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I don’t want to preach to y’all…too much. But some of you are holding on to men who will ultimately do nothing be wreak havoc on your spirit. I mean, not taking initiative, not seeking to advance the relationship, not respecting you, stepping out, etc. The list goes on, y’all know the behavior.
Still, for one reason or another, love, fear or whatever, we hold on to these dudes feeling like we can’t do any better, considering the time we’ve already invested. It reminds me of that meme where the girl is holding on to a tiny teddy bear and White Jesus is telling her to relinquish it and trust Him because He has a much bigger teddy bear behind His back.
Well, Russell Wilson is Ciara’s bigger bear. And not in some cute and romantic way. I mean, the man is the better and best. After dating men like Bow Wow, Amar’e Stoudemire (who was practically married), 50 Cent and most recently Future, she upgraded. (Maybe not in looks because Future is still fione but certainly in overall human decency.) Not to mention Russell is outchea treating Ciara like the Princess of Crunk’n B that we always knew her to be. Don’t believe me? All you have to do is check out some of the incredible dates these couples have been on in the past two years. Now, this is a relationship glowup.