3. Don’t Try To Rationalize
Don’t try to make sense out of nonsense. Rationalizing your cheating spouse’s behavior or sympathizing with him is pointless. It is never OK to go outside of your relationship to solve problems within a relationship. No matter what excuses he puts on you or what blame he tries to throw at you, stay confident that he is caught in a lie and knows he has no where to go. He might try to manipulate you into thinking it was your fault he strayed. In this case, if you tolerate his excuses, the rest of your relationships will only be full of more manipulation, lying, and probably cheating. Don’t allow yourself to get caught in a tailspin relationship headed for failure. If he’s not adding significant value and happiness to your life, you deserve better.