Saying they’re not ready for a relationship when they do relationship things.
Y’all men never stray too far from the script. Sleeping with you, going on dates, meeting your friends and family, and doing other boyfriend-like things are nice in practice. But when you ask for commitment or simply ask a question about the nature of your relationship, they get quiet or remind you that they never signed up for anything official. They’re leaving themselves an outlet so they can have the benefits of a consistent “girlfriend” but the freedom of a singleness.