Sometimes being used isn’t as obvious as a man jumping out of bed immediately after sex. Sometimes it’s a little more subtle, and even a little more bizarre. Here are the worst and weirdest things men use women for.
Some men know they don’t plan on dating you, but they feel secure enough with you to practice their sexual technique, improve it based on your critique, and move on.
The best head
You know it would be on here. Guys have a very hard time walking away from a woman who gives good head, even if he can’t stand her.
Some guys miss having a mama to cook for them and a dad to watch football with, so they just use yours.
An ego boost
Some guys just reach out to you after another woman turned them down because they know they can count on you for an ego boost.
A place for nasty thoughts
Some guys just feel like sending nasty texts sometimes, and you’re the woman who entertains them (rather than reporting them to the police).
The social media
Some guys love posting pictures with you on social media to gain the attention of the other woman they’re actually interested in.
Proving they’re desirable
Some guys only hang out with you to prove to other women that women like them and will hang out with them.
You may find yourself a trophy sometimes. Does he always take you to places where you must dress up and where you “happen to run into” a bunch of his colleagues? Uh-huh.
To make his mom happy
There is a good chance that that guy who only calls you every few months when his mom is in town does that so his mom thinks he has a stable relationship.
The style update
Some men do not know how to dress themselves, and they’ve figured out the outfits you pick out for them always get them attention from other women.
To upset other men
Is there a guy hitting you up who is friends with other men you know? There is a chance one of those other men likes you, and the one calling you does not like that other man. You’re just a pawn.
Mooches are real! They show up because you feed them. You don’t have to be a gourmet chef, but you make home-cooked meals like their mother used to, and you always send them home for leftovers. They’ll have sex with a woman whom they’re only sort of into for free food.
To prove they can
League climbers. These are men who chase women they consider out of their league just to prove to themselves they can get them.
To prove they’re down to earth
Some men get a lot of flack from their friends about “Only dating the hottest women.” So they go out and find what they consider a not-so-hot woman and date her to prove they aren’t superficial.
Both men and women are guilty of this! We’ve all dated someone for months (or even years) because we liked having someone to run errands with and watch movies with.