Travel Trials: My Girl Hasn’t Hit Me Up Since She Traveled To Jamaica

March 4, 2016  |  



(As relayed by Lauren R.D. Fox based on a culmination of experiences)

I’ve been dating Noel for six months. Although we are not exclusive we always have a great time together and our chemistry is out of this world. After we hit the six-month mark, Noel asked about our future plans and to be honest, I wasn’t ready to commit. I enjoyed coming and going as I please and to be honest, I was more interested in saving my money and raising my 4-year-old son. Noel understood and suggested we take a break in order for her to clear her mind.

That didn’t last long.

About three weeks after, Noel called me for a Netflix and Chill session that resulted in me developing more feelings for her. You see, in the time that we spent apart, I began meeting new women but they didn’t fit all my needs like Noel did. As we cuddled, Noel told me about her plans to travel to Jamaica with her cousins. When I asked how long she she’d be staying she told me 10 and then asked if I’d take her to the airport.

I agreed and two weeks later I was dropping Noel off at the airport. When the day came, it felt good to connect with Noel before she departed to Jamaica. I knew her cousins were a bit raucous (no judgement) and although I am not Noel’s boyfriend, I feared she may meet someone new on the sunny beaches and have one of those travel hookups people are known for. Since I wanted to keep the vibe light, I decided to not speak about my feelings. Instead, I decided I would wait until she came back from her trip. Once we got to the airport, we passionately kissed goodbye and I wished her a safe trip.

That was six days ago. Since then, I haven’t heard from Noel at all and I’m in my feelings about it.

Why is she ignoring me and do I have the right to be annoyed?

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