The other night my friend and I went to a poetry slam where this dope poet, Phantom Knoet, (did you catch the rhyme?) spoke about trifilin’ behaviors men who call themselves “grown” often display. It was all about male bashing. The men in the venue weren’t too pleased but probably because they saw themselves in one or two of the points she mentioned. I figured I’d continue “the discussion” here and see if my mesdames over here feel me. Fellas don’t look at it as male bashing. Look at it as words of wisdom and take notes.