Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Why Are Black Men So Disappointed With Black Women?

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Afiya: A man who has a 4 year relationship recently started chatting with me and we’ve been talking ever since. He stated that he wants a relationship with me because he doesn’t see the relationship he is currently in being life long. I do like him and he has shown me, through his time and effort, that the feelings are mutual. Should I keep him as a friend alone for now? How do I know if he is serious about a relationship with me?

DY: If he’s serious about getting out of his current situation, let him show you. But, until that happens, keep your distance. Because right now you’re interfering with a relationship you’re not currently in. 

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