John Legend Says He And Chrissy’s Fertility Struggles Brought Them Closer As A Couple
Chrissy Teigen is particularly candid about her life’s trials and triumphs. She speaks about the joys of motherhood but also her battle with postpartum depression. Most recently, she came out spoke about her goal to cut down on her drinking.
Now, her husband, singer John Legend is sharing things from his perspective. In a recent interview with Cosmopolitan, Legend spoke about he and his wife’s fertility struggles and how it’s helped to bring them closer together as a couple.
The conversation began when Cosmo asked John how he and Chrissy maintain open communication in their relationship.
“There’s no problem with openness in our relationship. You know Chrissy. She doesn’t hold anything back! I’m quite reserved, but being with someone like her inspires me to be open about my emotions. She brings them out of me because she’s so open about hers.”
Then they asked about the couple’s IVF journey and whether it’s put a strain on their relationship.
“Having a baby is a big challenge for a couple, and going through that together strengthens your bond because if you make it through [having a child], you know you can make it through anything.
I think it’s especially difficult when you can’t conceive naturally. You want to feel like everything’s working properly and want everything to be perfect, but sometimes it’s not. I wouldn’t say we can’t conceive naturally, but I would say that it’s enough of a challenge where it felt like we needed help. We’re lucky that we’re living in an age where we can conceive in other ways. [IVF] brought us Luna and hopefully it will bring us a few more awesome kids, too.”
Then they asked Legend about Chrissy’s decision to cut down on her drinking.
“We’re always honest with each other, so we discuss everything that’s on our minds. When she was thinking about how she wanted to drink less, we talked about it. I just want to support her. I want her to be happy and to live the fullest, most awesome life she can, and I want us to do it together. Whenever she sets her mind to anything, I always tell her, “I want to support you and help you do it.”
Cosmo referenced a line from “Insecure” in which Lawrence was insulted for being a
“John Legend” type dude. They asked the real John Legend what he felt about the comment.
“I think that’s awesome. I don’t want to present myself as the “perfect spouse” and I don’t want to present our relationship as the “perfect relationship” because I don’t think anybody meets that definition. I think it’s too much pressure to put on anyone. However, I don’t mind being known as somebody who’s devoted to their wife. I am devoted to Chrissy. And when I write about [my commitment to her], it’s me being authentic. I think it should be cool to be a good partner, a good spouse, a good father, and/or a good parent. If I’m one of the people who helps make that cooler, I think that’s great.”