You Have Friends…With Benefits
Some people try to heal their broken heart through having sex with someone new. Lots of it. While you may not be thinking about starting a new relationship, sex helps to take your mind off your ex. Some even mistake sex for love…which is where it can get tricky. Being intimate with someone new right after a breakup may confuse matters more because the line between simply being physical vs. being intimate can get blurry. Next thing you know, someone catches feelings, the other doesn’t, and you find yourself in another potentially hurtful situation.
If you both are in agreement that it’s just sex and you’re having fun without worrying about where the relationship is going, then fine…rock out! But if one of you is just focusing on sex while the other is focusing on being serious, it’s time to end the arrangement until you both are on the same page.