Pop Mom: Is It Ever Too Late To Heal Your Relationship With Your Mom?

March 28, 2016  |  




A story my girlfriend shared with me the other day about a phone conversation with her mom…

“Tell me what you want from the house when I go.”

“Go where?” Bree said to her mom.

“You know, when I die.”

“Die!? What’s wrong?? Are you sick???” Bree panicked.

“No. I just want to be prepared.”

This was so weird.

“I can’t, ma, just write down whatever you think I’d like.”

“I don’t know what you’d like because I don’t know you like that.”


“You don’t know me like that? Ma, are you serious? All the times I’ve tried to get to know you over the years and all you’ve ever done is shut me down. You only came to visit me once in 25 years and that was when I got married, and I had to beg you and pay for your plane ticket.

And then there’s the grandchild that you completely forgot. Now you wanna act like it’s my fault?”

“So it’s my fault?” Bree’s mom said. “Do you remember how you left?”

Whoa. She was bringing that up? They had never spoken about the way she left home. How she had just graduated from high school and had her heart set on becoming a singer- her mother wanted her to go to college. As a compromise, Bree applied to schools with music programs out-of-state, but her mother had her own plans and changed the applications to local colleges in Mississippi where they lived. Bree realized then that the only way she was going to be able to live her own life was by leaving. So one day she bounced, leaving nothing but a note telling her mom that she was heading to New York and would call her when she got settled. They did eventually talk, but the relationship never recovered.

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