Acceptance is hard but you have to move on. Infidelity is the leading cause of divorce in the western world. If you can’t accept that it happened to you, it will consume your mind and eventually destroy you physically and emotionally. Being cheated on has nothing to do with your appearance, brains, athletic ability, personality, race, religion, or any other characteristic you possess. The richest, most beautiful women who seem to “have it all” get cheated on too. Cheating has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with your man and his issues. It’s frustrating to not be able to “solve” these issues, but it’s your partner’s responsibility to try to mend your relationship, not you.