Remy Ma and Papoose’s love story is a rare one. No matter what troubles are thrown at the pair, they always seem to come out better, stronger, and more unified which is why, although we’re heartbroken at the sad news the husband and wife recently shared with the world, we know they’re going to be okay.
On last night’s episode of “Love & Hip-Hop,” viewers were taken through a whirlwind of emotions, seeing Remy surprise an elated Papoose with the revelation that she was expecting near the show’s beginning. However, by the end of the episode, Remy was seen in a hospital bed after being delivered the crushing news that she’d suffered an ectopic pregnancy and the fetus had to be removed. What’s worse is the rapper was also told she wouldn’t be able to conceive again naturally.
“It just seems like no matter what we do, the worst stuff just happens. It doesn’t make sense. Everybody else’s baby is fine. Everybody else around us that’s pregnant is fine. Why mine’s couldn’t be fine,” Remy said to Papoose through tears.
“I promised my husband that I would give him the child that he’s been asking me for since almost the day he met me and I can’t do that any more,” she later explained in her confessional.
It’s a devastating experience that, unfortunately, far too many women know personally, and it’s for that reason Remy and Papoose decided to go through the emotional trauma of miscarrying in front of the cameras.
Late last night, Remy shared a video taken from the hospital bed the day she was dealt the news of her ectopic pregnancy on Instagram. As she talks about going to baby stores, buying a pregnancy journal, and the overall excitement she felt about becoming a mom, the 36-year-old said, “I just never thought it would end like this with stitches in my stomach and no baby.”
But in her caption, a more hopeful Remy explained why she and Papoose went through their miscarriage on the VH1 reality show and her plan to still have babies.
First, thank you to everyone that sent their congrats as well as condolences🙏🏽 This was a hard time for me & my husband & we thought long and hard before deciding to share this part of our lives with you all. I was totally against it but in a fit of crying @papoosepapoose said ” you are not the only one going thru this , we will get thru it” …made me realize how many women like myself experience the same thing and don’t have a strong partner by their side to say it will be alright. So I’m here to tell anyone going thru a similar situation that it is not over and God has the last say so
Thank you to the staff at the hospital I was in; you all were super nice & respectful and did everything to ensure I was comfortable. And to Dr. Razmzan , who came to perform my surgery at 5am, who tried his best to leave me scarless and succeeded, who eased any fears I had- THANK YOU, & don’t retire yet cuz once we find the right in vitro dr you have to deliver my babies 😘#BlackLove #RemyMa#MeetTheMackies
We can’t wait to see Papoose and Remy Ma’s dream of becoming parents come true.