5. Don’t Say ‘I Love You’ First
Now, this one should be taken with some caution. Don’t jump to tell that guy you went on a first date with last week that you love him. That would be creepy and it’s likely that you’ll send him on a marathon. But if you’ve been dating your guy for a while and it’s clear that he has feelings for you, there is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings. Now he may not say it back. But whether he says it back or not should be irrelevant if you’re purpose in telling him that you love him is to express your feelings and isn’t some ulterior motive to speed things up. But if he runs, bid him farewell, ‘cause he was never yours anyway.
Martha Tesfaye is a pop culture and music connoisseur, a blog-addict and a 24/7 advice-giver. You can find her on twitter at @TheMartiniMix
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