Adults-Only Time: Fun Products From Adam & Eve To Amp Up Your Sex Life

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By Dr. Kat Van Kirk

Parents have to learn to become opportunists when it comes for their sex life. I see too many couples wait for the stars to align for the perfect tryst and then it never happens. Decide to prioritize sex by getting it in whenever you can, be it in the shower or under the sheet before your kids raid your bed in the morning. Sometimes focusing on a little quantity will improve the quality of your sex.

Removing the expectation of orgasm for each time you have sex can be freeing for parents

Learning to focus on sensation and enjoying the multitude of benefits from sex can help you build arousal and not be focused on “getting it done.”

Do something, anything different

Research by the Gottman Institute suggests that those sexual relationships that maintain spontaneity in their relationships last longer with higher levels of satisfaction. Therapeutically, I have found that learning to be spontaneous can involve small changes that have a big pay off. Anything from having sex on the other side of the bed, to a quick hand job in the car while you are in the driveway accomplishes this.

Screens and technology tend to take up an inordinate amount of time

It can make us less present in our relationships and therefore less likely to have sex. Learn to put your phone down by dinnertime each night and never bring it into bed with you.

Here are some fun products from Adam & Eve ways to change things up a bit so you stay out of a rut in the bedroom. Adam & Eve has perfect products for every type of couple, including those that:

· Prefer couple-friendly toys – Try: Eve’s Remote Control Vibrating Egg – Take kinky couples’ fun to a whole new level! With Eve’s Remote Control Egg, you can feel and control the buzz wirelessly. Tease your hot spots with the egg’s vibrations and silky-smooth coated surface. The handheld remote lets you switch modes easily for maximum fun. Also try the Scarlet Submission Kit, which includes all you’ll need to tie your lover to the bed for a kinky flogging or blindfold them and tickle their hot spots with a feather.



· Are adventurous in bed – Try: Scarlet Couture Glass Duo Balls – These balls can stimulate your nerves for hours on end with gentle, low-key pleasure that will slowly but surely drive you wild! Ben Wa Balls also build up your Kegel muscles for better control and stronger orgasms.

· Want discreet items – Try: A&E Love Bud Play Set  Whether it’s your first time experimenting with vibration, or you’re just looking for a new set of thrills, Adam & Eve’s Love Bud Play Set is ready, willing, and able to excite you in so many ways.

· Prefer luxury – Try: Inflatable Position Pillow – Achieve positions you never thought possible! Adam & Eve’s angled 24” x 16” pillow inflates quickly & easily to support you in all sorts of bedroom positions.

There are also hundreds of different Adam & Eve products if you prefer luxury, are budget-conscious, enjoy travel-friendly toys, want something ergonomically friendly or just enjoy gadgets. Shop around! Adam & Eve is America’s most trusted source for adult products.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk is a licensed marriage and sex therapist. She is the resident sex expert for Find out more at

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