In my last article, What Men Really Think About Sex, I mentioned how many grown men look at the art of intimacy. I noted what really goes through a man’s mind when he’s about to get some steamy loving. Although sex is a major part of relationships, there is another activity that men seldom like to discuss – falling in love. Yes moms, it’s a scary topic for us to discuss openly, because we often fail at expressing ourselves clearly during the process. Men are sensitive creatures. We fear being hurt as much as you do.
Yet, we are often responsible for most of the hurting in relationships. Nonetheless, the hunter and pride within allows us to conceal our feelings better than women, and truly, we are sorry for that. As a grown man who has matured from a series of failed unions, at 40 years-old, I am more confident when it comes to discussing these critical love topics, because I think we can win at the love game – if we understand how to play it.
In this article: When A Grown Man Falls In Love, I want to dive into the deep and often murky waters of love, and what many men go through when they start falling. Just because sex with a woman is great and their oral game is on point does not mean a man will fall – foolishly at that. In his eyes, what he has with a woman may just be a sex thing – which is not always a bad thing.
That’s it – a continuous sex arrangement that may ride out for weeks and months with little expectations involved. If an arrangement starts getting into years without a formal commitment, there is love there, but with conditions. You may not reach the altar, but the union does have some sort of meaning. Both of you may be comfortable with each other. You may be each others rock during similar trials like a breakup or some other life drama.
To find out how men change when they’re in love, continue reading at MommyNoire.com