Still Faking Your Orgasms? Easy Routes To The Real Thing
When it comes to reaching the big “O,” climaxing occasionally is not enough. Luckily, the key to having more orgasms is just a position away.
Try A Different Route
Did you know there was such a thing as a nipplegasm? And that’s not the only alternative way to get off.
Mark Your Calendar
Did you know that your clitoris grows up to 20 percent bigger around day 14 of your cycle? Circle the date on your calendar to have the best sex of the month.
Make Some Noise
There is such a thing as faking it until you make it. Pretending like you’re close to an orgasm can actually get you there. You can even change the type of orgasm you have if you know the right sounds to make.
Lube, Lube, Lube
More than 50 percent of women report that using it makes it easier for them to orgasm.
Join A Gym
And not just for the eye candy. A few minutes on the treadmill boosts your testosterone and increases the blood flow to your nether regions by 169 percent. Put those two factors together and you get toe-curling post-workout sex.
Make Sure You Warm Up
Foreplay is a big part of the big “O.” It takes the average woman 10 to 20 minutes of foreplay to heat up enough to get to the finish line.
Focus On Oral
It’s the express train to O-town — if he’s doing it right.
Make A Commitment
Casual affairs can be fun. But women who have sex with their long-term loves have more orgasms.
Get Down Doggy Style
The position stimulates your G-spot and your clitoris, making it more likely that you’ll orgasm. Want to switch it up? These positions will get you there almost as fast.
Nerves can ruin your chances of reaching the finish line. To get yourself back in the mood, lie on your back and breathe deeply through your diaphragm. It not only helps you focus on sensation, but it also increases blood flow to move things along.
Increase The Friction
Getting on top doesn’t just put you in control. Rubbing against a partner’s pubic bone provides the clitoral stimulation most women need to make it happen.
Some men need a roadmap to help you reach your destination. Don’t be afraid to tell him when he’s on the right track or to switch things up if it’s not working.
Do It Somewhere New
Why do so many frisky couples like to do it outside of the bedroom? Out-of-the-ordinary sex increases the hormone dopamine, which can double your pleasure.
See A Doctor
If you’ve never had an orgasm, it might be time to tell your gynecologist. A physical hiccup could be keeping you from crossing the finish line. Or you could be one of 10 to 15 percent of women who are physically incapable of getting there at all.