A Rough Patch Or A Bad Attitude? Signs You Are Dating A Pessimist
He thinks of every reason something will fail
Suggest he go after some goal and he tells you exactly what the odds are he’ll actually succeed (the odds are low), just how many other people are going after the same goal and how much more qualified they are, all the gruesome and unpleasant things he’ll have to do to achieve that goal and just about any excuse not to go after it. But somehow he fails to realize that all of those exact same odds were stacked against the people who have succeeded at that goal. The only difference was, they didn’t let it get to them.