It’s So Hard To Say Goodbye But He’s Got To Go! Signs You’re Wasting Your Time
8. There’s Physical/Verbal Abuse
This should go without saying, but if you’re in a physically abusive relationship, but feel it’ll get better, you’re wasting your time…and possibly jeopardizing your life. Love is not supposed to hurt and thinking he’ll change is wishful thinking indeed. Again, some women feel that if a man raises his hand to her, it must be because he really loves her or because she brought it on herself. Even if he isn’t hitting her, mean words lashed out can hurt just as bad as a fist. Abusive men prey on women with self-esteem issues so that they can manipulate them into staying with him, making her feel like she can’t find another man who will “love” her like he does. If this is you, wake up, get out, and get help. If a man loves you, he’ll never, ever want to hurt you – physically, emotionally or otherwise.
