Down on Bended Knee: 6 Things A Cheater Has To Do To Get You Back

May 4th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Man begging a woman"

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I have to be honest and start with this: I don’t believe cheaters should be taken back. If you’re not happy with someone, break up with them or talk to them about it. If you just can’t keep it in your pants, don’t be in a relationship. There is no such thing as an “excuse” to cheat. But, love is strong. It’s a hard force to fight and sometimes everything was so good in the relationship, until that one indiscrepancy, that it breaks your heart to end something, even if you’ve been cheated on. But your heart will be broken a hundred times more if you are cheated on again, or if you spend every day feeling like a fool simply for taking him back. So, if you must take back a cheater, put him through the wringer, like this:

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  • Alshana

    I personally don’t take back cheaters.He wouldn’t take me back or even entertain the idea after having to come to terms with someone else bumpin’ uglies with his sweetie,so why should I?

  • Knowsy Latina

    I actually followed all of these steps a few years ago (I didn’t read it anywhere, haha, it just felt right) when I went through something similar. To those who say to never take back a cheater — not all cheaters are created equal. Sometimes cheating is a symptom of something larger that is affecting the relationship, and if it can be addressed, it can be solved. Sometimes the cheater is just a cheater by nature, there’s no symptom – in that case it’s a disease. THOSE relationships can’t be – and shouldn’t be – saved.

    I can say that after 3 years, it was the right thing to do for us. It’s not for everyone.

  • L-Boogie

    Never take back a cheater. Let the wound heal and move on. 

    • L-Boogie

      Also, is ol’ boy looking up her skirt?  Tsk. Tsk.  

  • http://kimster-thatswhatshesaid.blogspot.com/ Kimster

    For those who are willing to take a cheating partner back, I think this is a really good list…for both genders! Both men and women cheat. I especially like the point about the cheating partner not expecting anything in return for the gestures of apology and affection. If s/he cheated, the heartbroken partner doesn’t owe anything. Even the consideration for a second chance is one hell of an honor.