Deuces Baby: 10 Signs You Are Headed Towards A Heartbreak

November 2, 2016  |  
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We’ve all been there – first dates filled with fireworks and months filled with sheer adoration. You recall the early morning texts and the afternoon check ups from bae. But what happens when that all slows down? Is your partner overwhelmed with work and life issues, or is he or she plain tired of you. Because we understand what it is like to feel the burn of a relationship building falling down, we are here to help you peep the warning signs. Take heed of the red flags – do not extend your heartbreak.

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Red Flag #1 – Dry A$# Phone Calls and Texts

In the beginning, your babe used to heat up your phone with sincere “I love you’s” and “can’t wait to see you’s” – but now it is crickets. Your partner has gone radio silent.

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Red Flag #2 – Social Media Hiatus

When you first started dating, there was a lot of activity and for sure images of you and your partner all over Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat! Now you can trail their feed for weeks and find nothing. In fact, you may be blocked. Definite red flag.

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Red Flag #3 – Everywhere, But With You

Is your partner super busy now? Are they pulling the overtime stunt or the ‘I was sleeping – didn’t get your call.” Remember, anyone who wants to be around – will be around!

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Red Flag #4 – Cheap Date, Cheap Thrills

Oh, you remember all those luxury movie dates filled with 3-D action, expensive popcorn and then drinks at a quaint and cute bar afterwards. Well, when the going gets tough – routine dates start to look like local Chinese food delivered late or a fast food drive by. The last time you went on a thrilling adventure was….

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Red Flag #5 – The Home Girl Strikes Again

You know her name well – “that’s my home girl.” Your partner claims they are just friends. However, those late night calls and party Instagram flicks look a little too friendly. Leave it up to your partner – it is all innocent, but is it really?

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Red Flag #6 – Fake Arguments

What’s a little conflict in a relationship? Especially, the kind that will have your partner storming out the door for a good 8-to-10 hours. Typical relationship trick. Start a fire and then run for shelter. The only thing is – that shelter is not you.

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Red Flag #7 – Dag, That Distance

Your partner used to share the world with you. On rainy days, you two would watch pop culture documentaries or cook up a storm. Now, just getting a simple ‘how are you doing?” is a challenge. The person who used to be super available is super distant. Trust us – it is not you – it’s them.

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Red Flag #8 – What Intimacy?

Recall the nights of wild love-making? Now, it is a little wham bam – but definitely – no thank you’s. After a little action comes the roll-over. Too bad for the sexy lingerie and candles you just purchased. You are pretty much out of $100 bucks.

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Red Flag #9 – Your Future Looks Dim

What happened to all the conversations about a house in the south and a batch of beautiful little kids? When your conversations no longer include walking down the aisle or how your going to decorate the nursery – it may be time to re-evaluate some things.

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Red Flag #10 – All Of The Above

If any of the red flags above are happening in your life, we suggest you start prepping to make an exit – or at least have some serious talks with your partner. We can’t say your relationship is totally done – but those red flags are usually warning signs that a hurricane is approaching. Protect your heart.

 

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