Love To Love Ya: Can You Identify The Signs Of A Man In Love?

June 26, 2012 ‐ By

According to Science Daily, a study conducted by Syracuse University suggests that it takes approximately one fifth of a second to fall in love. Although falling in love may happen quickly, it seems like it takes a little longer for your brain to catch up with your heart, and even longer for your emotions to give you the nerve to finally utter the words. Women tend to be a little more vocal about their emotions than men, but if you watch closely, his actions will show you before his lips tell you that he loves you.

He’s always looking for reasons to spend time with you

Did you ever notice that he’s always looking for an excuse to be in your presence? “Wanna do lunch?” “Do you need a study buddy?” “I was in the neighborhood, I figured I’d just stop by.” Sound familiar?  People who are in love look forward to spending time in the presence of their love interest and go out of their way to make time for you, sometimes when they really don’t have much time available.

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  • Marina Calis

    Please ladies…do not believe all of these…if the man is a con artist he would display the same characteristics…these articles are here to deceive…do not believe the hype.Go with what you know,watch him over a course of time,take heed to the 6th sense and pray…Good Luck

    • Kath

      “heed to the 6th sense and pray…Good Luck” – Dead on this one! Lol..

  • Kath

    Well a friend of mine has done everything except no. 9. and he had better not do that. I just wish their was a way to tell him, am not AT ALL, interested in you, but I would like for us to remain very good friends. Sometimes I really can’t stand men. A woman doesn’t always want to become your friend because she has some kind of crush on you. You need to start understanding this.

  • Bobtheunicorn

    This boy called called Peter (I can’t say his last name he could b on this site as I type) has done most of these things for me and ended up getting snogged in the end so… Yeah, YAY I have a boyfriend!!

  • shey

    How do i know if this guy is for me

  • Me

    Yeah men can only continue to love ya if you’re photoshopped and then you’re one of a million

  • Me

    Signs were there but never worked. Most just want to fool around . Relationships these days aren’t worth it.

  • TheTruth

    i agree with this list especially the point about talking on the phone for hours. the last guy i dated had serious communication problems but the new guy I’m talking to texts me all day everyday & we have great hour long conversations & he’s interested in every aspect of my life 🙂

  • Guest

    I’m in love with my boyfriend of a few years, and we are still rocking with each other. It does change…but CHANGE doesn’t necessarily mean that’s a BAD thing (for the single “hopeless romantics”) . Who knows, maybe there are men who are like this 24-7 lol…but if you ask me, most of it sounds like the “honeymoon stage”.

    • Kai

      Maybe there should be a list entitled, “He Still Loves You If…”lol.

  • Ken S.

    This can also be a list for 10 things men will do to sleep with you

  • Guest

    these signs are sooo captain obvious.. lol well thks for clearing up that my dude doesn’t love me


    these seem about right.

  • Happygolucky

    Wow! I think its sad how most of these comments are do negative and skeptical. These are supposed to be signs that he might love you, not a clear cut answer. These are things that you can pick up on in your relationship. Call me a hopeless romantic, but I think this list is adorable and can’t wait until it happens to me. 🙂

    • Kai

      I sooo agree with you! This list is very accurate as I compare it to my own romantic experiences. The guys that weren’t really in love with me, but in lust and/or weren’t really emotionally available did not do ALL the things on the list maybe SOME but not ALL. And I think that if a man does ALL the things on the list, it’s a pretty sure thing. A man is not going to go out of his way to be helpful to you unless he genuinely cares.

    • Kath

      Lol.. Just don’t be gullible. Can’t say you weren’t warned.

  • bluekissess

    B. S

  • Just call me Shey

    MOST of this sounds like the honeymoon stage lol

    • MissEngineer

      I agree. Men are different. I’m not trying to be negative but let’s rephrase this title some way. These are new love signs. How about the signs when he’s comfortable and the relationship is beyond the newbie stage?

      • Just call me Shey

        I don’t think you sound negative at all :]

  • Kristina

    I’ve had men do these things for me and thats only because they wanted to get in the panty draws. Once that happens they quickly change. I don’t know any men who stay like this for a long time, once they get you use to you they change. That’s why I change my men every 3 to 4 months. I need the relationship fresh. I need that lust, that yearning feeling, that obsession, that new toy smell.

    • nola

      You mess with different men every 3 to 4 months? Sound like a ho to me lol Hope you wrap it up before you start catching nasty stuff every
      3 to 4 months.

    • Kath

      Lol..Inconsistency is always the order of the day eh? Go on girl!

  • Yaya

    He farts in your eye.

    • dimpz

      lmao!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

    • bluekissess

      These “list” sounds ridiculous.

      He blows his morning breath in your face