Tell Your Business Tuesdays: What I Wish I Knew Before Having Sex

Rondav77:

As a young man, I wish I had known that most of the time, a woman’s heart is attached to her vagina, in a sense. In my teenage/early adulthood years, I unintentionally broke several hearts without knowing it because I was too affectionate and passionate during relations.

My friends could have relations with girls, and they would still be cool down the line. Me? The girl would see me and give me the death stare, and I couldn’t understand why, especially when the girl herself told me not to “fall in love” before hooking up.

The reason: my friends would literally “hit it and quit it,” so the girls knew it was just a good time. Me, with my sappy self, did too much kissing, caressing, and other “sentimental” things during my hookups…all in the name of trying not make the girl happy and leave her with a good impression. Oh, the irony.