Sister Of Bow Wow’s Baby Mama Puts Him On Blast: “When Are You Gonna Publicly Announce You’re A Deadbeat?”

August 3, 2012  |  

Source: Straightfromthea.com

Najah Chavis, the little sister of Joie Chavis who is the mother of Bow Wow’s daughter, is not afraid to get e-buck—much like her big sis. There was already controversy over Bow Wow’s parenting–or lack thereof–last summer when Joie said she didn’t put his name on their child’s birth certificate because, well, he wasn’t a father, and now her little sister is pulling a Christina Milian and calling Bow Wow a deadbeat all over the Internet.

The YBF caught the trail of tweets where Najah essentially says Bow Wow fronts for the public, posting pics with his daughter like he’s father of the year, when neither he nor his mother sees Shai on a regular basis. Here are just a few of the messages she sent out:

Najah may be right about Bow Wow but Shai is not her baby, nor is that her situation to expose on the Internet. Perhaps she should scroll through the e-rolodex of men who have been put on blast for failing at fatherhood and see how quickly that made them change their ways—it doesn’t. You can’t make any man be a father and if Bow Wow really isn’t providing any type of financial assistance for his child as she alleged in other tweets she needs to spend her free time helping her big sis fill out child support paperwork not being messy on Twitter. Thoughts?

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  • Sookiiee

    im sorry but i thought her sister was the one who had the baby lol wow that was a total waste of energy because at the end of the day her little rant won’t make him do no more than what he is already doing. so in the 10 minutes it took her to write this she could’ve been doing something more constructive with her life, like minding her business! lol

  • Just saying!!

    Wow I’m not saying what this girl did was right because it was childish but reading these comments tells me a lot about the nature of women to be destructive towards themselves/others. It seems I always find this in any conversation about men-women relations. I understand she was wrong, I understand the mother should have included his name….but damn she’s raising her! Why the heck do deadbeats always get a damn pass? Is it because he’s famous? Is he a victim now? So over this foolishness. So sick of women finding every reason to put another down and blame her for something. We tend to be a little sick in the head…sorry.

  • Just saying!!

    I’m honestly really disappointed because when Bow Wow was “little bow wow” I was really obsessed with him and he would always talk about the absence of his father and what it meant for him to be different but clearly that was an act. Ugh this is just way too fricking common!!

    • are you serious??? Joi can’t even say with Certainty that its HIS kid. a year later, his name is STILL not on the birth certificate. If there had been DNA testing they could have changed that IMMEDIATELY. Joi has yet to say anything like this about him so her little sister needs to play her position as auntie and shut her mouth because shes calling attention to a situation and a rapper that nobody really gives even a half a crap about

  • caliblaxican

    Once again, no one mentioned whether or not he’s helping out financially. I doubt he would’ve been able to show his face at the birthday party and other occasions if he wasn’t. Aside from that, child support doesn’t MAKE a man come around more. In fact, it gives him more of a reason to stay away. CS causes more drama. In a man’s mind, he feels CS is the punishment, so why come around more often than he has to. 1) know who you’re sleeping with. It takes 2 to make that decision to lie down. Just like I teach my son (@ 6 yrs old), decisions have consequences. Think before you act. Ladies, especially you too. He can walk away if he chooses. Calling him a deadbeat isn’t going to change anything. In the end, you will be the one paying for that one night of “fun.”

  • We really need to STOP defending deadbeats. If Bow Wow is taking care of his child, someone SHOULD feel the need to put him on blast. Not signing the birth certificate? He’s not even legally acknowledging that the baby is his! The sister may have been immature in her approach, but what she said was right. Bow Wow gets to go be a star, while the baby mama is stuck raising a child on her own. MAN UP “LIL” BOW WOW!!

    • I agree!

    • GalaxyEmpress

      Amen!!! Thank You!!! Your post is the only sensible post on here so far. All these other ignorant, deadbeat enable, phallus strokers are not even acknowledging that the absent father is in the wrong. If he was doing what he’s suppose to be doing, there would be nothing bad to expose. Psssssh…..

    • @Clarice I agree with you the sister is acting childish by publicly airing your family’s dirty. What does that do, it does not affect Bow wow’s his finances, it does not shame him, it does not do anything. Tell me, what does putting him on blast via twitter truly accomplish. I mean, if she is so frustrated then go to court and file the necessary papers on behalf of her sister.

    • Trisha_B

      He doesn’t say he didn’t sign the birth certificate. it says Joie didn’t put his name down.

      • deadbeat police

        well where was he at ? from my understanding the father signs and only the father. no one else is suppose to put your name down.

    • Free

      I concur! We run to the aide of deadbeats so often and the funny sad thing is we see all around us that men are not “Man Up”. No man gets any excuse from me about being a dead beat. You need to be embarrassed and but to shame! It’s sickening! I can see her frustrations and this was the only was she could get it out, by twitter being the information hwy. I don’t think its shameful on her part either. It’s more shameful that someone of his status and fortitude will not be more of a father and more of a man–hell a freggn human!. I don’t know what state you are in but in Texas, you can’t even put a name on a birth certificate unless the father acknowledges so obviously they feel that if you wont man up about your child—you don’t get the honor of signing that line. Bow Wow it’s time to grow up. You made it you need to help take care of it.

    • Hey

      Maybe we need to stop supporting irresponsible mothers as well. It has been said several times that it takes two to ‘tango’ or be a ‘parent’. Did the mother of the child and bow wow agree on having a child together or did she spring this on him. Now you expect him to do what, drop everything else he is doing to be a puppet for the mother and child. Hello, he has a life too you know. Now that said, the baby is here and he needs to man up and be a father. How and when he does that no knows, besides all this he say, she say business. And why do you sound like a bitter baby mama!

    • deadbeat police

      ITA sista. i’m sick of the enabling women backing these deadbeats , then when it happens to them they want to cry bloody murder. make them man up or shush!

  • Na Na

    Two Words: CHILD SUPPORT! Its something about the sounds of money leaving a mans pocket that will make him jump up and be somewhat of a better dad. The bottom isn’t money, its thinking strategically to get your child what they needs and that’s both parent. Better yet….next time don’t have a baby by a douche.

  • Kayo

    Shad Moss is a fraud, but isn’t this what he wants? He raps about ‘baby mama’ drama now, so this is perfect for him because now he can fit in with all of the male rappers who he admires so much.

  • NiceNasty

    Lol, this girl is a trip, how you gon put somebody on blast about being a deadbeat when it’s not your child in the first place. Then she didn’t put his name on the birth certificate so you can’t really take him to court for child support with some kind of proof that he is indeed the father. Unless you get a blood test and if he wants to be dirty he can avoid it. But she really needs to stop telling her sister ish, cause she don’t know for certain what she’s telling is even true or not.

  • Please she doing what she needs to as a sister and a auntie I think that’s awesome

    • I totally agree! We need to stop defending dead beats dads.

      • yes

      • No one is defending dead beat dads. Why should a man’s lack of interest in raising his child dictate how you carry yourself and how you raise your child. Everyone makes choices, if a man does not want to raise his child, then take him to court and get the money needed. There is no need to waste time berating him. That;s like beating a dead horse. To many times women let their frustration and bitterness cloud their children’s judgement and perception of their father. He knows what he is doing. Do what you have to do regardless of whether the father is interested or not. I’m sorry but show your child you are strong regardless of the challenges faced.

        • Hey

          Maybe we need to stop supporting irresponsible mothers as well. It has been said several times that it takes two to ‘tango’ or be a ‘parent’. Did the mother of the child and bow wow agree on having a child together or did she spring this on him. Now you expect him to do what, drop everything else he is doing to be a puppet for the mother and child. Hello, he has a life too you know. Now that said, the baby is here and he needs to man up and be a father. How and when he does that no knows, besides all this he say, she say business. And why do you sound like a bitter baby mama!

          • Pivyque

            You know…I don’t know what is actually going on, but I believe that he should step up and be there as much as he can, if he isn’t already. When you have kids, you have to MAKE time for them, Whether they planned this or not doesn’t matter because this is what happened. If they were having unprotected sex then YES they did plan it. Once he found out she was pregnant, they should have started making plans about visitations and everything else co parenting involves. They are BOTH at fault and they BOTH need to accept and properly deal with the consequences of their actions. Smh.

          • If this wasn’t the dumbest thing I ever heard! If he can fuk her with no condom he can be a puppet to the child

        • Just saying!!

          This is true….but WAY easier said than done in my opinion…

  • bluekissess

    Sister girl needs to stay in her place. That’s not her baby or her baby’s father. TWITTER is killing this society.

    • Kayo

      Her method of exposing his behavior is not the most refined, but she is the aunt of his daughter, so it isn’t as if she completely has no right to express herself.

      • bluekissess

        Then as an aunt she should focus on being the best aunt that child has ever known. Her role is Auntie not point the finger police

  • Trisha_B

    She’s embarrassing her sister. Just b/c you help out w/ the kid, doesn’t give you the right to expose certain information concerning the child. If Joie not speaking on it, why are you? Bow Wow was at Shai’s birthday party. He post pics of them together. As of lately, i know he’s been doing little shows & preparing an album. So maybe that’s why he hasn’t seen the baby. But he has to work to support the child, b/c no shade to the moms but what’s her occupation? …Wasn’t there questions about the paternity of the child & that’s why he didn’t see the baby right away, & that’s why he was left off the birth certificate. But she’s named after him. I’m a need this girl to mind her business, & have Bow & Joie deal w/ it privately!

    • Kayo

      He’s been ‘preparing’ for that same album for about four or five years now.

      • MLS2698

        Seems like he peaked at 14. Maybe he should sell some of those gold chains he purchased as a kid. IJS

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  • nia

    Wow. Creepy that Najah has my first name and Joie has my middle name! But she needs to stay out of their business. Her sister’s relationship is none of her concern. And maybe Joie should stop discussing her personal problems for her sister to oust them on twitter.

  • MLS2698

    Well, she should have put his name on the birth certificate, then she could take him to court to settle the financial part. Next time, tell your sister to be married to a man first before she starts having babies with them; and be aware then, too because you can’t make people into something they are not, nor can you make them mature.

  • Baddvixentype

    She should NEVER disrespect someones mother. She’s a lame. That situation has nothing to do with her. Have a seat ma.

  • mslilbit51

    She never said anything about him not providing for his daughter. So I the issue of filling out child support papers isn’t even an issue.

  • She left the guy’s name off the birth certificate and you complaining about him being a dead beat father………..Take him to court and stop publicly shaming yourself and your sister. It’s really a bad idea for women/mothers to purposely leave out the father’s name of a child on their birth certificate. Whether the he father is in the child’s life or not it’s wrong to leave his name off the birth certificate. Mothers can be so self-fish at times

  • She left the guy’s name off the birth certificate and you complaining about him being a dead beat father………..Take him to court and stop publicly shaming yourself and your sister. It’s really a bad idea for women/mothers to purposely leave out the father’s name of a child on their birth certificate. Whether the he father is in the child’s life or not it’s wrong to leave his name off the birth certificate. Mothers can be so self-fish at times

  • SMHgurl24

    After reading this the only fool i see is her. its none of her business for one and secondly going down this road of foolishness is a great way for the mother to get screwed down the road. I hope the mother didnt consent to her trash. Frankly if he isnt performing in the father department, go to the courts and.ban him from seeing his daughter until he straightens up. Forcing someone to become a dad is a great way to screw up a child imo

  • CA Pullen

    I agree. she need to straighten that foolishness in child support court,not on the internet.