DON’T Rush Yourself Because Others Tell You To
Just like the “bitter broads” (I actually like that… maybe I can trademark it?), the people who are urging you to “just get over it and date” don’t really know what they’re talking about.
They don’t know what you went through, or how you’re currently feeling. They just want to see some forward motion in your love life; but if you rush into it it’s going to lead to some backward momentum, and no one wants that (just ask Newton).