Come Sit on Mama Lap! Signs You Might Be a Sugar Mama

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February 3, 2013 ‐ By Brooke Dean
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Often times, when we hear the term “sugar mama,” we think of a well-to-do woman in her 40’s, successful in her own right, and probably a “cougar.” While typically women of means who are lonely and looking for companionship have no problem acquiring a boy toy that they can pay to come and go as she pleases, there are situations where a man could be using a woman for her money and she’s none the wiser. Not all sugar mamas are cougars who copped a few stacks in a divorce settlement or widows who were left a ton of cash. Some sugar mamas are average women who feel they need to pay for a man’s love and affection. Not sure he’s using you as his meal ticket? Look out for these signs…and keep your money in the bank!

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  • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

    If some women want to finance some romance that’s her business. I personally felt revolted reading most of these.

  • Sagittarius81

    My 34-year-old brother has 4 sugar mamas and they’re in their 40s and 50s. One pays his child support for his kids, one pays his rent, one pays for his school and one pays for his clothes. Plus he has a job as a security guard.

  • Rebecca

    Where was this article when I needed it a month ago….

  • Peter Parker

    It really seems at though the author is telling women that they should be looking for a sucker. Especially #7. I agree sex should be free, but I dare to to show me a chick who will not turn sex into a opportunity for financial gain. (Here is a CLUE: SUCH A WOMAN DOES NOT EXIST).

    I personally don’t have a problem taking care of a chick but it really seems as though the author is making it out as though men are suppose to be suckas who were put on the earth to work from sunrise to sunset just so some chick don’t have to lift a finger

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      No. What she’s saying is be aware if a man just wants to dig in your pockets. Nothing more nothing less. Some women won’t care if she has to spend that cash to get some of his time, others aren’t looking for that.

  • JustSayin

    I date men that have too much pride to allow me to have that much control over their lives. For them to come to ask me for money or always take care of them? They would go crazy just trying to prove themselves.

  • Meyaka

    Yeah… No,im down for a partnership but i can’t take care of a grown man.

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