Meet The Black Men: Kel Spencer
Occupation: Writer | Entrepreneur
Relationship Status: Newlywed
My definition of a man: A male who is strong, responsible, compassionate, consistent, and maintains a relationship with integrity.
The one thing I know to be true about women: ALL WOMEN seek security and consistency.
Three things every relationship should have are a mutual Understanding of/appreciation for each other’s character, healthy communication leaned more towards listening than wanting to be heard, like for each other. Love is the overall umbrella but liking each other gets you through the day-to-day.
My job as a husband is to be a priest, protector, provider, and play thang
Any woman I’m involved with must have a solid and progressive relationship with Christ, without being corny; be both intelligent and silly; be physically attractive/sexy; have a history of either playing a team sport or been involved with a high level group activity (Our marriage canNOT be her first team activity… no way), and a few other things…
On a first date, I pay/she pays/we go dutch: I pay
When dating, I approach first/wait for her to approach me: I approach
I want my legacy to be… A staple responsible for speaking into the lives of millennials and shifting/pushing us in a righteously progressive manor.