Black Coffee, No Sugar No Cream; Why Men of All Cultures Love Black Women

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November 17, 2012 ‐ By Liz Lampkin
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“Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not built to suit a fashion models size, but when I start to tell them they think I’m telling lies. I say, it’s in the reach of my arms, the span of my hips, the stride of my step, the curl of my lips. I’m a woman phenomenally. Phenomenal woman that’s me.”

-Maya Angelou

Have you ever wondered why so many men of other races are attracted to or drawn to the beauty that is the black woman? Has the question ever crossed your mind, why do men of a different color stare at black women in awe? Have you ever wondered why men of other races are so fascinated with black women? Well, I have and I found the answers to these and other questions. A while ago, a friend of mine and I were talking and laughing about a slight temper tantrum a co-worker of ours was having at work. We both had a look of slight confusion on our faces before we agreed that he needed to calm down, then all of a sudden, out of the blue my friend said, “He needs to date a black woman so he can calm down!”  As I listened to his words I was shocked and somewhat taken aback by this statement because my friend is a man of Hellenic decent, and I wondered why he would say that. So of course I asked him, “Why do you think he would be calmer if he dated black women?”  He then began to tell me about his experience with dating a black woman. He started telling me that dating a black woman was an uplifting experience for him. While she was strong in sprit and dominant, she was also nurturing with sex appeal. She knew how to de-stress him after a long days work, she healed his soul with good food and company while boosting his confidence. So then I asked my friend what initially attracted him to a black woman. He enthusiastically stated curves, curves, curves and more curves! He further stated that he loves the curves of a black woman’s lips, hips, eyes, waist, etc. He even loves a black woman’s curly hair! He was also attracted to her spirit ‘faith’ and the woman she was as a whole.

During the course of our conversation my friend expressed to me that his black queen made him feel like a MAN during their relationship. He said that she allowed him to be the man by simply allowing him to make plans, and by allowing him to be chivalrous. He also told me that she knew how to be a lady that a man could compliment while still being Hot. I then asked my friend did she intimidate him, and he said no. I also asked him did she ever ‘check’ him, or put him in his place, and how did it make him feel. He said she did put him in his place, and it felt good because it allowed him to refocus on what he should be doing, and get back to where he was supposed to be when he got off track. I asked him these questions because so often I hear that black women are intimidating to men, or we have too much attitude to deal with so on and so on, but from this Hellenic man’s perspective the stronger the woman she was the better. As our conversation started to end, I asked my friend what he would tell black men about black women. He said that he would tell them that black women are not just black women. We are African-American women, which means there is a lot of culture within who we are, and we are the ones who can and will continue the race with our strength, our pride and or heritage. Before our conversation came to an end, I asked my friend these final questions; what advice would you give to black women about men, and would you date a black woman again? The advice he would give to black women about men is to let a man be a man. And the final question, would he date another black woman? What do you think…? Black coffee, no sugar no cream, men of all cultures do indeed love black women.

Liz Lampkin is the Author of Are You a Reflection of the Man You Pray For? Follow her on Twitter @Liz_Lampkin.

 

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  • Tesh

    one mans only ONE black girl friend experience…. and a full article. damn. talk about extreme generalisation

  • DaisyDooks

    Why don’t we ever talk about the divisive, manipulative psychology that puts a wedge between Black Americans and Continental Blacks? Why don’t we employ our COLLECTIVE THINKING POTENTIALS to mitigate subterfuge in this regard? When Continental AfRAkans see Black self-hatred on full display in the media, how can they find kinship with those who deny their origins and ancestry, and make mockery of various ethnic groups on the Continent? There are self-hating Europeanized AfRAkans, too. When Black Americans see how western media portrays AfRAka and AfRAkans, they don’t want any association and seek to distance themselves–even if it means breeding with other races. Ignorance is exploited on all sides.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jessica-Johnson/100003283301448 Jessica Johnson

    Men are men, they like women….well, some of them do. Your color don’t make you special. No big mystery there.

  • DLynn Adams

    Well, this made me poke out my chest! Lol! Love it! I will say that there have been a few times in my life when I have noticed myself BEING NOTICED by men who aren’t Black. I usually just dismiss it. When I really ponder it, it makes me a little sad. Why? Because I think there’s a small part of me that doesn’t feel worthy of their attention. Sad, I know. There’s a certain level of unease that bubbles up in me, suspicion, questions, u know. This did my heart good. :-)

  • the emperor

    Sure would be nice to hear nice things like this about us black men. All we ever get are stories telling us we’re horrible in bed,we don’t know how to treat our women and we are generally no good. I guess that’s just how it is. Too bad.

  • http://www.facebook.com/thokozileX Thokozile Xaba

    We the ones the queens white people have to use the media to try and tear us down and destroy OUR race. F*** ‘em, jealous ..

  • dre8791

    Why is it that black women are the biggest group of single, unwed women? Because men from other races are not trying to catch H.I.V. or be taken for their money. PERIOD!

    • http://www.facebook.com/thokozileX Thokozile Xaba

      If u hate black women so much, why r u here? Go to some white women site and be around the women u love.

  • DK

    I have known 3 black women for a few years now and have a lot of respect for them in many ways. I feel that its whats in the Heart that means everything, not the color.

  • DK

    I have known 3 black women for a few years now and have a lot of respect for them in many ways. I feel that its whats in the Heart that means everything, not the color.

  • WhereBrooklynAt?

    This was nice to read…. then I looked at the comments wth “Georgia”. Clearly a white racist that spends his free time surfing the web for black sites just so he can talk smack. Let me know if I missed anything in the description :-)

  • Is It 5:00 Yet?

    Who has the time to worry about whether they are desirable to other races?

  • May.Ma

    This is silly. One opinion of one man in a relationship with one Black women, does not reflect how all men feel nor does it reflect how all Black women make men feel in a relationship.

  • poolgamer

    I have noticed that whenever or if ever something nice is finally reported about black women, that a lot of people seem to have a terrible problem with that. Why is that? I think it’s jealousy, the lack of understanding about black women, and the lack of knowledge. In some cases, it also shows a sign of weakness. When any one thing that appears to most to be a negative persona of black people in general, most people lump all black people into that category. Example: like all blacks steal or all black women are loud. This stuff just isn’t true at all. It’s such a shame to see and hear that certain people have so much negativity against one race and those that are against their own race. After all, I know that 92% of Serial Killers are white but you won’t hear me saying that all white men are serial killers. In addition, if you haven’t met every black women or man on the face of the earth how can you literally state all blacks are a certain way. If you have had a bad rapport with a black woman or women then so be it! Those women didn’t work for you so move on. As many bad experiences that I and many women I know have had with black men, you don’t hear black women beating them down or throwing them under the bus! Some people really need to check themselves and the ignorant things they put out there in the universe.

  • DaisyDooks

    *Y-A-A-A-W-W-W-N-N-N*

  • DaisyDooks

    Ha! You should have read ‘Georgi Harps’ posts. This is a two-way street. If you trolls can dish it—expect backlash. I ain’t scurred.

  • Nene

    They love us because we birth the nation. They love us because we are beautiful and smart.

    • DaisyDooks

      I find the concerted efforts and media propagandized campaigns to demoralize Black women–and convince them that they are beneath not only the women of other races, but the ENTIRE human race–ludicrous at best. In essence, such disparagement reveal quite the opposite in TRUTH. The root of the human tree starts with the DNA of Black women–and Black men (who came along NINE cosmogonic eras later). I don’t think many Black women are AWARE of their TRUE history and exceptional BRILLIANCE on THIS planet. There has been an on-going MAJOR cover-up of Black women’s accomplishments through revisionist history and reassigning credit to other gender and races. Do Black females REALLY know that THEY were the FIRST to invoke CREATIVE INTELLIGENCE, and with this powerful THOUGHT potential, THEY demonstrated through their very OWN existence how energy became matter? Black women were the FIRST scientists, physicists and Khemists who understood energy and forces (spirituality) and elements in the universe. It was Black women who identified NUMBERS–which are formations of magnetic sine waves–and are the basis of ALL existence within the PHYSICAL universe–including the creation of the universe itself. NUMBERS is the ORIGINAL CULTURE of Black people. Black women were the FIRST astronomers who studied the trajectory of stars, observed supernovas (black holes), mapped star systems for navigational purposes and tracking time cycle changes. It was because of these activities that they originated higher-level MA’AT(thematics)–Geometry, Trigonometry, Integral Kalkulus and Kalkulus. Black women originated the METRIC system–and placed meter-sized slabs in the base of pyramids during its construction. The word ‘technology’ is an etymological derivative of ‘Tekhi’ –the name of a Black female High Priestess/Astronomer/Scientist who gave us GEOMETRY. There is much, much more. The bottom line is if it were not for the INTELLECTUAL developments of Black women–which birthed and groomed IMHOTEP–none of you would be enjoying the materialism you have today.

      This is not to boost ego, but to invoke SELF-INTROSPECTION and trigger memories in your cells that connect you BACK to your original consciousness. How did we
      fall? Why did we relinquish our power? How can we REACTIVATE our MINDS?

      Black women, the power to change (anything) has ALWAYS been within YOU! You embody the science. You ARE the key to the Universe.

  • Nisha

    ok Internet trolls…..if you hate black women or black people in general, why in the hell are you stalking Madame Noire?? GET A DAMN LIFE AND SOME SENSE. Your negativity and stupidity are quite amusing…but take it elsewhere.

  • http://twitter.com/AlexPareene Alex Pareene

    High testosterone levels give black women a more masculine look than other races.

  • Lola

    irrationalblackman…tumblr…c.o.m.

  • tperks

    From personal experience it’s not about dating a black woman, I find that now a days more black women are dating outside of their own race. It’s more common now to see a black woman dating a white or hispanic man.. even asian. I think black women want to see what else is out there, I think they’re tired of the same and willing to try different things.
    Yes I’m white and married to a black woman. I don’t love her for her culture or hair or the color of her skin.. I love her for being a beautiful human being. She’s my other half and it doesn’t matter what color she is.

    • Alohilani

      It’s not more common. Black women have the lowest rates of interracial dating.

      • DaisyDooks

        Thank GOODNESS!! An intelligent Black woman KNOWS Black children can’t be born through miscegenation. Black children have a right to exist like those of other races.

  • Patricia

    Wonder what was his response to in dating another black woman? I am glad to hear some somebody that appears from another race giving positive thing to say about black women. I was surprise at his response. It is great to hear that. Hopefully we can continue to draw more positive responses from men. Not from the media always thinking black women cuss, fight, have anger issues and loud.

  • CriticXtreme

    I saw this in England, Hawaii, Phoenix, Paris and recently in the UAE. Of course, the dudes were every other race accept black. This says that either black women are loving pale face, trying to get paid, hating on the brother as worthless or just trying to get respect.

    • temple t00

      All of these are none of your bizness. Just as it’s none of your bizness when a black man dates/mates w/a woman who is not black. As a matter of fact, you should choose the reason that keeps you awake at nite. Which is probably “all of the above.” :D

  • terrinyc29

    That article is full of stereotypes. All Black women are not Dominant, I dislike this term, I personally like a dominant men. Also I’m not surprised when men of all races are attracted to me. I’m an attractive woman, I take care of myself, not over weight, have many attributes that ALL Men LOVE!

    Society says if a white men or any non black men finds a black woman attractive there is something wrong with him. Black women and Black men have brought into that LIE, white men oddly enough most have not.

  • http://twitter.com/docbndgrl9113 Keesha (Киша)

    While I do love reading positive articles, I do agree with some of the comments from people that are saying that they don’t need validation from men of other races, let alone black men. This website does seem to push interracial relationships so much and it does get annoying. I don’t understand all of this internet fighting in this comment section though. It’s pretty immature and ridiculous.

  • color focus

    why is it whenever u see a pic w bw & wm the bw look so animated & exicited like groupies while the wm appear phoney like cardboards w the look of uncertainty on their face???

  • samech

    with white people on their way out…..they should really be nicer………oh well!

  • Machelle Kwan

    I think i’m just about done with this site. I”m tired of these swirl stories because honestly I just don’t give a….well you fill in the blanks. I’ve had it up to here. And to whoever wrote this mess..Girl bye..

  • Shirl

    I really like Madame noire. I enjoy the articles and reading the comments section which is usually insightful, intelligent and funny. Unfortunately it seems that trolls from another site (B)(O)(S)(S)(I )(P) have found their way onto one of my favorite forums and so I’m out…if I want to read racist rants and ignorance I’ll visit TMZ.

  • French

    I was taught if u dont have anything good to say dont say anything at all. Some people were not taught at all. And grew with nobody that loved them. We must be mindful of this n pitty these people.

  • shelshel

    This article almost made me cry. The media have been tearing away at us black women for quite sometime. It is very nice to hear that we are still loved and wanted. Thank you for this article

  • piper

    Real men like a challenge….. not a docile yes woman with no opinion

  • Alohilani

    THE RESISTANCE TO THIS ARTICLE CONFUSES ME. IT’S LIKE, THE SAME PEOPLE WHO DON’T LIKE THIS ARTICLE ARE PROBABLY THE SAME PEOPLE WHO CLAP AND NOD THEIR HEADS WHEN BLACK MEN PROCLAIM TO LOVE DARK SKINNED WOMEN

    • Kay

      So there is an issue with black men that have an affinity for dark skinned women?

      • DeeD

        You can’t throw the side eye at a sister that feels good about getting a compliment from a white guy and then give a pat on the back to a black man that says he loves dating dark skinned sisters.
        You’re not practicing what you are preaching because you are accepting validation from another person.
        Everyone likes to get compliments from others whether they be white, black, man or woman. The real validation should come from within, but let’s not act as if that doesn’t help build confidence even just a little bit.

        • Kay

          I don’t have a problem with interracial dating, I just asked a question so I don’t understand why you Directed your comment towards me?

        • Alohilani

          Yes, you understand me!

        • DaisyDooks

          The underlying psychology behind your post intrigues me. Are Black men NOT supposed to love dark-skinned women? Why was this SPECIFIC distinction made and compared to the affinity of white men toward Black women? Exactly what scope of Black women does your commentary reference? Does it include dark-skinned women?

          Black women who are INTERNALLY-directed/guided, SELF-centered, SELF-affirmed, SELF-actualized and possess SELF-esteem and SELF-confidence and exude SELF-love generally have no emotional-investment in the opinions of other individuals–regardless of their gender or race.

    • DaisyDooks

      The Black woman is the DARK-SKINNED WOMAN. She is DEFINITELY not other. The dark-skinned woman DEFINES the Black race because it is ONLY through her WOMB that we inherit the genes that make us truly BLACK. She is the ROOT and ORIGINAL of the HUEman race. Affinity between AUTHENTIC Blacks is NORMAL—in spite of what the color caste/paper-bag test brigade thinks.

      • Alohilani

        Are you saying that light complexioned Black women are not actually Black?

        • DaisyDooks

          There is no such thing as a light-skinned Black person. The appearance of paler hues among Blacks is a result of amalgamation. Brown, red and yellow hues are NOT the STANDARD that defines Black or BLACKNESS. The standard for BLACKNESS is defined by high melatonin-melanin productive-skinned humans with the BLACK-COIL-KINK-SPIRAL hair and O-Blood type. It is THIS prototype that is NATIVE to EVERY continent and island. BLACK is CARBON. CARBON is BLACK. BLACK is DARK. Nature gives us FACTS. Nature does NOT lie.

          The ‘One-Drop Rule’ is an invention of Caucasians. Their genetic amalgamation with BLACK AfRAkans does NOT redefine BLACKNESS. It erases it and severs the umbilical cord from the original DNA legacy. I question the competence of so-called ‘Blacks’ with the “white and light is better and superior” consciousness. Apparently, they haven’t a clue about DNA. And they have the nerve to perpetuate a color caste that marginalizes DARKER-hued individuals (AUTHENTIC BLACKS) within the AfRAkan race.

          I boldly challenge ANY philosophy and ideology that despises BLACKNESS and DARKNESS–even in its PHYSICAL human form. That usually indicates such human brains have no connection to nature or the BLACK/DARK universe.

          • Alohilani

            I am actually O+ and have coil-kink, spiral hair, but I am light skinned. So are you saying I am not actually a Black woman? What am I then?

            • DaisyDooks

              mixed.

            • DaisyDooks

              I’m trying to understand the LOGIC and underlying message behind this odd and strange statement coming from YOU–a self-identified ‘Black’ woman: “THE SAME PEOPLE WHO DON’T LIKE THIS ARTICLE ARE PROBABLY THE SAME PEOPLE
              WHO CLAP AND NOD THEIR HEADS WHEN BLACK MEN PROCLAIM TO LOVE DARK
              SKINNED WOMEN”

              Is there a consensus that DARK-SKINNED women are something ‘OTHER’ than Black women which makes it STRANGE or ABNORMAL for a Black man to entertain romantic interests in them? Why was it necessary to make this distinction and equate it to romantic interests that white males have for Black women? I’m trying to reconcile the critical thinking behind your post.

              • Alohilani

                Well…

                Darker complexioned Black women have it told to them all of the time that their skin color makes them ‘ugly’. When a Black man says that he ‘loves’ dark skin, women clap and nod their head in approval. That is a form of validation. But at the same time, if a non-Black man said the same thing, we end up with the comments here with women saying that ‘we’ don’t need validation from non-Black men or their approval and that the site is promoting ‘interracial dating propaganda’. How can they accept one over the other?

                • DaisyDooks

                  You have a distorted way of thinking. It is perplexing and a little amusing to me. That’s why I have to ask:

                  0. Are you assuming that the naysayers to this article are dark-skinned women ONLY?

                  1. If a Black man says he ‘loves’ dark skin, how is that a form of validation? Is it ‘validation’ if a dark-skinned man or light-skinned man proclaimed his love of dark-skinned women?

                  2. Are you assuming that dark-skinned women need validation because they’re told their skin color makes them ‘ugly’?

                  3. Why should dark-skinned women seek approval and validation from non-Black men?

                  4. What’s wrong with dark-skinned women who don’t have an interest in non-Black men? Do all light-skinned women have an interest in non-Black men?

                  5. Are you telling dark-skinned women ONLY that they are hypocritical for accepting ‘validation’ from Black men, but not white men?

                  6. Are you assuming that light-skinned women don’t need validation because they’re not told that their skin color makes them ‘ugly’?

                  • Alohilani

                    Maybe you should have posed your questions before insulting me. If you think I have a ‘distorted way of thinking’ and find me to be ‘amusing’, then there is no further need for discussion. Thanks.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      I just wanted to know why you felt it necessary to single out dark-skinned women because some female bloggers expressed that they didn’t give a d-a-m-n about what non-Black men thought about Black women after reading that shallow stereotypical and patronizing article?

                      Besides, I’m a DARK dark-skinned woman (AUTHENTIC BLACK) who doesn’t see the correlation of what you attempted to convey. You’ve made some outlandish assumptions in your statements. I know I’m not the only one who’s read them and thought ‘WTF’?

                    • Alohilani

                      ‘Outlandish’, ‘distorted’, and ‘amusing’. Okay, I get it. Thanks. You’re not right in what you assumed I meant in my statements.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      The underlying psychology behind your post intrigued me. You seemed a little peeved (which probably accounted for your CAPS LOCK use) that a few Black female bloggers were disinterested in white males’ opinion of them. Why does this matter–to you?

                      So, in trying to identify who these anonymous nay-saying female bloggers were (who had the audacity to shrug off the feigned interests of white men), you quipped that they were “PROBABLY THE SAME PEOPLE WHO CLAP AND NOD THEIR HEADS WHEN BLACK MEN PROCLAIM TO LOVE DARK SKINNED WOMEN”? <–WTF?!

                      Who are the women that clap and nod their heads when Black men proclaim to love dark-skinned women? Yellow, beige, brown or dark chocolate?

                      Who are the Black men that proclaim to love dark-skinned women? Yellow, beige, brown or dark chocolate?

                      Do you see where I'm going with this? Exactly WHO are you addressing?

                      Furthermore, are Black men NOT supposed to love dark-skinned women–since you made this a point of distinction? How is this relevant to the nay-saying female bloggers or the article?

                      Your commentary made no sense to me, but it DID highlight your thinking as a 'light-skinned' so-called 'Black' woman.

                • DaisyDooks

                  “Darker complexioned Black women have it told to them all of the time that their skin color makes them ‘ugly’.” <<—-This sounds like the pontification of a n*ggerstock mind. Ugly doesn't discriminate. It invades EVERY color and race. Based upon what I've seen with my OWN eyes domestically and internationally, NATURAL DARK BLACK BEAUTY is unmatched!! There is something exquisite, majestic in the splendor of that BLACKNESS.

    • realadulttalk

      that made no sense whatsoever.

  • kukukashew

    The thought behind this was nice, but the article is weird and sounds a bit contrived. Besides the fact that it’s ripe with generalizations. Regardless, I am so glad I’m African-Canadian and that I’m just me. All this stereotyping seems unhealthy – meditate and don’t let these definitions and labels become your “self.”

  • kaci

    This in my opinion is just plain crazy…. u should move to europe to see how black women are viewed. Its embarrassing really. All the black men running around with white girls. But a white man with all the good qualities a woman could ask for would rather go to thailand or russia to get him a wife or remain single for the rest of his life rather than dating or God forbid marrying a black woman. If people see him with a black wife they think he is either a drug addict loser or a misfit who couldn’t land himself a woman (the blonde and blue eyed one).
    I think its immensely sad but thats the reality of it. I have met white men that said they just want the black girl experience, can u believe that?? I think unless I move I’ll probably be single for the rest of my life……

  • Mcgrady

    I been left bm alone. Best decision ever!!

    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

      No black man wants an insecure wh0re like you raising his family.
      B!tch you were never even on their minds.

      • darealgeorgiharps!!

        my twin needs to stop speaking for me

  • temple t00

    Interesting POV.
    I see the troll horde have descended like flies on sh*t.
    Most are men posing as women, some are aged lonely women desperate to bring young women in the misery boat with them. Luckily many black women can think for themselves & not with the ‘black hive mind.’

    • Alohilani

      I would say that there is a very groupthink like situation going on here.

    • Blackhawk

      I think the point is why would a site geared towards black women, knowing that the vast majority of them (probably about 90%) date, are in a relationship, or marry black men, would have articles about interracial dating every single day. Whats the reasoning? I know what it is because the same propaganda is being marketed towards black men too, even though the vast majority of us date and marry black women.

      • Kay

        That can’t be further from the truth.. And again I will ask because none of you will answer my question. Why are you, a man, on a site geared towards African American women?

        • Blackhawk

          Whats not true about what i said? I’m a black man and I like to have conversations with black women.. whats the problem? It seems natural to me. If had a black male blog and wrote an article about dating, i would hope that women would visit my site and chime in with their opinion.

          • Kay

            So you don’t feel the least big fruity at typing ” madamenoire” everyday into your browser so you can comment on women’s issues?

            • Blackhawk

              I read Bossip who posts some of MN articles on their site like this one. The sites are linked. And I never knew dating was just a woman’s issue either. Now.. I answered ur question that u said u couldn’t any man to answer. Now answer mine.. what did i say that was so far from the truth?

              And that gay attempt was just lame…

              • Kay

                Far from the truth: that you attempted to assume that all the women on this site are in a relationship with black men and that this site attempts to fill their head with right is white propaganda

                • Blackhawk

                  I don’t know about the women on this site, but are you saying that the vast majority of black women do not date black men.. and if u can’t see that this site isn’t pushing interracial dating as the answer to the black woman’s relationship problems then its just no convincing u.

                  • GeekMommaRants

                    This and other sites which to attempt alternatives for some strange reason from inter-racial dating to bisexuality and even dating bi-sexual men. This an other sites see there is a pattern that well since most black women are single or divorce with about 30% married, so alternatives must be offered, for some reason??

                    • Blackhawk

                      I can have a conversation for days about the history of the media and black people, but to sum it up… the media have never or never will be the friend of black people. You have to be careful who and where u get ur advice from. You may think they are trying to help, but think about it.. both black men and women are being pushed to date interacially. Why? Remember a divided people have no power.. political, economic. etc.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      “the media have never or never will be the friend of black people.” <—This!! Say it louder, please…THEY CAN'T HEAR YOU!!

                    • realadulttalk

                      Most of the writers admit they are single–my momma told me never take relationship advice from a woman who has no man. You didn’t even need the last 3 sentences. Lol

                  • DaisyDooks

                    Blackhawk, I find the targeted marketing of IR to Black women highly offensive. Caucasians date/marry across cultural boundaries and language barriers within their race. Why aren’t Black women/Black men encouraged PUBLICLY to do the same in expanding their dating options if there truly existed a crisis? Intuitively, we already know who is behind the propaganda—and for what purpose. The blueprint of human existence is DNA. Those whose genetic material is defective and degenerative to the point where its poses a risk to their mortality will require stable genetic materials from others to prolong their existence. What genes are more complete and stable than BLACK genes?

              • DaisyDooks

                I’m a Black woman who took no offense in what you conveyed in your initial statement. I perceive you as a critical thinker. You are observant. I revere those qualities in any human brain.

              • realadulttalk

                In her defense…I actually assumed every man who came on this site was gay.

          • temple t00

            There are 20+ million black women in the U.S. You def don’t know 90% of them (I’ve never met you in my life). Your stats are bullshiggity.

          • DaisyDooks

            I would support your blog.

      • DaisyDooks

        Good post.

  • MIYO K.

    “The advice he would give to black women about men is to let a man be a man.”

    This trite advice needs to stop. Women do not need to ‘allow’ or ‘let’ a man be a man.

  • SheBe

    We (women) make things so much more complicated than they should be.

  • Nicole

    This aticle is stupid. FIRST of all, why do we need to be told we are GOOD ENOUGH by not only our Black men but men of other races. It is bad enough that we are told we arent but now we need validation from other races when we been running things since 1 A.D….So now that a white manhas somethig to say about a Black women he dated..we are vindicated now?

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

    But if another race is attracted to black men, it’s because she has jungle fever or is only after his money??? I’m confused

    • Lola

      Don’t worry some of us share in your confusion, Kayla. I’ve re-read this article multiple times to see if, perhaps, I’m missing something because I cannot comprehend why seemingly intelligent women are falling all over themselves simply because a non-black man is enamored with black women. I just don’t get it. #inastateofconfusion

      • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

        With myself i would be flattered if he looked good. Could care less what his race was. If idris Elba and Ryan gosling walked up to me. I would be just as happy. :-)

        • Lola

          LOL I can relate however MN will require that you write a piece to regale us with your encounter with Ryan. Idris who? They would ask…haha.

          • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

            Don’t worry when that happens you’ll be the first to know

      • temple t00

        You have an agenda. Thee only thing you’re confused about is how to ensure you are not alone in your misery.

    • MIYO K.

      “The only people who worry about who other people date are people who can’t find anyone for themselves.”

      If that simply were the case, then the ‘Nothing but a brotha’ Black women wouldn’t be on here talking about how much they hate interracial dating articles.

      • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

        If the shoe doesn’t fit them, then those are obviously not the women I’m talking about.

        • MIYO K.

          Naw, that cliche doesn’t work here.

          If the ‘only people who worry about who other people date are people who can’t find anyone for themselves’, that would mean EVERY woman who stated they dislike interracial dating articles is single.

          • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

            It may be a cliche but it’s true. And being single doesn’t automatically equate with being worried with who someone dates. I never said that. If a person is overly worried then chances are they are single, but that doesn’t mean if you’re single, that means you’re worried.

  • shehiplocki

    I found the article interesting in that I starting thinking am i being too suspicious of non-black male attention.
    When I was growing up I read all the African-American books I could get my hands on. We had Black History classes and the Black Panthers, Black militants and Black leaders getting assassinated I’m fiftythree and single now for a long time(cool with that}. But in my job I am flirted with by white men all the time, but since they don’t ask me out I just basically pay it no mind.
    But I said that because whenever they flirt I always wonder if they are stuck with the myth of the black sexualized woman that I used to read about in the past. Makes me wonder.

    • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

      no, they like you and don’t over think it. We as black women over think our presence in society. Just be who you are and accept the fact that a man likes you without trying to explain it.

    • realadulttalk

      It depends on the man. I’ve dated white men–only one made me stop dating him b/c I felt like I was some kind of fantasy to him. But there were major signs–I didn’t even have to second guess anything. Flirt back with them…until you do they won’t say anything…they don’t know if you are interested and many white men are intimidated to approach black women if they are not 1000% sure the feelings will be reciprocated.

  • MIYO K.

    IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE A ‘NOTHING BUT A BROTHA’ TYPE OF WOMAN, THEN WHY CLICK ON THIS ARTICLE?

    • Cleo

      I thought I was the only one to feel this way. A lot of the black women in this site stay sticking up for black men and the ” I love black men” saying. You are just not going to see a black man do that for a black woman, I say if black women want to look outside for other options let her read these kinds of articles, don’t limit yourself to only black men because trust me they are not limiting themselves to only black women, and often put black women last on their list.

      • MIYO K.

        It can’t get any more sensible than that.

      • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

        The problem with your logic is that you are generalizing groups as if we are on some sort of teams. “So the black man betrayed us, we’ll be on the white side now!” Look, this is no longer about dating. This is deeper. This is about self worth and the blatant value we put on other peoples opinions about us beside our own. The article may have had good intentions and a sweet tone (im assuming), but the basis still rest, that is excitement of men of other races finding us attractive. “Who me? You think I’m pretty? :O”

        • MIYO K.

          The PROBLEM with your logic is that you are assuming Black women who are attracted to non-Black men are doing so because they were ‘betrayed’ by a Black man.

          • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

            ooh child.

            • MIYO K.

              Right back atcha.

      • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

        Not for a bitter self hating insecure masculine black woMAN, like you they wont.
        You aint good enough. Get over it !!!

        • darealgeorgiharps!!

          what i meant to say was im not good enough look at me i look so so pale i wanna tan!

    • David

      Because they can, thats what makes a discussion a discussion. They have two sides.

      • MIYO K.

        “Because they can” – Wow, what an adult-like answer.

        • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

          just reitiratting, never said i only dated black men.

          • MIYO K.

            I never said that either.

    • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

      See the comment i wrote to you above. We never said we only date black men. We said we need to stop seeking validation from other races. Two different concepts.

    • DaisyDooks

      Can you explain why it is problematic for Black women to date/marry within their race? When individuals of other races date/marry within, how is it problematic for Blacks? What are the scientific implications, if any?

      • Alohilani

        No, I cannot, because I do not believe it to be ‘problematic’ for Black women to date/marry within her race.

  • MIYO K.

    ” Blk men and women are constantly being attacked by EVERYONE…”

    - Black women deal with intra-racism and sexism from Black men everyday. Black women are attacked more by Black men than any other group. The male commenters on this site are a prime example.

    • Cleo

      I agree with you 100%

  • Cleo

    I like the article, black women will always be beautiful and unique, we don’t need validation at all but it nice to read something positive. There are many men of different cultures who love chocolate skin and our unique look. Black men will continue to bash and demean, while black women will keep our heads up and find better options.

    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

      Better options like what???
      white men dont want you, they voted you most unattractive females. Stop talking chit.
      Black men are your only option, so fix up, or die trying !!!

      • In All Honesty

        “Black men are your only option”

        Who, these days I don’t want em either. Why do bm have to be miserable?

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          They are ” miserable” because ” these days” they are raise by miserable SINGLE BLACK WOMEN !!!!!!!!

          • darealgeorgiharps!!

            sorry i should think before i talk, i mean type, black men are my role models

      • Nisha

        Not true dumb a**. My husband…and I said HUSBAND is white. My options were never limited, so speak for yourself. And stop generalizing a whole group of people you know nothing about. And GROW UP! Find you a nice white woman and GTFOH.

  • Gye Nyame

    Here we go again, I knew we were past due for our weekly “swirlin” white man validation piece! If any woman needs to read this to feel “validated” she needs to check her self esteem. MN definitely has an agenda….

    • DaisyDooks

      Love your screen name.

  • MIYO K.

    You all say this site has an agenda to get Black women to date non-Black men, meanwhile you probably love to visit Black male centric sites where they make sure to let you know that you, as a Black woman are not valued.

    • Lola

      If a guy on a so-called Black-male site claims that black women are not valued, is that supposed to mean something to me? Unless that man is specifically the one I love and, thus, share my body with, I couldn’t careless. If a random guy on a website can have an impact on how a woman perceives herself, then she has a bigger problem than meets the eyes.

      • MIYO K.

        Only YOU can decide if it means something to you. I can’t tell you how to feel.

        • Lola

          My question was rhetorical; it is pretty obvious what my decision is.

          • MIYO K.

            Good for you then. *Gives pat on head*

            • Problemsolver

              Why are you so bitter towards individuals that are talking about the article.

              • Kay

                why are you a man on a news site ” geared towards African American women”. We all have questions

              • MIYO K.

                The heck are you talking about?

  • MIYO K.

    It’s no secret that most of the women who read this site only like Black men. It is also no secret that if this same article was on a Black male centric site, talking about how women of all cultures love Black men, the men would be nodding their head.

    • In All Honesty

      “It’s no secret that most of the women who read this site only like Black men.”

      It’s always the women who hate bm who say stuff like this. I find it hilarious.

  • J A SASSY aka salon22w

    Black women have voluptuious bodies given to them by God..w women have to go get plastic injected bodies to look like a woman .. and they age so awful ..by the time they get past 30 its like they age 10 years, and by the time they are 35 and 40 its like 15 years… blk men be mindful because when you chase after the devil they end up looking like your grandma.. every w woman i see with a black man looks like his mother.. and every biracial kid i see comes from a ugly w woman .. very few are pretty and they age like a old pleather shoe.

    • Pivyque

      What?

      • J A SASSY aka salon22w

        what what? just what i said!

        • Pivyque

          Ok.

  • J A SASSY aka salon22w

    Very nice to hear good things about blk womne after all the negativity, but they can throw all the hate thry want and it makes me strut even more. No w person on earth can intimidate me.. becaus ei know i have the hios, lips butt skin color and the soulfulbess and the abilty to clean cook and be a strong clean loving soulmate for my blk man! I thank the man above for blessing me with ablk man who adores his blk queens.. raised the right way by his strong blk mom and dad!

    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

      Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

      • darealgeorgiharps!!

        go to bed twin, youve been at it all day, we gotta go to school in the am and im drained cause you been using my laptop all day disrespecting these good beautiful black people, knock it off bro

  • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

    Thumb me down, but im not reading this article. The title says enough to turn me off. I don’t need validation from non-black men or even black men. I know im beautiful. I also don’t need to brag about how many white men approached/flirted/winked/dated me like all the swirly obsessed MN readers like to do. I don’t base my worth off of another’s opinion, even it is flattering. My self-esteem is strong and intact. I appreciate the flattery, but i don’t need another “hey a white man likes us!” article thrown in our face. It’s silly and embarrassing.

    • Lola

      Preach!!

    • MIYO K.

      You came on an article to say that you aren’t going to read it?

      • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

        …and still haven’t read it!

        • MIYO K.

          Very well then.

  • Valerie

    This article is telling the truth, not to long ago I a black women went to S.F, while i was sitting in starbucks a guy of a different race with these blue eyes came to me, he must of been amazed with me because he was smiling like crazy & asked me could he take some pictures of me, and since he was a photography student I let him, right in Starbucks, i was cracking up with joy within myself because i was shocked at him wanting to take pics LOL i guess he must of seen me as abstract art. :)

    • get real

      This comment is drowned in inferiority complex. I’m never “excited” “happy” “shocked” “amazed” when non blk women flirt, smile or “reckless eyeball” with me. Man you guys lose it when non black men give u the slightest attention.

      • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

        thank you! sorry valerie, not to sound mean, but who cares!! its not that deep. I could be like everyone else on MN, and brag, count, recall, and tell INsignificant stories about my encounters with white men, that liked me or i dated, but that is indirectly saying they are a prize, or they are so much more significant than any other man that liked me that I had to brag about them. #imsexyandiknowit #dontneedawhitemantoshowit.

        • MIYO K.

          She was just sharing her experience. If you don’t care, then that is fine. There is no need to invalidate and dismiss her.

          • Bishop

            Because Miyo K your commenting in a public forum and just because you don’t agree with the above poster does not give you right to invalidate her assessment of the above article. The article is written for discussion purposes may people agree or disagree and/or question the authors premise is entirely up them, not you.

            • MIYO K.

              Why is there a “Because Miyo K…” when I didn’t ask a question? I see what you tried to do with your comment, but it failed. I never stated that I agreed or disagreed, nor did I “invalidate her assessment of the above article.” My comment was in reference to Driven telling Valerie, “sorry valerie, not to sound mean, but who cares!!” in reference to her story. I never said anything about what she thought of the article. Try again.

            • The Real Bishop

              Pls don’t use my screen name. Aside from that, excellent point!

          • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

            Its not about Me not caring, im saying NO-one should care or feel excitement about a white man liking them more than a black man. I’m saying the emphasis she put on that story shows the pedestal she has white boys on and don’t even know it.

            • MIYO K.

              But who are you to decide what someone else should and should not feel excited and care about?

            • NoName

              You’re hopeless and confused. Your argument is all over the place. What driven and lola are saying is very straight forward but you don’t get it.

              • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

                thank you! i knew i was making myself clear.

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JAI4SRENU2A5WKRTELXXYJPDSI Kayla

      Would you have felt the same way if he was black?

      • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

        exactly!!

    • Misty

      Girl, you so naive! LOL!

  • http://twitter.com/AlexPareene Alex Pareene

    The title is a lie. Men of all races rate black women as the least attractive among asians, whites, hispanics, and middle eastern. This is even true for black men. The high levels of testosterone in black women make them larger and more masculine than women of any other race.

    • http://twitter.com/niahgirl8 sonia

      I agree with you, that’s why they choose other race over black women cause they find us so attractive, lol!

      • Mcgrady

        I guess that’s why my fiancé is Italian/Brazilian. Lol stay bitter and losing.

  • BAP

    black women are just glorious,all those “ones” (u know the type) aren’t black WOMEN they just lil black girls & not the ones who rock

  • Meyaka

    I liked this article,thank you.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/NJGWU2UOJER6GLI5S3ESP4MJSU Christinne

    thats why black men are after white women? yeah rite….. lying big time….

  • Eggy

    I have many female friends of different colors, religions, and nationalities….and none of them have ever sat around trying to validate themselves by how many men of other cultures desire them. they don’t care! Or if they do…they at least have the good sense to keep it to themselves. But this site and sites like it obsess over how “white ppl like us too!”…I mean…next?

    • Lola

      *standing ovation*

    • MIYO K.

      Sure they don’t, but they also do not have the history in this country that Black women do. Those same women don’t have men of their group telling them nobody wants them and that everyone hates them.

      • Bishop

        Thats not true Miyo K, white men constantly bombard women of all ethnicities (especially their own) with negative imagery that they are not prized because they don’t fit their prototypical standard of being blond hair, blue-eyed, big boobs and wafer thin. White men invented sexism, misogyny and exploitation of women (white,black, asian, etc…), so for you say that, “those same women don’t have men of their group telling them nobody wants them” is just not factual nor in step with historical and present trends.

        • MIYO K.

          Present trends show Black men on TV, in print, and on the Internet talking about how Black women are this or that and nobody wants them, or they must submit to patriarchy to date a Black man.

      • Eggy

        Miyo…..please, find a new crowd of people to associate with. I have many black men as friends and colleagues and they worry more about politics, world events, and the balance in their bank accounts than whether or not they find me and other black women desirable…. I mean…really?

        • MIYO K.

          I don’t need to ‘find a new crowd of people to associate with’, because the people who I associate with is not how I arrived at what I said.

          And just because YOU know Black men who ‘worry more about politics, world events, and the balance in their bank accounts than whether or not they find you and other Black women desirable’ does not mean that there aren’t men who exist like I described. Your personal experience does not set the barometer for what is true.

          • Eggy

            But yours does?? LOL…oooook. I think this all boils down to exposure. You have clearly been exposed to someone or something that was very ratchet. Only 8.5% of married black men are married to white women… hardly a majority despite how much MN wants to tell us otherwise. And those 8.5% don’t necessarily hate or dismiss black women…they just fell in love with someone outside.

            • MIYO K.

              “You have clearly been exposed to someone or something that was very ratchet.”

              Sorry, no. That is not correct either.

            • Shy

              Lol not really in the UK 50% are but black women like me are not checkin for black BOYS any more But you don’t hear black women from the UK putting all this nonsense on media websites. Just move on & stop bashing each other ! Us British – Caribbean blacks have sails the boat without drama, why can’t Americans just love one another even if they don’t want to date each other ?? Why always tearing each other down, just kool nuh

            • realadulttalk

              So they could only be married to black or white women?? Oh, I better call my Puerto Rican gf and tell her that her marriage is null and void…black men can’t marry her.

          • Lola

            “Your personal experience does not set the barometer for what is true.”

            Likewise, experiences of those you speak of – black women and the black men who denigrate them – are not the yardstick by which to measure black men. So let’s end the notion of “I’m dating white men because black men are terrible” – it is complete fallacy!

            If a black woman falls in love with a man who happens to be white, then it is what it is and no one can fault her, neither does she owe anyone an explanation. But if said woman feels a need to speak ill of black men in order to justify being with white men, then she needs to conduct a serious introspection. How can it be that EVERY black man she meets/dates degrades her? That is a serious question she needs to be honest with herself about.

            • MIYO K.

              Not once did I ever say that I, or any Black women dates White men because ‘Black men are terrible’.

              • Lola

                Let’s not let semantics muddy the discussion; you might not have used the word “terrible” but the crux of your argument is crystal clear.

                It was you who wrote to Eggy that “those [non-black] women don’t have men of their group telling them nobody wants them and that everyone hates them”. What is it that we’re to infer from your assertion if not to claim that black men are terrible and they’re driving black women into the arms of white men? Please be serious!

                • Alohilani

                  I should be asking you to be serious. There was no reading between the lines or subliminal message in what I typed. What you inferred from my comment sounds like something you already had your mind made up about. No other comment I have typed on this thread supports your theory that I believe Black men to be ‘terrible’ and ‘driving black women into the arms of white men’. The crux of my argument must not be clear if you had to substitute your own feelings for mine.

                  • Lola

                    If you’re going to make certain statements but cannot stand by them, then I fail to see the point in engaging you in further discussions. Anyone with a modicum of intelligence is well aware of your views on this issue. NoName was right in his/her assessment of you.

                    Good day!

                    • Alohilani

                      I STAND BY EVERYTHING I SAID. WHAT I WILL NOT STAND BY IS YOU ASSERTING YOUR OWN OPINION AS MINE.

                    • Fedup

                      Turn off the caps….

                    • Alohilani

                      BUG OFF!

                    • Blackhawk

                      Amen, i pretty much agree with your assessment of her too.

                    • Alohilani

                      Yes, her ‘assessment’ of me is very accurate. She has extensive knowledge and experience of who I am even though she has never met me.

                    • Blackhawk

                      You don’t have to know someone extensively to make an assessment of that person. People judge you on first impressions, and by your comments that i’ve read i fully agree with what she said.

                • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                  I didn’t get that from her comment so your assumption is your own and you should not make your opinion everyone else’s by “inferring” that the only way to read what she wrote was how you did. The problem on here is Georgi-Porgy, Man and their type. Stay focused people, it’s the only way!

                  • Alohilani

                    Thank you.

            • She Said

              Preach!

    • realadulttalk

      They just don’t do it in front of you–don’t be fooled by the duplicitous nature of humans. Aren’t there certain things only the friends of your race are privy to? I know there are things I wouldn’t do or say in the company of non-blacks. If you don’t fit that mold–you are an anomaly and probably talked about much by many.

  • Nene

    Um is it just me or is this site a meeting point for black women who are desperate for white men? I don’t need white/ chicano/ asian/ middle eastern male attention. Give me a good black man anyday. Black on black love stays winning. Just ask Barack and Michelle

    • xxdiscoxxheaven

      Just playing devil’s advocate here, but it seems as if they think the way to solve the 70% unmarried black woman rate is to encourage us to date out. I’d never bash black men but it just seems that there aren’t enough good ones to go around

      • DaisyDooks

        Why not print an article to encourage Black women to expand their options to include Black men of different cultures? AfRAkan immigrants from the Caribbean and Continental AfRAka are deemed the most culturally stable, financially viable and most educated (especially West AfRAkans) in this country. Why would a Black woman NOT look for a potential mate within this group?

        • xxdiscoxxheaven

          Unfortunately, where you live play a role if you’d ever meet those kind of men. As a Chicagoan, i cannot say i have met many black people from the Caribbean. Living in the suburbs, I only saw African men dating white girls or their own. most of them came from money and looked down on black.Americans calling us “ghetto” or trying their best to distance themselves from us. I was not poor and was at the top of my class and still heard this a lot.

          • DaisyDooks

            I’m also a Chicagoan. There’s a huge, huge Caribbean and Continental AfRAkan immigrant population here. I have been heavily integrated into these communities all my life. Part of my maternal lineage is from the West Indies. I just had dinner with some Ghanaian friends in South Holland and visited some Togolese in Joliet. Here in the city, my close social circle consists of Jamaicans, Haitians and individuals from Sierra Leone, Liberia, Nigeria, Kenya, Gambia, Senegal, Ghana, Belize, Guinea-Bissau and Cameroon. I shop at ethnic food markets–especially those that cater to Caribbeans and AfRAkans. The hospitality and love I receive from these BRTHRS and SSTRS is heartfelt and mutual. I’ve learned so much through my interactions and observations of their dynamics. And, they learn from me. I have so many adopted AfRAkan mama’s. LOL

            Have you not attended any of the annual cultural festivals? Ghana Fest, Nigeria Fest, Jamaican Fest, Caribbean International Festival of Life, AfRAkan Festival of the Arts and Bacchanal-Carnival @ Midway Plaissance, etc. I patronize AfRAkan immigrant businesses and I party with them. We’re family.

            • DaisyDooks

              I’ve met and seen a number of intriguing, handsome, smart brothers from these communities. Even though they may be westernized, they STILL maintain strong ties to their culture. I love it. If I were available, I’d have my pick of the lot. Awooooo!

    • In All Honesty

      If you’re looking for “black on black love”. This site is seriously not it, mama. After a week of Madamenoire you won’t want to date black ever again. Believe me I know.

  • ANTMilf

    My fiance is white and he loves my red dreadlocks and says my natural hair is one of my best features that he loves about me, next to my smile, my eyes and my legs.

    • monitorette

      He simply loves you & all about you. Lucky girl!

  • Coca

    Great article…it is about time someone other than Black women speak up for themselves loved it.

  • black

    This nice to read. We need more articles like this. I fear for my daugther and my nieces. In this society. All I hear and see how light skin and white skin is Beautiful. I mean there are woman talk show saying that they are going to bleach there skin because they are ashame of it. It was nice to read something Positive

  • Shannon

    Black women have always shunned white men (imo) . I know I have, but not intentionally. I think black women never really had an interest in white men and never really paid attention the the fact white men are always pushing up being friendly with sisters.

    At one point I felt sisters should explore their options, or at least be open to it but naa !

    • MIYO K.

      “I think black women never really had an interest in white men” – There has always been Black women interested in White men.

  • http://twitter.com/Jus_RaeDae Raven

    Nice. This was a uplifting “black girl” article. Thanks.

  • Lola

    So I’m going to have to be the Grinch here? Alrighty then: While an article of this nature can be semi-entertaining, it tends to come across a bit patronizing. Why? Because it conveys a message that black women are in need of validation (especially from men of other races). A man of “Hellenic” descent loves black women and therefore what?

    We know who we are – we’ve been Queens of Empires for eons! Thus, we need not behave
    like that insecure girl so desperate for validation to the point where she makes a big fuss over ANY compliment paid her. Yes, there are numerous stereotypes about us; but when a woman is confident in herself she does not deign to respond to baseless assumptions, for it is beneath her dignity.

    • Guest

      You, I, and the rest of the black female community know good and well that we don’t need validation from anybody, not even black men. However, It’s nice to hear someone singing our praises every once in awhile, everybody likes to be flattered, even you, and this article was pleasantly flattering.

      • Lola

        Yes, when someone who is special to me sings my praises i.e. the man I love, I do appreciate it. However compliments from random men – be it coworker, guy on the
        street, etc. – do not hold sway with me and they certainly don’t warrant an article.

      • get real

        Blk women do need validation from blk men, and blk men need validation from blk women. I’m happy that blk women in the real world (not this delisional internet nonsense) are not on this bs that you women are on. Blk men and women are constantly being attacked by EVERYONE yet these article writers keep this writing these divisive articles and you guys fall for it. Think they put these “swirl” articles up every 2 days for nothing? Wisen up ladies.

        • Lola

          I normally find your comments on black women a bit harsh but I have to agree with you that the frequency of “swirl” articles on this site is out of control. While I believe it is a woman’s prerogative to date/marry whomever her heart desires, the fixation and glorification of interracial relationships – especially on MN – is a sad commentary.

          • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

            @disqus_HRmQEExTG6:disqus it makes me wonder if the frequency of the swirl articles are backed by some hidden agenda. It’s really suspicious and fishy if you ask me. And notice, they only focus on White men, not asian, latino, pacific islander, ect men, JUST white men. Either the ceo/owner of this website is obsessed/delusional/insane or they are getting paid to publish this redundant rhetoric. ANd i know they see some of our complaints about the obsession, but they keep posting up these articles.

            • Lola

              @twitter-369097629:disqus Nicely put! There is no doubt the “writers” have some sort of a hidden agenda as you said; it defies logic how they regurgitate the same “swirl” articles repeatedly. Their need to incessantly alert the world of the white man’s love for the black woman is quite troubling/disturbing.

            • MIYO K.

              They keep posting up ‘these articles’, because there are women here who date interracially.

              • MIYO K.

                :You particularly may not be against interracial dating, but there are plenty of women and men on this site who are. Those are the people who I speak of.

                :What you or ‘Lola’ said was not the focus of my comment. Most of the time, the women who are against interracial dating are women who only date Black men. Those type of women come in articles about interracial dating to tell us this.

                :There doesn’t need to be a ‘special acknowledgment’ only because you say there doesn’t. It is a matter of personal opinion really.

                • http://twitter.com/Normally_Weird driven

                  did i say we need articles that talk about why black men love black women?

                  • MIYO K.

                    No, you didn’t. It was an example.

                    • Blackhawk

                      I have a question that never seems to get answered? Do white male blogs ever have articles about how great of an dating option black women are? Because being a site for black women this seems to be a topic everyday. My second question is what is the point?

                    • Alohilani

                      I am not a White male, nor do I visit White male centric blogs, so I cannot answer that question for you either. Maybe you should try posing your question on a blog where there is a majority White audience.

                    • Blackhawk

                      I really don’t have a reason to, but I asked because you’re a woman who date white men. I just find it strange that u never been to a popular white male centered site to read their articles they’ve written on women. Its almost a natural thing to do. This site is a for black women, but i come on here sometimes to have a dialog with black women, because that’s who i’m interested in. In all seriousness i truly have my doubts that anyone is advocating for white men to date black women, like this site is doing. Its seems like this is a one way street type of thing.

                    • realadulttalk

                      I’m going with NO! As a matter of fact–I’ve gone on the site The Dirty and the comments about black women on there were deplorable enough to turn me away forever.

                    • realadulttalk

                      I’m going with NO! As a matter of fact–I’ve gone on the site The Dirty and the comments about black women on there were deplorable enough to turn me away forever.

              • realadulttalk

                I date out–but dang!! I feel like some of these women ONLY date out and that’s not acceptable to me–that’s self-hatred at its best.

              • realadulttalk

                I date out–but dang!! I feel like some of these women ONLY date out and that’s not acceptable to me–that’s self-hatred at its best.

        • realadulttalk

          I think this might be the ONLY time I agree with you. The swirl articles are becoming a bit much. Now, I’m all for doing what you want–but I’m beginning to feel like the writers might be out of touch (literally) with black men. I love all men…but no one turns my head or sparks my interest like an intelligent black man.

    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

      exactly…tell these insecure hoes wats really up !!!!!!

      • Mcgrady

        Learn how to speak ape!

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          ok hoe,
          wait? what thesaurus did that come from. ??

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          Ah, chimp out!
          Le chimp, c’est chump
          chimp out!
          Ah, chimp out!
          Le chimp, c’est chump
          chimpout!

          • darealgeorgiharps!!

            im sorry bro uma have to report you to gramps if you dont stop

        • darealgeorgiharps!!

          ok my bro is sick

      • Golden

        You disgust me! I don’t hate whites but i think people like you are pointing me to a route i don’t wanna go! Never mind your ignorant attitude can’t change my
        loving attitude!

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          i disgust you, but all the black women in here calling black men apes DO NOT?…….Fawk you !!!!

          • Golden

            Retard! Have you brushed your teeth today?
            Oh my f****** god i was wandering where the smell was coming from….
            eewwwwww…Your dirtiness has obviously spread through this entire site!
            That’s why i keep saying to you ‘be on your way out already’
            Except you have something useful to contribute!
            If you didn’t start the hatred first i wouldn’t have had any cause to
            bash you like this!
            So stop the hatred if you want peace… nobody is allowed to mess
            with blacks no more!

          • DaisyDooks

            What Black man was called an ape in THIS thread? Please point out the screen name.

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          who said im white you dumb B!Tch

          • Golden

            So why speak ill of blacks? It’s no fun anymore!

            • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

              Dont try to manipulate people here.
              You already saw the monkey, ape, comments directed towards me.
              Ask them why they speak ill of black’s ?

              • Golden

                You obviously are not black but if you are, then

                you re one with no sincere heart or good intentions at all as your
                primary objective is to create tension b/w black people on this blog!
                Tell me why you would wanna create so much drama if you are black!

                Or haven’t you ever heard of the word ‘unity’ in your entire life?

              • darealgeorgiharps!!

                bro go take your meds and leave these good people alone, you never talk like that to your friends at school, how come bro??

            • darealgeorgiharps!!

              im sorry, my bro didnt take his meds today

              • Golden

                What exactly are you two up to, I told him i will find him wherever he is and sue him for
                1. Having a discriminative attitude towards a particularly race of people
                2. Breaching human right
                I’m pretty damn serious! He should know that certain things has progressed from the time blacks didn’t speak up for themselves!
                You just can’t mess with blacks no more!
                Racism in any form is not allowed, it’s inhuman!

                • darealgeorgiharps!!

                  i hope you find him and sue the crap outta him, im not on his side, im against him, so i made this page to fix what he started,no offense to you

                  • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                    Thing 2

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      Stupid AND a schizo! Aw damn, I just had to come back one more time. Georgi-Porgy! You are worse off than I imagined… Pwahahahahaha! I knew you were stupid, and I knew you were crazy… But you’re that special mix of stupid and extra-special crazy. I guess you better log off so your split personality can come apologize some more for your stupidity. At least it would appear that both of you aren’t equally dumb, but what about your other personalities. I’m banking you are the stupid-est one of all in there. Why did they let you out again?
                      Okay, I’m really leaving now I promise. Unlike stupid you, who will still be here even after everyone else leaves. Talk about a stupid b!tch!
                      Oh, and since you’re only stupid enough to regurgitate insults based on what others say I just wanted you to know that when I don’t respond to any of your comments, its b/c you are too stupid for me to waste my time on. Bye, Stupid!

                • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                  Thing 1

          • darealgeorgiharps!!

            im so white i look like a ghost

          • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

            Well, your picture says you wish you were a stupid, ugly Caucasian type. No insult meant towards ugly people or Caucasians but definitely an insult to stupid people everywhere..

      • darealgeorgiharps!!

        i love black women, i love their style, their cooking and everything else about them

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          give it up bro !!!!!

    • BS

      Where do you black women get this notion that you are queens. From my vantage point most black women’s behaviour is less than royal.

      • Golden

        I need to get one thing straight here, are you by any means TROLLING?
        Are you one of those people hating on BW?

      • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

        And your name says it all… no further discussion needed BS. At least, you know who you are..

    • jrow777

      Where are black women like yourself found?

      • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

        in our Dreams…unfortunately !!!

        • Sweeny Jackson

          MAGGOT, YOU’RE STILL HERE????

          • darealgeorgiharps!!

            youre right i am so so lonely, thats why im up here because i need to be around you all i love black people

            • Sweeny Jackson

              Oh I get it now, Some black girl turned you down flat so out of pain aand revenge you felt like ranting your ridiculous comments on here. Trust me, the sh*t that comes out of your mouth has no effect on me whatsoever.

        • darealgeorgiharps!!

          look at my face, i have no room to talk about anyone, check me out on facebook its well ya know what it is

        • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

          Hey Georgi-Porgy, i got bored with your stupid, predictable, wanting a black woman, weave-wearing in the dark, I wish I was a black woman, angry b/c I can’t get laid b/c I’m too stupid, @ss. I’m leaving now, now don’t start having flashbacks about all the other women who have left you or who won’t sleep with you, there’s always mother, right? She’ll sleep with anyTHING, go back to bed and finish drinking the stupid milk from her sagging tits-at least you know someone is there for you. But you better make sure you keep eating out that stank p^ssy, or she will have no reason to keep you lazy, shiftless, ugly, stupid @ss around… Bye Stupid!

  • NicPal

    This article was really encouraging to me as well. With all the negativity about African Americans especially “black women” it is really nice to hear something so positive. Love this and the uplifting of all people is what this world really needs. Thanks Madam Noire:)

    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

      you insecure whiney old cow !!!

      • Mcgrady

        Must be hard to be on welfare and ugly like you! Shouldn’t you be out stealing cars?

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          no we dont do that. that was your fathers trade !!!
          Times have changed .

          • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

            Georgi you. are. stupid. (I did a little sing-song voice that time, you know like they use on cute babies and stupid people. You are in the latter category (in case you’re so stupid you think you’re a baby… Or cute, lol

      • http://twitter.com/docbndgrl9113 Keesha (Киша)

        How is NicPal and insecure cow because they like the fact that this article is positive and uplifting?

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          why do you need to be uplifted. Are you that insecure and downtrodden that some lies about all white men wanting you, make you feel better about yourself. your sad.

      • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

        You mother said that to you?!?! Or did you say it to her? You better be careful, she could lock your stupid @ss out the trailer. Be careful, Georgi, your mommy’s watching you stupid..

  • sabrina

    This was a nice read. It’s always refreshing to read/hear positive things about us black women, especially coming from varying races. We’re an amazing set, if I do say so myself. ;)

    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

      Too bad there all LIES.
      Here on earth, Black women got the Award for the most unattractive female’s.
      But you insecure heffer’s are still pining for white and non black men. smfh

      • Mcgrady

        Wow your one bitter ape!

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          Wow your one ill informed Tar baby !

          • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

            and you’re stupid Georgi-Porgy.. I would change my insults but I would lose you and I don’t want THAT to happen.

        • DaisyDooks

          If you had Georgi Harps’ DNA, you’d be a bitter primate, too. The New England Journal of Medicine has documented all kinds of defects and disorders on those straight-haired, cave-dwelling descendants. Had it not been for an infusion of BLACK GENES to change the ferocious appearance of their HAIRY Neanderthal ancestors, they’d still be walking on all fours with tails.

      • Golden

        I knew some kinda of racist would hop in here. I was just waiting for this!
        And you blame blacks for being the most racist, take a look at your comment and see for yourselves who is the most racist!
        I wonder how whites find their way to black sites just to bash them, are u feeling
        a bit insecure that we are very beautiful creatures?
        Like said in the other post i read ‘please continue to avoid blacks at least, if you see them walking down the street, please cross and you will be doing them a favor.
        We don’t want to hang around ignorant retarded people like you!

        • Mcgrady

          He and a lot of those other trolls are bm pretending to be yt. They are bitter and made that bw are no longer staying by their side and finding other options!

          • Man

            Black men gave up on yall a long time ago. Look at all the older succesful black men that use to be married to a black woman after their divorce( which is eminent I must say) they always date or remarry other. Sidney Poitier, Rick Fox, Ahmad Rashad, Berry Gordy, Babyface ,

            • McgradySamonecherie

              Aww did I hurt your ape feelings? Every race of women can have y’all. You are of no prize! Good day ugly monkey oh and most the guys you named were still with bw in the beginning.

              • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                Aww did I hurt your MudDuck feelings? Every race of men can have y’all. You are of no prize! Good day ugly worthless weave wearing monkey

                • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                  Hey Georgi-Porgy… I was thinking about it (that’s that thing that people with brains do, but don’t worry yourself with that) and I’m pretty sure you’re stupid..

              • Man

                Based on your writing skills and lack of expressive abilty the only thing that you hurt was my brain trying to decipher your alien language. Base on your reply, you are definitely not intelligent and probably just as unattractive. The black race can definitely keep your type.

            • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

              Tell em !!!!

              • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                Tell ‘em you’re stupid? Okay, if you insist (but most folks here have already figured this one out…) Georgi porgy is stupid. (He told me to tell y’all)

            • myseas

              All I have to say is Iman and David Bowie, Paula Patton and Robin Thicke, Grace Hightower and Robert Deniro, Alfre Woodard and Roderick Spencer and I’ll even take it back to Lena Horne and Lennie Hayton. Interracial marriages have traditionally occurred due more to class but nowadays the there is more and more of it. Black women are very desirable and tend to be more successful than black men today. Due to our greater socioeconomic status we have more options today than ever before.

              • Blackhawk

                Where are you getting your information from that black women are more successful then black men.. who is saying this the media?

          • Golden

            Who exactly are you pretending to be?
            You say one thing in a moment and another thing in the next.
            Pls be true to yourself! If you are yt admit it, no one is goin hate
            you as far as you don’t make racist comments!
            We don’t hate without a good reason

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          awwww …Whats wrong ???
          Did i ruin your pity party ! oh well, Truth Hurts !!!. And everybody is sick of Black womens whiny illogical irrational poor me, poor me parade.
          Poor me another focking drink! im bored already

          • Golden

            When last did you see a doctor u know like a real doctor… not a quack
            cos you are mentally debilitated!
            Don’t even **** with me! You wanna rot in hell?
            Grow up people like you will never seize to amaze me, to even think
            this thread was made for black women.. what are you doing here uninvited boo?

            • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

              Dont fock with who???
              B!tch no insecure weave wearing black women from the ghetto, can banish me to hell. Aint nothing made for you heffers but valtrex !!!

              • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                HEY stupid. how are you? I mean, besides stupid.

          • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

            hey Georgi, your dad told me to remind you how stupid you are.. And that he wishes he had just not had those 8 drinks the night you were conceived, but he didn’t realize how stupid you would turn out. Apparently he figured it out as soon as he saw your stupid face tho, so that’s why he left. he misses your mom, but your stupidity brought him close to killing you and he was already out on parole so he couldn’t afford any new charges. Now, I hope this wasn’t too long of a read for your stupid @ss, but I know you always wondered. At least in the brief moments when you were able to hold a thought for longer than a millisecond. And that millisecond is still longer than the time you can keep your pathetic little wanger upright. Good for us though, I was worried for a second that you might re-produce.

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          i wonder how many white blogs are writing about how ” amazing” you black “queens” are ????…….Yeah you guessed it. NONE !!!!

          • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

            how would you know? Your stupid @ss can’t even read! Sheesh. You are so stupid Georgy-Porgy..

      • DaisyDooks

        There ain’t a race on this damn planet whose women possess the diversity of PHYSICAL beauty that exists among Black females. Hands down! Black beauty is unmatched—especially among UNMIXED Jet/Charcoal/Indigo women.

        Media images don’t tell the truth or show the FULL SPECTRUM of Black women authentically. There is exquisite, NATURAL Black beauty beyond those shown in white drag.

        It is in the Black woman’s genetic code to reproduce her own kind with a Black man. That IS innate and NORMAL. In the real world, the pairings of bm/bw (married/unmarried) FAR EXCEED the IR pairings among Blacks.

        All you woefully inept miscreants run to the blogs posting derogatory things about Black women. We dominate your mind space. That’s how dynamic we are. And guess what? We will ALWAYS have a presence on this planet. We carry the record and genetic codes for the human race. No women of other races have this foundation. That is an indisputable FACT!! You are either an extraction, mutation or by-product of BLACK WOMEN!! Day one began with US!!

      • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

        And your stupid @ss is still whining for a brain…
        Georgy-Porgy: “That’s not fair momma, everybody else got one”
        GP’s stupid mother: “It’s okay stupid, you won’t have any use for one of those. You are stupid, my child, here how about these warm socks…”
        (and that is why, to this day, Georgy-Porgy has no brain… #truestory)

    • Man

      I ws quite surprise to read positive things about yall too seeing that most of you tend to be misearble, mean, unfriendly, loud, bossy and confrontational. Who the hell knew.

      • Pivyque

        How many black women do you know personally? Where do you live? I have met women of different races that are miserable, mean, unfriendly, loud, bossy and confrontational. At any rate, the black women that I know are not like that. I’m not sure if you are talking about the younger generation or not. If you are, then your statement makes more sense. Either way, it was unnecessary.

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          clueless !

          • Golden

            If you are going to continue saying mean stuff on here, why don’t
            you do the entire human being a favor and get the **** outta this page!
            Like right now!

            • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

              If the TRUTH, is ” mean”. Then maybe you should grow a backbone.

              • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                you don’t have one and you’re still allowed to waste oxygen. Do everyone a favor and hold your breath, estupido (ps. that’s stupid in another language) since you’re barely grasping english, just thought I’d clear that up for you, stupid.

          • Jillan

            Why won’t MN just bann him considering he just some bitter troll that spilled over from Bos sip switching SN’s liking his own comment. It’s clear he has malicious intents so why not ban him from what could be a respectable site. It’s clear him and a few others have some sort of deep psychological issues !

            It’s actually a form of harassment lurking every thread seeking the highest rated comment harassing and STALKING black women non stop sheesh get your trolls in order !

            • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

              B!tch this is a public forum. Not some “black women only” convention

              • Golden

                You are just making your useless pathetic self known to the public.
                When i read your post, you know what i hear
                ‘ I’m a pure racist who do not respect blk women or their beauty,
                pls help me my life is on a low right now, i need to venge
                my anger on whoever is the victim’
                My suggestion… do you have a dog or some kind of pet… good!
                Take them with you for a stroll and talk to them about your problems
                or better still go visit a therapist. I bet they haven’t had any unsurprisingly
                weird patients with real problem like you do…they will be quite thrilled to

                assist you!

                • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                  No, You Black women are just making your worthless pathetic self known to the public.
                  When i read your post, you know what i hear
                  ‘ I’m a mouthy trouble making black feminist who do not respect blk men or their opinions,
                  pls help me my ego is on a low right now, i need to appease it
                  my anger on whoever is male’
                  My suggestion… do you have a man or some kind of pet… good!
                  Take them with you for a stroll and talk to them about your hair problems
                  or better still go visit a Hairstylist. I bet they haven’t had any unsurprisingly
                  weird patients with real problem like you do…they will be quite thrilled to attend to your nappy head.

                  • Golden

                    You should have found yourself a self formulated response to my post you know, You needn’t have gone through so much sweat trying to figure out how to make my MSG align with your thought.
                    This is how you fail an examination, copying a pattern you see without
                    filtrating or without having any real ideas of your own on how to solve a problem! Nah, my argument sounds better! Under no circumstance should you copy my style of writing…ever again! Develop a brain if you don’t have one!

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      Say’s the insecure Black women, who nobody wants !!!
                      Next time try not coming off as a pretentious and desperate Hoodrat, in your attempt to deflect attention away from the TRUTH !!!

                    • carla

                      I would like to know what you do for a living and what is your educational background. Also why are you so angry? If I was to be as judgmental as you I would say that you are probably uneducated due to the quality of writing you have posted. I would probably say that you are unemployed because you are a caucasian man commenting on a post about black women. Also gauging the anger I sense from your words black women have rejected you in the past.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      stop these games !!! you know whats really up !

                    • carla

                      Also judging from your reply you lack substance.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      your really reaching ???

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      hey Georgi-Porgy, has your mother told you today how stupid you are, yet? I know she likes to start early. Well, roll over in the bed and let her know, somebody else beat her to it today. She can try again tomorrow. Your stupid @ss will still be living with her like the stupid @ss that you are..

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      Georgi, guess what… you’re still stupid.

                    • Lady

                      Hey Golden….Just ignore the fool. He/she/it loves the attention.

                    • Golden

                      I know right? I just gave him a piece of my mind today!
                      He is all claiming unaffected by the comments intelligent beings throw
                      at him, questioning his rather shocking attitude!
                      I know after tonight he will go and have a rethink of his life.
                      I think he actually has a huge problem, instead of apologizing for offending people with his comments, he is making more and more fuse!
                      Just shows you how immature his outlook on life is!

                    • Guest

                      You aint no lady talking like that..HOODRAT !!!

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      and obaody invited you “guest’ talking like that. You’re as stupid as Georgi-Porgy!

                  • DaisyDooks

                    There is something fishy about this character…

                    • Golden

                      I actually think he needs help, like genuinely needs help…don’t you think?
                      He’s been acting a bit weird with his comments.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      and what is that exactly you cancerous cell of doom

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Uhh…that would be what your mama excreted into the toilet—YOU!

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      Aleast she didnt give birth to a teratoma with teeth—–YOU!

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Your mama can only produce degenerate, m-u-t-a-n-t-s like you. She can’t birth royal DARK CHOCOLATE (original seed) like me. She has my SINCEREST and DEEPEST sympathy.

                      The planet will breathe a sigh of relief as the reproduction of your species continue to decline. As the Pisces era ends, so do you. Nature gives us FACTS!

                    • PrimaFaciaTruth

                      Yeah, facts like “the Pisces era” eh? Retard.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      The Pisces era is based on a configuration or alignment of stars. Star mapping is nothing new. Stars not only assist with navigation, but they also dictate and indicate time cycle changes. So, yes, NATURE gives us FACTS. Anything else?

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      again with the big words, you’re gonna give yourself a headache, stupid!

                    • PrimaFaciaTruth

                      Too bad your mama missed the toilet, and you lived.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Excuse me, was I talking to you? I don’t recall directing any correspondence to you. What you referenced was intended for another blogger ONLY. I don’t know why you’re copping an attitude with me. Move on.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      I see you’re a new account. Probably a serial masker or a sock puppet paid to create disturbances in online forums. Step off.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      HEY Georgi-porgy, you know why i keep calling you stupid/ it’s b/c you’re slow and i don’t want to confuse your stupid @ss! Stupid!

                    • Machelle Kwan

                      Girl he is a crazy whyte man..Flag that fool..

                    • DaisyDooks

                      He has my DEEPEST sympathy.

                    • Machelle Kwan

                      He needs a deep therapist. And to top it off he’s sounds like he’s from London. I know British slang very well. (Thanks to my love of the spice girls..lol) “Focking” is definitely London slang. Smh.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      What an ostentatious bunch of Horsesh!t !!!
                      Obviously they wont let you curse on here dumba$$. This isnt youtube !!!
                      And what the hell is your old a$$ watching spicce girls for anyway???
                      Watching white women again AS USUAL !!!! Haha

                      Black women are pathetic !

                    • DaisyDooks

                      “What an ostentatious bunch of Horsesh!t !!!From 2 co-signing c00ns !!” <–Who is this rancid ball of mucous calling a c00n?

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      HEY Georgi, did someone have to help you spell, “ostentatious’ or did you just use spell-check, stupid!

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Oh, he’s one of those ugly, trashy brits with jacked-up teef whose face looks like–who done it, why did you do it and don’t do it, again? *smirk*

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      Theres something fishy about your CROTCH …MsDooks >???

                    • DaisyDooks

                      You may want to leave genitals out the discussion, ok? There is no credible position from which you can speak. The short-comings of male Neanderthal-Primate-Caucasoids are well-known.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      there’s no fish ever going anywhere near your stupid, inbred crotch, fortunately for the rest of us, you, my stupid friend, are a dying breed. Whew!

                  • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                    georgi-porgy, you lack originality that means you’re stupid!

              • charlot

                Your just a dumb, uneducated, stereotypical black man. Nice job keeping with the abusive, aggressive, threatening, disrespectful animal theme. You stalk and pick on women daily when you need to be out looking for a joby job instead of waiting on reply’s seeking attention you will NEVER get in real life.

                You been here since 7am still here bum ! We all know your some ugly animal face lonely low-life who will wake up tomorrow jobless, broke, and don’t forget UGLY ready to do it again !

                Save your threatening abusive reply’s and go pick on a real man and stop stalking women ! A serial k i l l er in the making !

                • charlot

                  Yesss, George get ready to go house to house, computer to computer, cell to cell to negative my comment lame…and your journey’s starts now ! Grandma’s computer up stairs, the library a block away equals 4 computers, back to the halfway house to use the other 8, granny’s government…… phone have a seat you obsessed stalker !

                  • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                    EPIC FAIL !!!!!!!

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      and you are an EPIC FAILURE! B!tch!

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      your ugly

                • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                  what an extensive imagination you have there. Too bad its based on you and your insecure down trodden ilk. Who have to all come on your annual pilgrimage to ” Madame Noir” Just to feed the insecure troll inside of you.

                  • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                    and yet, here is where we find you huh.

                    You just stupid Georgy. You are just stupid.

                  • realadulttalk

                    *it’s* *downtrodden*

                • DaisyDooks

                  “Your just a dumb, uneducated, stereotypical black man.” <–WTF?! Are you serious?? Dude is Black? Are you sure?

                  • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                    isnt mariah carey black, you ignorant horse !!!!!

                    • DaisyDooks

                      No. Why do you ask, stupid goat?

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Are you one of those half-breeds with Neanderthal-Caucasoid-Primate DNA?

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      are you ??? considering ” all blk americans are mixed” ???

                    • DaisyDooks

                      I’m mixed with various ethnic AfRAkan tribes–like the MAJORITY of CHOCOLATE-HUED Blacks. I proudly have the phenotype and genotype of West and Central AfRAkans. I’m not biracial. Biracials with Black/White admixture are NOT Black. They have their OWN experiences as multi-racial individuals and shouldn’t be boxed into ONE racial identity. Your @ss ain’t one of us. We are NOT so low that just anyone can claim to be one of us.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

                      strawman

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      Y’know, Georgi, hitler hated his mixed breeding too, but at least he wasn’t STUPID!

                    • charlot

                      He’s probably dumb Cool “mixed” breeze who just so happens to look 100% black and played out. He look like a broke down slow pimp who’s faced an enormous amount of rejection in his life. I highly doubt women are checking for him…..no his thoughts ( and pict ) confirm they aren’t !

                    • DaisyDooks

                      I take issue with those who claim to be ‘Black’ but use the same racial epithets and slurs that outsiders use against Blacks. Quite frankly, I couldn’t distinguish Georgi Harps rants from a stereotypical white, Appalachian West Virginian. I suspect there may be a number of posers in ‘black face’ and ‘white face’.

                      I love, love Black men–to the core of my being. I have an excellent and mutually-respectful rapport with those who are U.S. born, Caribbean and Continental. I don’t know what that dog-lipped, farce hiding behind ‘Georgi Harps’ is, but he ain’t a ‘brutha’. He can kick rocks.

                    • charlot

                      He doesn’t claim to be black. He boast (for some reason) a lot about having a white mother and that he’s mixed blahX3…when I saw his photo it all made sense. Some black retard looking jerk !

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Oh, so THAT’S why he’s bitter and messed up–genetically, mentally and physically, etc. He’s a MULE-latto who hates Blacks? That’s interesting considering many delusional Blacks love and worship half-breeds and promote them to a ‘higher status’ above themselves as ‘representatives’. That doesn’t jive with me. Does his white family NOT accept him? It seems that some half-breeds who experience rejection from their Neanderthal-Primate side, will take out their frustrations and anger against their Black side.

                    • PrimaFaciaTruth

                      Just an FYI…you just described Obama….

                    • Nisha

                      Politics don’t belong in this thread…and no, that does not describe Obama….moron.

                    • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                      hey georgi-porgy… you’re stupid.

                    • DaisyDooks

                      Oh no, the mongrelized Cro-Magnon is angry…

              • yup!

                13 thumbs up to this fool calling her a B****?! Woooow theres alot of Trolls on this site (~_~)

              • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

                She ain’t the only b!tch up in this piece! Hey, Georgi, you are a b!tch!

            • Golden

              Thank you, some people just don’t know where to comment!

          • Pivyque

            Well…Georgi…you are entitled to your opinion.

            • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

              Thank you !

          • Sweeny Jackson

            Maggot why are you here? B!tch you have lost your mind.

          • DaisyDooks

            Um…can someone please call Animal Pet Control? There is a rabid rodent in our midst.

            • Golden

              Hahahaaahahahahhaaaaahahahhaaa…..
              Your comment is too damn funny,
              I honestly couldn’t stop laughing! LOL…too funny! :)

          • sobe diva

            The more angry a man is, the smaller his dyk is.

          • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

            STUPID!

        • Really?

          It’s apparent that you don’t know any black women either. That article is EXACTLY what 97% of us are like. As for the younger generation, I don’t think so! Get yourself some blaque friends and a clue.

          Stop hatin’!

          • Pivyque

            You must be lost. How is it apparent that I don’t know any black women? I am a black woman.
            Just to be clear, I was not referring to the article. I was replying to another post that stated black women “tend to be misearble, mean, unfriendly, loud, bossy and confrontational”. So, save your “stop hatin” piece for someone that is hating. If you agree that you and 97% of black women are like that, then maybe YOU and that 97% need to get a clue and some sense. If that is the case, then I am glad that I just know the 3% that know how to act.

        • Man

          I know enough. Look at the comments from the black women on here. Always negative especially towards each other, so please with the BS and victim crap.

          • Pivyque

            What is “the BS and victim crap”? When did I try to play the victim? I just asked you a couple of questions because the description that you gave of most black women doesn’t describe the black women in my circle. At any rate, you have your views and I have mine.

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          Wow…madamenoir your really a biased black men hating rag of a website.
          You delete all my comments, yet leave all the racist comments about biracials up !!!

          I hope this site gets shut the fock down !!!!

        • http://www.facebook.com/georgi.harps Georgi Harps

          Wow madamnoire you really are one black man hating rag of a website.
          you delete all of my comments, yet you leave up all the racist comments from black women , about biracials..??? WTF

          i hope this site gets shut the fock down !!!!!

      • DaisyDooks

        If THAT’S the type of Black woman YOU’VE been attracting, that says a lot about YOU!! Many of us have faced challenges with the opposite gender, but to adversely indict and generalize ALL Black women demonstrates a problem with the individual making the allegations.

      • myseas

        Your comments reflect your ignorance. I can only feel sorry for you because they do not reflect someone who has peace in their mind and spirit.

      • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

        Boy please. Learn how to spell and get at least a small grasp of english grammar before attempting to insult other people, you inbred idiot.

        • Man

          Why should I learn how to spell, seeing how you have nothing better to do than to observe and correct my mistakes.
          Dumb ho, come on here like you are the grammar nazi. Obviously you have too much damn time on your hand.
          You are a typical negress, bitter, unfriendly, loud, bossy and unfriendly.
          Deal with it b—-.

      • http://www.facebook.com/BelovedAllDay Karene Alicia

        Well I’m quite surprised you would call yourself “Man”.. Seems to me you are missing a couple letters.

      • PrimaFaciaTruth

        Of course you forgot to mention you also find white, asian, and native american women to ALSO be miserable, mean, unfriendly, loud, bossy and confrontational. Eventually you might (but likely not) finally figure out it’s not them…It’s YOU. There’s just something about you that makes most any woman that sees you want to puke.

      • Nene

        That may be so but how would you feel if you were brought to another country against your will and raped. Physically blacks are free but mentally where still slaves.

    • http://www.facebook.com/ajua.martey Ajua Martey

      *ditto*. Sad though we sistahs still have to contend with ignorant folks that that have nothing else better to do. Ancestors didn’t call these clowns to rise up to re-build a nation. So it is better to leave those in the dust with the others. They can fall with babylon like the rest of them!

      • http://www.facebook.com/ajua.martey Ajua Martey

        those called, “Man” (ha!) and “Georgie Harps” (sounds like from india…to be expected) are the clowns that I am referring to…yeah, I am putting ya’ll on blast!

        • Man

          You just said a whole lot of nothing . I am sure that you really feel like you have told me off huh……Lil girl in order for that to happen I would have to care b—-.

          • Nisha

            Go away. Why are you here at Madame Noire, a site that caters to black women in the first place? Go read a book, watch some sports or go play video games. Your foul mouth and nonsense are not needed here.

    • DaisyDooks

      I find the concerted efforts and media propagandized campaigns to
      demoralize Black women–and convince them that they are beneath not only
      the women of other races, but the ENTIRE human race–ludicrous at best.
      In essence, such disparagement reveal quite the opposite in TRUTH.
      The root of the human tree starts with the DNA of Black women–and Black
      men (who came along NINE cosmogonic eras later). I don’t think many
      Black women are AWARE of their TRUE history and exceptional BRILLIANCE
      on THIS planet. There has been an on-going MAJOR cover-up of Black
      women’s accomplishments through revisionist history and reassigning
      credit to other gender and races. Do Black females REALLY know that THEY
      were the FIRST to invoke CREATIVE INTELLIGENCE, and with this powerful
      THOUGHT potential, THEY demonstrated through their very OWN existence
      how energy became matter? Black women were the FIRST scientists,
      physicists and Khemists who understood energy and forces (spirituality)
      and elements in the universe. It was Black women who identified
      NUMBERS–which are formations of magnetic sine waves–and are the basis
      of ALL existence within the PHYSICAL universe–including the creation of
      the universe itself. NUMBERS is the ORIGINAL CULTURE of Black people.
      Black women were the FIRST astronomers who studied the trajectory of
      stars, observed supernovas (black holes), mapped star systems for
      navigational purposes and tracked time cycle changes. It was because of
      these activities that they originated higher-level
      MA’AT(thematics)–Geometry, Trigonometry, Integral Kalkulus and
      Kalkulus. Black women originated the METRIC system–and placed
      meter-sized slabs in the base of pyramids during its construction. The
      word ‘technology’ is an etymological derivative of ‘Tekhi’ –the name of
      a Black female High Priestess/Astronomer/Scientist who gave us
      GEOMETRY. There is much, much more. The bottom line is if it were not
      for the INTELLECTUAL developments of Black women–which birthed and
      groomed IMHOTEP–none of you would be enjoying the materialism you have
      today.

      This is not to boost ego, but to invoke SELF-INTROSPECTION among
      BLACK women and trigger memories within your cells that connect you BACK
      to your original consciousness. How did we fall? Why did we relinquish
      our power? How can we REACTIVATE our MINDS?

      Black women, the power to change (anything) has ALWAYS been within
      YOU! You embody the science. You ARE the key to the Universe.