It’s not that you don’t care how you look in front of your partner. It’s just that, when you’re together all of the time, hiding your 100% aux-natural appearance from him becomes impossible. You can’t go to bed and wake up all made up. You can’t go to the gym together, sweat like crazy, and somehow walk out of there looking ready for brunch. To keep up appearances, you need time apart from your partner. But after a while—especially once you live together—you don’t get that time apart, and so you just can’t keep up the charade. What are you supposed to do? Make your partner go to sleep before you turn off the lights,and make him promise not to peek once you’ve taken your makeup off? Come on. At that point, it’s better to look a little less-than-glamorous than to look crazy in an effort to always look perfect. So here are 15 ways all women get lazy about their beauty routine when they’re in a long-term relationship.