Girl, Take It To The Grave! 9 Secrets That Are Okay to Keep From Your Man

December 15th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean
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As close and in love as you may be with your current partner, I think it’s safe to say there’s something your partner doesn’t know about you. While I believe that most couples should have little to no secrets between them, revealing too much or digging up the past that has no bearing on who you are today may be irrelevant, and cause unnecessary drama in your relationship. All couples are different, and if you feel your union is so strong that it can sustain anything that you divulge about yourself, then great! But if you don’t feel obligated to reveal everything there is to know about your life, here are a few things we feel you might be able to keep close to the vest…with a few caveats of course.

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  • TyraLove

    I agree with this list. These types of things will certainly scare a man off. A few ladies must have not read thoroughly because the past is the past and unless it affects your bf he doesn’t have to know.

  • BIGwalt

    You forgot to ask number 10: Have she ever sold some punany ?

  • Whitefang

    Yeah,I would wana know if my fiancee is a slore or not.That would answer why the gasman,milkman,mailman ,poolboy,baggage boy and repairman all got smirks on their face.Yo if she a freak, I would put that goldmine azz to work and we can both profit..

  • David Ostend

    You must be single or have a horrible track record in relationships. The whole time I’m reading this I’m like #wheredeydodatat oo yeah, West Ratsville

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  • Grave Flower

    As well all know, the best way to start (and maintain) a healthy, happy, loving relationship is to keep secrets from the start. We, as women, have the audacity to complain about men being lying scumbags, and here we are, basically saying that it’s perfectly okay for us to do what we so loudly (and frequently) claim to hate.

    Way to be hypocrites! You must be so proud!

  • http://twitter.com/Sandytoes812 sandytoes

    I agree with keeping debt, previous STDS, information about ex’s and “toy” collection secret. But I do not agree with the rest. Secrets like affairs, sex partners ect… are the reason why dating is so screwed up.

  • Niciana

    Honestly, I’m a female & I dont give into the double standard mess & look at both guys and girls as equal. With that being said, if a girl hooks up with 40 guys, I would look at her just the same as a guy that hooked up with 40 girls. My significant other BETTER be honest from day 1 or else!!! I also feel that I am very secure with myself, but I still will look at my boyfriend as a skeezer, just off the simple fact that I havent been with a lot of people. Girls who take men who’ve been with a lot of women, are girls who’ve also have been with a lot of men, and vice versa. Its no such thing as saving anybody from their past or present, it is just timing. A person “calms” down when they are ready to. But its BEST to be honest about everything, because you would want your partner to do the same. I’m just sayinggggg

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  • Kish

    I hope this article is only in relations to a VERY non-serious relationship. Because out of this list, the only thing I wouldn’t tell my partner is my best sex (unless it was them)–I wouldn’t want to hurt them. But STDs, Abortions, etc, I would because I would them to tell me… The more open the better the relationship.

  • u mad?

    why would your partner need to know most of this information? I’m sure if you have negative thoughts about this article you’re probably a man but let’s say a female got it on and popping in college went through thirty dudes but is std/sti free and then moves to a new town why does her new partner need to know she had an abortion by a previous guy and how many partners she had that info is totally irrelevant this is a great article!!

  • Ai

    Keep in mind that if you’re keeping these secrets, expect your mate to do the same.

  • David

    This is all horrible advice. And people wonder why half of all marriages fail…

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