It’s So Hard To Say Goodbye But He’s Got To Go! Signs You’re Wasting Your Time

3. No Commitment

You’ve been dating a guy for six months and you really think there is potential for a long-term relationship. The only problem is you can’t get him to talk about where he sees the relationship going and he introduces you to others as his “friend.” You spend all of your free time together, you’ve met his friends and maybe even his family – yet the word “girlfriend” seems to elude him. He tells you that you’re perfect and that he loves spending time with you, but he needs “more time” to figure out what he wants, or that he has “intimacy” or “commitment” issues. He’s been hurt before, so he wants to be sure you’re “the one.” All of that is BS. If a guy wants you, nothing can keep him from you. He’ll stop at nothing to keep you all for himself, so all this other crap is simply that – crap. Either he’s making excuses or he DOES have real issues that only a therapist can work out. Don’t waste your time with a guy who won’t claim you or who’s not ready for a commitment. It won’t matter how great you are or that you’re possibly the best girlfriend he’s ever had – if he’s not ready for a commitment, he’s simply not ready.