1. Ask to be Invited
My friends and I always tell each other that we all have an open invitation to visit whenever we want – and for the most part that’s true. But there’s a difference between visiting and STAYING – and in either case you usually shouldn’t just show up without prior notice. Whether you would like to come visit for a day, a weekend or a week, if you haven’t been invited make sure you ask your host when would be a great time to visit and be open to work around his or her schedule. We’re all busy, and the last thing we need is a guest just popping up disrupting the flow when we aren’t expecting them. Let them tell you when you can come visit.