What A Man Won’t Tell You About Himself Immediately

January 5, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin

"Man saying 'sshh'"

Men and women are both enigmatic in their own ways, but what I have found is that men are, across the board, more private people than women are. Men don’t wear their emotions on their sleeves as much as women do. Why? Because they know that when a woman senses a man showing his soft side, she reads that as him wanting to become closer. So, to avoid leading anyone one, they wait until they are certain they like a woman to start sharing these things. Lord knows how long that takes…

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  • PrincesS.R

    This article is definitely a good one and right on the money with most of its points, however, it can’t be more wrong in regards to my situation. You see, less than a week ago, I met who turned out to be a really good guy in Pathmark of all places. He initially approached me in the juice aisle, telling me that I was beautiful, and awhile later in the checkout aisle, caught me as I was leaving, and boldly yet shyly gave me his contact info. Having a good feeling about him, a couple of days later, I called, we conversed and made plans to hang out. The next night (last night actually), he came to get me, and we drove over to his place with the sole intention of simply getting to know one another better. We talked extensively, and he explained his entire backstory to me, from his tough upbringing to his admission that he hates his job and wants to go into business for himself one day. I was very aware of the fact that although we’d only known eachother an absurdly short time, he was probably being the most vulnerable and open he had been in a long time with anyone, and he indeed confessed to me that some of the things he’d told me, he’d never shared with anyone before, not even fam members. Long story short, we continued into his bedroom, and I think you can guess where that led. However, I can honestly say that I care deeply for him, and I know that he feels the same about me, despite how it looks from the outside or what others who read this might think. Thoughts of him make my heart flutter, aaand he also told me that he likes me :). Lastly, I’d like to say that this is my first comment ever on this site, and probably the most personal anecdotal nugget I’ve ever shared, but my point is that although this article is a well-done piece, just like all other so-called dating and relationship “rules”, it doesn’t necessarily apply to everyone all the time or in the same ways. After all, where there are rules, there are always exceptions to them. No need to respond / reply, particularly if its negative. Happy New Year, stay safe, and God bless 😀

    • Is It 5:00 Yet?

      That ish sounds like a Lifetime movie.

  • Blueberry01

    I think this was a good article. Thank you, jaustin.

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