We’ve witnessed Ciara in quite a few different relationships over the course of her career. However, it appears that the birth of her son, whom she shares with ex-fiancé Future, has given the 30-year-old a fresh and more mature perspective when it comes to love, dating and the male species.
“I think that the one thing that’s important for a man when it comes to love is just timing,” she told Noisey UK. “And that’s true for men and women. When it comes to love, females… we’re more likely to be more sensitive and allow ourselves to be more vulnerable.”
After surveying her personal experiences, the dancer came to the conclusion that there’s a correlation between where a man is in his life and his reluctance to give his heart away.
“Guys, they’re used to being a little more fearful when it comes to love. I think when they decide to open up to love it’s really about timing, and what’s going on in their lives and when they want to.”
She went on to reason that men, or anyone for that matter, shouldn’t be rushed into making those emotional commitments. They should ease into them naturally.
“You can’t force anybody to love, they have to want to do that themselves. I think men are very simple. We are way more complicated beings, as females.”
No argument here. She seems like she’s in a great headspace.
Check out Cici’s full interview here.