! Please get help girl!

    • Nikki

      It’s wrong for a married man to step outside of his marriage. HE made those vows. HE needs to be sure to keep them. If you don’t respect your own marriage, you can’t expect others to.

      • Chey

        Regardless of what you say, if the man is married, stop being a wh*** and trying to seduce him! Don’t even play a part! Stop trying to justify wrong doing.

        • Sagittarius81

          Amen, even though the man is in the wrong too for stepping out of his marriage, Erica’s the one opening her wh*rish mouth saying something about it and making excuses for what she did.

          • Dichu eba realy lub mehSteebie

            Thank you. She is just as in the wrong Only difference is that he will be judged by God for his actions.

        • Nikki

          I’m not justifying anything. Of course she is wrong for helping him cheat on his wife. However, he is the one to blame, because he is the one that went looking for another place to lay his head. Who said she seduced him? How do you know that he did not seduce her? Erica did not make excuses. She just said that as a single woman, she slept with a man that didn’t give two cents about his marriage.

          • I for one agree with you 100%. Why anyone would assume a perfect stranger should have your best interest at heart over your HUSBAND seems strange to me. Of course any self-respecting woman should never lower herself by sneaking around with a married but its because she respects herself not because she respects some faceless woman she’s never met.

        • lalatarea

          So you’re saying that if some man kept trying to seduce you, you would have no choice to give in & sleep with him? Even if it means cheating on ur husband?

          • Chey

            Is that what I wrote? No.

            • lalatarea

              I’m sorry I didn’t spell it out for u,I didn’t think it was necessary. Your comment, “if the man is married, stop being a wh*re and trying to seduce him”, seems to imply that a man cannot resist the womans temptation and it is the wh*re who should take care of the mans marriage.

              That was my subjective interpretation of your comment and I was just asking to put the shoe on the other foot. THINKING IS FUNDAMENTAL!

        • Mia

          Seduce them!? Oh poor married man! You seriously need to grow up, most of these dog az men are the ones doing the seducing.

    • more

      SMH women are the only fools who insist on blaming the other women rather then blaming the dude sleeping right next to u ! At the end of the day only he can infect u with an STD NOT HER

      • Dichu eba realy lub mehSteebie

        She did blame “Him” not her. Get off the gas with that stereotypical bafoonery

        • more

          no HUN IM TALKING IN GENERAL! women love to blame the other women! As if they are the onces who made the commitment to u smh!

          • Dichu eba realy lub mehSteebie

            I wouldn’t even call it a general thing. Its just the stupid ones. Men do the same thing.

      • Say it again!

  • SheBe

    When will this chick and others like her no longer be relevant? I don’t watch the show but she seems to be a hot ssa mess.

    Also: Can you all at MN please fix the mobile version of the website? How ever it was 2 days ago was perfect. Now it’s a horrible version of the desk top version and its a mess on my iPhone.

    • sabrina

      It’s the same format on the computer too, and I hate it! I really hope it’s a site malfunction, rather than their new layout. IT WAS TOTALLY FINE BEFORE, MN!!!

      • JaneDoe

        yea this is a mess. I hardly want to be bothered with it anymore.. Get it together MN I heart this sight

        • JaneDoe