You only get one life, so don’t you want to spend it with somebody who makes you wake up over-the-moon about the fact that you’re alive, and you found each other? A lot of poor, unfortunate people don’t know that love can be like that. If you find the right person, then that relationship can become the point to this entire thing. It can make you happier than anything else—any level of fame or success—ever could. And that’s amazing because love is something you can count on being there. It doesn’t fluctuate like the stock market, trends, or your boss’ moods; no matter how sh*tty of a day you have, if you are with the right person, then you still get to have an incredible day. You don’t, however, get to experience any of that if you settle in the wrong relationship, out of fear of being alone, or for really any reason. Are you wondering if you’re settling? Here are the signs.
You enjoy sex with yourself more
You love having the house to yourself because it means getting to bust out the vibrator and enjoy some form of sex—the thing you and your partner don’t have, or at least don’t really enjoy together.